WHY?[BESTFRIEND CRISIS] |
 Dec 16 2006, 07:39 PM
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<center>Ok me and my bestfriend have been "bestfriends" for about six years and yeah we do go through fights here and there...but this time its different....see i didnt do anything this time. n she has been reaaalllllllly irritated and not really talking to me. i dont kno what i did but everytime i ask her whats wrong she gives me this negative attitude and says "NOTHING!" or jus short answers....HER DISPLAY NAME ON HER PAGE IS "DAMN YOU CANT TRUSE NO ONE THESE DAYS" and she took off this lil poem thing she wrote bout me off her page...i havent done nething to make her do or not trust me!! today i talked to her and asked her wat she was doin tonite and she didnt write bak....then about n hour later she texts me back saying "sorry i didnt hear my phone" so im like thinking ok everything is fine. so i ask her what u doin tontie and she response with "hanging out with my "ride or die" chicks"..that hurt ALOT so i said oh....ok.... and that was the end of the conversation....i dont kno what to do and im in need a some advice...thanx
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Dec 16 2006, 07:42 PM
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hmm sounds like my situation. just not about calling and the poem part and the myspace lol.
well i didn't really try to get back with her and stuff. i just let it be. lol and the ride or die chicks was just f**ked up. well anyways. i think you should just let her be. i think she may need time from you. same with my friend, she acted like that to me, i just gave her space and then we're perfectly normal. i dont really know the situation from the beginning, but if she's going to get mad over something and wont tell you, what kinda friend is that? aren't friends suppose to be honest with eachother...? |
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Dec 16 2006, 07:45 PM
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yeah....but she is the type that will hold something in and when she has alot to say n doesnt say it one day she will jus exxplode.
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Dec 16 2006, 07:52 PM
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^ WOW that sounds VERY familiar.. some people know who im talking about [cough cough]
well just be like, _____ I NEED TO TALK TO YOU IN PRIVATE PLEASE. and just tell her you'll take her critisism and if she has something to say, to just say it. |
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Dec 16 2006, 07:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137 |
been there done that. same response. "nothing wrong...everything aint always about you"
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Dec 16 2006, 08:04 PM
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... what kind of friend is she? if she's not going to be a big person and at least say whats wrong, why still be friends with her? if she wont tell you, you can't force her to. just let her be and give her space.
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Dec 16 2006, 08:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,137 |
funnny. she jus called it was kinda quiet talks here and there...she was with her "ride or die" chicks...so i jus told her i g2g....
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