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 Jun 3 2004, 09:49 PM
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 badminton rocks!!  Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031  |
 breaking up sucks... I broke up with my girlfriend like six months ago... And still, my heart aches for her... I really want to go on and not think about her anymore... but for some reason everytime I try to move on, I begin to think of her even more than usual. I want to get away from feeling this way... It's so stupid. I need some talking... I don't know what to do to get over her and lyk, none of my friends are helping me any because they don't know how hard it is to move on (b/c they all have their boy/gurl friend and they don't intend to break up)... aiyah...  :: chris :: |
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Jun 3 2004, 09:59 PM
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Wait, if you still feel like this for her, then why did you break up with her?
Or was it her who broke up with you? - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 3 2004, 10:03 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
I broke it off with her... well.. umm... she broke it off with me... uhh... we broke it off together? so... err... iunno... -.-
:: chris :: |
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Jun 3 2004, 10:10 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
so ummm why don't u get back together instead?
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Jun 3 2004, 10:13 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
I can't get back together because she's graduationg from High School and she is off to college... -.-
:: chris :: |
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Jun 3 2004, 10:40 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
oo yeh... i guess you havent moved on... either get back together or move on..
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Jun 4 2004, 01:23 AM
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*sigh* Yeah it sucks. My ex and I agreed to break up together. I miss him. But there's nothing you can do. This is just how life is.
You know, from your avatar, you really look liek my ex. It's the eyes. |
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Jun 4 2004, 11:45 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
you have to be strong and get by one day at a time .. it surely isn't an easy thing to get your heart broken and move on easy .. but you have to do what's best for you .. have faith that things will work out somehow in the end .. you will end up finding someone else that's even better to share your life experiences with or you may even end back up with her one day down the line .. but just keep doing what you have to do until then .. stay positive and open minded .. it'll help the days go by a bit easier ..
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Jun 4 2004, 01:31 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
=\ its ok..jus think that theres always friends that can support u and be there for u, hang out more =) dont worry u'll get over it one day.. jus think that if it was meant to be then it will be
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Jun 4 2004, 02:12 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 3 2004, 11:13 PM) I can't get back together because she's graduationg from High School and she is off to college... -.- :: chris :: so what if she's off to college, if u still have feelings for her.. than nothing could possibly stop you from being together right? |
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Jun 4 2004, 02:47 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 4 2004, 12:12 PM) so what if she's off to college, if u still have feelings for her.. than nothing could possibly stop you from being together right? i guess.... but.... the only thing that could stop me from being with her... is her feelings for me... I don't think she wants me anymore... cause I think she's moved on already... and I'm just being stupid, I haven't moved on... 
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Jun 4 2004, 03:03 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 3 2004, 11:23 PM) You know, from your avatar, you really look liek my ex. It's the eyes. hey.. cool... o(^.^)o or is it bad that my eyes look like his...? /(-.-)\ |
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Jun 4 2004, 06:03 PM
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yeah, i know how you feel. my boyfriend and i broke up a couple of weeks ago, and whenever i see him, my heart aches and i miss him so much. but i think i've moved on because i'm not so stuck on him. i say, give it some more time- try to find someone new.
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Jun 4 2004, 06:21 PM
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i know how u feel..but only time can heaL.
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Jun 4 2004, 07:47 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 4:03 AM) hey.. cool... o(^.^)o or is it bad that my eyes look like his...? /(-.-)\ Lol it's okay, it's not a bad thing. Everytime I see your avatar, it just reminds me of him. I get a nice feeling. 
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Jun 4 2004, 07:49 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 5:47 PM) Lol it's okay, it's not a bad thing. Everytime I see your avatar, it just reminds me of him. I get a nice feeling. I'm happy for that... I'm glad I give people nice feelings!!! 
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Jun 4 2004, 07:57 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 8:49 AM) I'm happy for that... I'm glad I give people nice feelings!!! Gawd you even sound like him. I'm just gonna run outta here now lol. *runs away* |
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Jun 4 2004, 09:06 PM
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yea, breaking up is quite difficult ... but here's your motivation to move on ... you know for a fact that if you two were to get back together, things wouldn't be the same ... i think you miss how things were before, not how things would be in the event you two made up ... think about having those feelings, possibly stronger ones, for someone else ... there's a saying i heard on a movie lol (for the ladies of course) ... "the best way to get over a man is to get under a new one" ... i know this doesn't apply to you per se, but i think attempting to meet someone new might be "in the cards" so to speak lol ... good luck sweetie, you seem like a really great guy
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Jun 4 2004, 09:07 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 5:57 PM) Gawd you even sound like him. I'm just gonna run outta here now lol. *runs away* ahhh... don't run!!! and geez... you sound exactly like my ex when she types... *raises an eyebrow* |
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Jun 4 2004, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 10:07 AM) ahhh... don't run!!! and geez... you sound exactly like my ex when she types... *raises an eyebrow* Lol could it be that we are two people pretending to be other people?  Hahaha... Damn this is frightening!
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Jun 4 2004, 09:14 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 7:08 PM) Lol could it be that we are two people pretending to be other people? Hahaha... Damn this is frightening!ahhh... i hope your not my ex... cuz if you are... I'M TELLING YOUR MOM THAT YOUR STALKING ME!!! lolz jkjk but nehoo... does your ex have blondish/brownish/blaq hair??? cheq da avatar thing!!! if he does... im scared too... lolz
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Jun 4 2004, 09:17 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 10:14 AM) ahhh... i hope your not my ex... cuz if you are... I'M TELLING YOUR MOM THAT YOUR STALKING ME!!! lolz jkjk but nehoo... does your ex have blondish/brownish/blaq hair??? cheq da avatar thing!!! if he does... im scared too... lolzHahaha... Yes my ex has hair exactly like yours. Longish bangs like those Korean guy singers. His hair is like black, brown and blonde... 
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Jun 4 2004, 09:28 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 7:17 PM) Hahaha... Yes my ex has hair exactly like yours. Longish bangs like those Korean guy singers. His hair is like black, brown and blonde... uhhh...  wow... hmmm maibs he and I are twins and you and my ex are twin(ettes) that would be hella funny and awsum ... or hella scary and freaky
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Jun 4 2004, 09:33 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 10:28 AM) uhhh... wow... hmmm maibs he and I are twins and you and my ex are twin(ettes) that would be hella funny and awsum ... or hella scary and freaky Lol there's a probability coz he was adopted... But hmm... How do you know I look like your ex? You only said we typed alike. 
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Jun 4 2004, 09:38 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 7:33 PM) Lol there's a probability coz he was adopted... But hmm... How do you know I look like your ex? You only said we typed alike. hehe yea datz true! i've never seen your pic XP but still, typing says a lot!!! so you guys could be... typing twins... lolz |
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Jun 4 2004, 10:19 PM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,660 |
moving on is hard but you also learn from the mistakes or whatnot and maybe meeting new people (not necessarily girls) will help you go through this breakup
i hope things end up well =] and gluck to you |
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Jun 4 2004, 10:23 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 10:38 AM) hehe yea datz true! i've never seen your pic XP but still, typing says a lot!!! so you guys could be... typing twins... lolz Lol we may be typing twins but I don't think we look anything alike.Coz it's just not possible that there's someone as ugly as me. Me:  I look like a total nerd before I got contacts and a new hairstyle... 
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Jun 4 2004, 10:28 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 8:23 PM) I look like a total nerd before I got contacts and a new hairstyle... yea, me too! lolz buh iss all gewd! buh nehoo, yea u guys don't look alike; she has loong blaq/brown hair and she's brownerer  lol
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Jun 4 2004, 10:37 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 11:28 AM) yea, me too! lolz buh iss all gewd! buh nehoo, yea u guys don't look alike; she has loong blaq/brown hair and she's brownerer lolI told you! Anyway, I used to always cut my hair. But then my ex told me he liked me with long hair better. So I guess I just kept my hair long. Even after we broke up.
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Jun 4 2004, 10:42 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 8:37 PM) I told you! Anyway, I used to always cut my hair. But then my ex told me he liked me with long hair better. So I guess I just kept my hair long. Even after we broke up. hey, long hair is pretty! (lolz yea...) ooo... when'd you guys break up...? just out of curiousity since, I'm guessing, your hair is still long...
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Jun 4 2004, 10:45 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 11:42 AM) hey, long hair is pretty! (lolz yea...) ooo... when'd you guys break up...? just out of curiousity since, I'm guessing, your hair is still long... Lol that's what guys always say. Girls look better with long hair. We broke up like 2 months ago. And yes, my hair is still long. *sigh*
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Jun 4 2004, 10:56 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 8:45 PM) Lol that's what guys always say. Girls look better with long hair. We broke up like 2 months ago. And yes, my hair is still long. *sigh* you wanna know something sorta funny... we used up so much space on this post i feel like i'm chatting on aim, but the response is soo much slower lolz!!!  And... idno... lolz, girls with short hair are pretty too as long as they feel good havin they're hair short! o(^.^)o |
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Jun 4 2004, 11:00 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 11:56 AM) you wanna know something sorta funny... we used up so much space on this post i feel like i'm chatting on aim, but the response is soo much slower lolz!!! And... idno... lolz, girls with short hair are pretty too as long as they feel good havin they're hair short! o(^.^)o Yeah I know! We've posted so much we should just chat on AIM. I think some girls are totally hot with short hair. Just depends on what kinda face structure you have. |
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Jun 4 2004, 11:08 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 9:00 PM) Yeah I know! We've posted so much we should just chat on AIM. I think some girls are totally hot with short hair. Just depends on what kinda face structure you have. yeayea!!! we should chat on AIM! o(^.^)o im me sometime (the sn in my pf is the old one >.<) new sn:saikyouchild! anyways.... you think girls are totally hot with short hair?!?! ahhhh, you sure you're a girl?! lol jkjk
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Jun 4 2004, 11:14 PM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 12:08 PM) yeayea!!! we should chat on AIM! o(^.^)o im me sometime (the sn in my pf is the old one >.<) new sn:saikyouchild! anyways.... you think girls are totally hot with short hair?!?! ahhhh, you sure you're a girl?! lol jkjkLol I said some girls look hot with short hair. Like Ayumi Hamasaki! And I have a few friends in school with short hair and they llook so adorable! Lol I'm a girl! It's true! Stop looking at me like that! Alright, I'll just IM you before they kick us out of this place for over-posting. My SN is xolovelywinterox. My ex made that for me. Gawd I'm depressing.
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Jun 5 2004, 10:42 PM
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Time heals all my friend try lookin for someone else and forget about her if u cant then tell her wats on ur mind and find out if she likes you back......good luck hope u feel better
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Jun 6 2004, 02:00 AM
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QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 3 2004, 9:49 PM) breaking up sucks...well thats the understatement of the century but i cant give you any advice bcuz it took me like a year and a half to get over my ex -.- |
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Jun 6 2004, 03:12 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
yes it does. I really don't want my bf and I to separate.
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Jun 9 2004, 06:58 PM
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why in the world did you break up with her then, sounds as if youre in love
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