J'ai une probleme, I hate posting it here Options

[Gypsy Eyes]

ok, so I have a minor problem and I need an unbiased opinion (my friends don't give that). Ok so two guys told me today that they wanted to go out with me, I kind of like both of them but I like someone else more.

Do I go with:

1. The really funny and sweet guy who I love to hang out with but I don't find attractive at all.
or
2. The amazing guy whos slightly cute. I'm iffy about this because we are really close and I wouldn't want to screw that up.
or
3. Wait for the gorgeous guy who might not even give me a second glance.

[*krnxswat*]

1.
Hope you're not that shallow enough to not go out with a guy because his looks don't meet your expectations.

[CiNNYMON]

I say 1 as well.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

I missed out on a real sweet-heart because his unbelievably
sweet nature at some point made me want to barf.

Errrrm so attraction does play a slight role,
but it shouldn't just be physical attraction that should
matter in deciding such important matters.

Hrmmm personally I think,

1- Sounds like the best out of the three, but it's only a good idea to
chose him if you feel like you might be able to get to warm up to this guy.

2-Should be kept as a friend (being with close friends
most of the time screws the friendship up,
I usually regret getting in a relationship with those sort of guys!)

3-Errr.. It's good to reach out for a out of reach goal at times..
Go for it if you really want to put effort and or
be willing to be disappointed if it doesn't happen?

[*x1227x*]

1 because you'll probably learn to look past his looks & look at his personality.

[*Uronacid*]

alright, be real... chances are that this relationship isn't going to last forever... I think you should pick whoever you wiht you will have the most fun with.

1. Yeah, it sounds like he might be alot of fun, but if you just aren't attracted to him... are you really ever going to be happy? Yeah, you might like his personality, but I know that I personally can't feel good about starting a relationship with someone that I am not physically attracted to.

2. Seems like you know this guy pretty well, and you already like him. You think he's attracted, and you said yourself that he was amazing. The only problem is that you don't wan to ruin your friendship with him. Cmon, do you really think you will be friends with this guy for the rest of your life... I doubt it. Why not find out if he's the right guy for you? Also, if you guys really are great friends, I don't think you will ever loose that.

3. This is never a bad choice. Unless your standards are too high... you don't strike me as that type though...

[*krnxswat*]

alright, be real... chances are that this relationship isn't going to last forever... I think you should pick whoever you wiht you will have the most fun with.

1. Yeah, it sounds like he might be alot of fun, but if you just aren't attracted to him... are you really ever going to be happy? Yeah, you might like his personality, but I know that I personally can't feel good about starting a relationship with someone that I am not physically attracted to.

2. Seems like you know this guy pretty well, and you already like him. You think he's attracted, and you said yourself that he was amazing. The only problem is that you don't wan to ruin your friendship with him. Cmon, do you really think you will be friends with this guy for the rest of your life... I doubt it. Why not find out if he's the right guy for you? Also, if you guys really are great friends, I don't think you will ever loose that.

3. This is never a bad choice. Unless your standards are too high... you don't strike me as that type though...

You shouldn't bother posting on cB.

[*xcaitlinx*]

my opinion is that you shouldn't go out with any of them. if you really need to ask for people's advice about it because you can't make the decision yourself, then don't even bother. wait until you find a guy that makes you forget about all of your other options.

oh, and everyone thinks that she should be with 1, but how can she have a relationship (that will last for more than a week) if she's not even REMOTELY attracted to the guy?

[wishforhelsinki]

^ pretty much agreed. well, she just makes a point. but if you want my opinion, 3. sorry. i love the chase.

[*My Cinderella.*]

my opinion is that you shouldn't go out with any of them. if you really need to ask for people's advice about it because you can't make the decision yourself, then don't even bother. wait until you find a guy that makes you forget about all of your other options.

oh, and everyone thinks that she should be with 1, but how can she have a relationship (that will last for more than a week) if she's not even REMOTELY attracted to the guy?

^ I agree with you.

Seems like your feelings for these guys are jumbled. I don't think you should jump into any of these relationships so soon. I say niether.

[Gypsy Eyes]

Alright thanks for the advice guys, I don't think I'll go for any of them

[Mr. Slowjamz]

i say its up too you, its in Gods hands....or buddha if you might beieve in him instead feel the right karma . ( this might sound out of the ordinary.)

[LOWinSKANK]

don`t date a "gorgeous" guy just because of that. period. cancel any options like that one out. unless they have a good personality to go with their good looks, they`re useless.

[mzislandpinay]

kinda in the same situation as me.. bhu a little different..

i'd go on a date wit all three. I mean it`s jhus a date & it`s not like yall hookin` up or anything. Give people a chance. When you get to knoe them better maybe you're "answer" will be figureed out better.

But in my personal opinion.. if you don`t want to take the "risk" of loosin` his friendship & wha you two have right now.. then don`t. But the best relationships come from the best "friendships" khuz both already knoe each other you already skipp the stage of "becomnig friends"
But if you do decide to go with number 2. Be careful.. it`s a hard risk. But if both of you two beleive you can stick through it.. then it`s a good idea. :]

[revenge]

well, 1. sounds super cute and fun.
I think it depends what you want. like are you looking for a boyfriend?
or like... a boyfriend your gunna want to spend FOREVER with?
Cause I know some girls out there who just want to date...to date. To see something new
you know? but then there are otheres like who wants to that speical one, that one
to be FOREVER with. Cause if thats the case then you might want to go with 1. or somebody
worth being with for a long time.....till death even.

[*Infinite.*]

I agree with Seon Ho, unless your really that shallow to wait for someone with better looks to come around. I would go with the guy you enjoy being around and is a all around good guy and you think hes good for you.