I think he likes me...and I'm a lesbian., He's practically stalking me! Options

[broken inside]

So, I'm a lesbian. There is this Junior at my school (I'm a sophomore) who sits diagonally behind me in Japanese class, first period. I'm not used to anyone liking me, no one ever has, so I'm thinking maybe I'm over reacting. Here is what he does:

- Writes all over my arms to get my attention in class.
- He was drawing apicture of ane eye and grabebd my face to see my eyes, when he looks at other people for referance her does not do that!
- He walks me to 2nd period every day, no matter what. If we don't have second, he walks me to third, on the other side of the school!
- He rubs my head alot!
- He talks to me about hentai, sex, porn, etc.
- He tells me that when he watches girls to jumping jacks in PE his penis gets so hard he can't sit down.
- My sweatshirt said "Cute but evil". He said he disagreed with one part. And that he'd let me choose.
- He told me I'm attractive.
- I keep seeing him...everywhere.
- he asked for my e-mail...and gave me his!
- I help him in class and he says "I love you".
- He wants to switch seats with the guy next to me.
- More stuff, too lazy to type.

Don't tell me to give him a chance. It's like telling a straight guy to give his gay roomate a try. No. I don't like guys...like that. It's creeping me out. Part of me is praying that I'm over reacting. Am I? Are all Juniors in high school weird or something? I'm not the kind of girl who would be liked by a junior.

I half want to ask the teacher to move away from him. I'm one of the only people in that class who knows what they are doing, so she likes me. She would move me away. But he would fail the class for sure if I didn't help him. I'd feel bad because that would be all my fault.

So...how do I get him away? I can't just say "I'm a lesbian, back off!" because I dodn't need people knowing that, and what if he doesn't even like me and I'm paranoid? How can I hint to him that it would not work? So far my only ideas are to mention the gay-straight allience, or tell him I have a bf in nevada. Any other ideas?

[tooeffingcrazy]

I'm not used to anyone liking me, no one ever has, so I'm thinking maybe I'm over reacting.

Shuttup and appreciate it. It won't last long.

If you're annoyed that much, just tell him you're gay.
Hint out: "My girlfriend..."
Unless you're still a closet-case.

[OhMyAnniee]

Maybe you can have one of your friends like help you out? Like have them wait for you outside of class so you have a reason to ditch him (haha). Well, I would find out if he had a girlfriend but if he liked you then he might think that you like him so that wouldn't work....

Hm. I think I'll edit this later when I come up with something better.

[xlitoxb]

Wow.. I agree with hardxcoreLOVER and have a friend wait for you outside of class. That reminds me of this kid in school that used to bother me all the time. I just ended up ignoring him and giving him attitude whenever he was bothering me. I guess if it comes to worse case scenario, just tell him to back off because you don't like him and that he bothers you. *shrugs* Or just tell him that you like someone else? Good luck to you! =]

[elaboratedream]

that situation's always hard... if you're uncomfortable with telling people about your sexuality, I'd suggest just mentioning that you like someone (never mention the gender) that you met over the weekend or something.
use a name like... idk. Jessie or something. A name that can be for either guys or girls. ramble about this person a lot when he's around and eventually he'll get the hint that you dont like him
if you dont care if he finds out that you're a lesbian, then hint at that. I like your idea of mentioning GSA.

idk. its alwasy awkward when someone likes you and you dont like them back. just try to drop hints that you dont feel the same.

[tokyo-rose]

He definitely likes you, and it's getting to the point of creepiness how much he does. Just tell him that you can tell he likes you and that you're sorry, but you don't like him. If people don't know you're a lesbian yet, then you don't need to add the part about liking girls and not boys. If he doesn't let up, move your seat and avoid him in the hallways.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Come out the damn closet then.
Dont be afraid or ashamed of who you are.

[me1issaaaa]

^ I think she already has... not sure, though.
TELL HIM YOU DON'T LIKE TESTICLES. Maybe he'll get the hint?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ Yeah her post was little misleading but when she said

I can't just say "I'm a lesbian, back off!" because I dodn't need people knowing that,

it implies she's still in the closet =\

[multifaceted]

do not be ashamed of your sexuality because it is nothing to be ashamed of. Just tell him that you are not interested and back off. If you guys are friends then just say you are a lesbian and let him deal with the rest. If he still likes you even you've told him your sexuality and that you are not interested, then I guess enjoy the ride. A little attention couldn't hurt. right?

[Stefanny]

Well, this is bad.

Just make sure he doesn't like...hit on you. That would be strange, eh?

[*suddenly she*]

well, instead of "i'm lesbian, back off"
how about, "i'm not attracted to you, eff off"?
same concept, and it's the truth.

[piratesandbullsf...]

I had the same problem so i avoided him which wasn't really hard because I never saw him anyway. You could do the whole "it's not you I don't like, I just don't want a boyfriend right now". Which isn't really lying but by right now you mean ever.

[minioligo]

Actually, that guy sounds more like an ass than somebody liking you. But if he really does, then just tell him you don't want a boyfriend right now. Orrr....you could come out of the closet and just tell him the truth (:

[jennyjenny]

i think it would be fun to play along with it

[*x1227x*]

o_O;;.. why would you care if he likes you..? it's not like you'll like him back since you're a lesbian right..? o_o just be like "why are you doing this?" "do you have feelings for me?" just be straight forward [?] that's what i would do.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Scream.. " BACK OFF I LIKE BUSH "

And if anyone asks.. just say your a republican. =-D

[*kryogenix*]

You should film a sitcom about it. Call it 2 girls, a guy and a Japanese class.

[broken inside]

b' date='Dec 9 2006, 9:08 AM' post='2369073']
^ Yeah her post was little misleading but when she said
it implies she's still in the closet =\

Most of my close firends know, some think I'm bi. I'm not completely closted, but I just don't know who he will tell and I don't need rummors about me, as my best friend is female and very out and proud.

[datass]

Tell him to leave you alone because you're not interested in him Or you can start coming out and telling people you're a lesbian and accepting who you are.

[*Uronacid*]

I remember when I was in high school I asked out a lesbian and she told me straight out. After she told me that I wasn't interested in her at all. I think you should just come out of the closet. I mean, all the way...

If your friends are cool with it, then you shouldn't have anything to worry about.