I like my best friend.. should i tell him?his 4 other friends like me Options

[anonymousgirl123...]

Well, he lives across the street from me his name is richard and we go to the same school and we're bestfriends.. i REALLY want to tell him. but last time this happened, things went weird and awkward because we were both shy. and i dont want us to become distant..
should i tell him or not?? and waht should i do? =[

erm.. i have another problem. im not the type of girl where i would hang out with girls, so i hang out with him and his friends. and well, theres these three boys;; Dylan, Ryan, Kyle, and Montana.. and they all told me they liked me
but they feel like a brother to me. and i already told them, and i dont want them to feel bad and stuff. but my girl-friend [friend] told me to go out with ryan because hes nice and stuff, but i dont want to. because i Really like my bestfriend richard....
and i dont know who to choose or what to do.. can anyone help me? >_<


help meeeee D:

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Well, aren't you in a predicament.
If these '4 other boys' like you but you dont like them, they shouldn't even be a factor in this. Suck it up, grow some balls and tell this guy or go on living life too scared to get what you want. (:

[anonymousgirl123...]

b' date='Dec 9 2006, 10:11 PM' post='2369966']
Well, aren't you in a predicament.
If these '4 other boys' like you but you dont like them, they shouldn't even be a factor in this. Suck it up, grow some balls and tell this guy or go on living life too scared to get what you want. (:

ok thank you =]

[_sarcastic_]

i agree with Hiphop d[-_-]b

you should tell him how you feel about him, who knows maybe he has the same feelings too

[OhMyAnniee]

Does Richard ever say stuff about them? Or comment on how they like you? Because that could give you some clues.

But you should tell him. After you tell him you should that if he doesn't like you then you guys can just stay best friends because I wouldn't want to lose my best friend over something like that. So warn him that it's alright to say no. & even if he doesn't like you, hey, you've still got a great friend by your side!

[tokyo-rose]

You shouldn't go out with someone because a friend tells you to, or because they're "nice." It's your love life, so do what you want with it as long as you're using common sense. If you feel strongly about Richard, bring up the topic of going out and see how he feels about it. If not, leave it alone and try to move on.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

ok thank you =]

[anonymousgirl123...]

well, i mean.. like 1/2 weeks ago me and richard were hanging out with our friends at 8 outside. our friend david.. he was bothering richard about asking 'Her' out. and that if she rejects him then that'll suck. so i didnt want to listen so i didnt. =/
then when we got back inside at 10. we went on Aim and he asked me if i knew why david was bugging him in front of me. and i said no cause i really didnt.
and he told me that he told david that he liked me and then david told him to ask me out but then then richard didnt want to because i was a really good friend of him so yeah.. i mean. it felt good to know that he Did like me, but then it got kind of =[ cause he didnt want to ask me out. but its all good. i just dont really know if we should at least Try it out.. and ask him. but yeah.. should i ask him if we can try out being together? :O

You shouldn't go out with someone because a friend tells you to, or because they're "nice." It's your love life, so do what you want with it as long as you're using common sense. If you feel strongly about Richard, bring up the topic of going out and see how he feels about it. If not, leave it alone and try to move on.

welll.. i Try to use common sense, but theres alot of things going onr ight now. so its hard. =/

[-sincerely]

if you don't like them, they shouldn't be a factor.

[anonymousgirl123...]

Ooooh.. ok..
well.. hm.. i think richard knows i like him T_T; it just seems like it =/
and then my friend david said that dylan is going to ask me out over break. =/
and then if i say yes, richard will know :O