how would you react?, some guy stuff x] |
 Nov 30 2006, 12:20 AM
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 chinky  Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437  |
If you liked a guy, but your friends didn't approve of him. What would you do?
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Nov 30 2006, 12:43 AM
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Eh, depends on why they disapprove of him..
I would only stop liking him if he treats my friends badly (or something similar to that). If it's for some stupid reason (like they think that he's not hot or something superficial), I wouldn't really listen to my friends. |
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Nov 30 2006, 01:01 AM
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| *salcha4u* |
Nov 30 2006, 01:12 AM
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Use my superconvincing powers :)
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Nov 30 2006, 01:26 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i'll wonder why my friends dont approve of him
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Nov 30 2006, 01:27 AM
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 it's just me ;) Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,527 |
my friends are incredibly wise when it comes to guys being bad.
only problem is, every guy I pick starts out being cool, everyone likes him... but ends up being a retard at relationships. so I'd listen to them, even thought they didn't listen to me (3 of them dated the same guy even though he cheated on all three) *rolls eyes. |
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Nov 30 2006, 03:01 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well...none of that happened to me =S. Guys that I've liked are usually friends/classmates that we all know...but if they did I'd wonder why, ask them about it. If it's some stupid excuse, I wouldn't care much...but if it's for a much serious reason, then I'll maybe re-evaluate it.
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Nov 30 2006, 10:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I would take a second look at him and try to see the reasons my friends didn't like him, but if I thought they were overreacting I would date him anyway. If I get hurt, it's my fault.
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Nov 30 2006, 11:20 AM
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 And in that moment...I swear we were infinite Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 407,922 |
i usually ask why they don't like him and if it's a stupid excuse, go right ahead and get to know him better. like someone said, if i get hurt it's my own fault.
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Nov 30 2006, 12:41 PM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
ask them why they disapprove of him and then listen to thier reasons, take a second look at the guy, if it makes sense then i'll leave him, if not and they are being paranoid then let them get to know him and prove them wrong, but if they are right and i stayed with the guy and i do get hurt i know its my fault.
it's happened before, some approved and others disapproved, with a few of the guys i've been with and well the ones they disapproved...most of them i ended up not going out with anymore because of other reasons even before they told me they disapproved. |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 30 2006, 04:33 PM
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id evaluate the reasons why they dont like him
if its for stupid reasons then i dont listen if i know they are right then i listen |
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Nov 30 2006, 05:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
They have their opinion, I have mine.
They should tell you why and then support you after you hear their reason. |
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Nov 30 2006, 05:58 PM
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 the bird and the bee sides! Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 |
Well I guess I'd go with my own instinct, but if my friends had a really relevant and influential reason why I shouldn't like the guy, then I'll listen to them.
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| *x1227x* |
Nov 30 2006, 06:44 PM
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QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Nov 30 2006, 1:33 PM)  id evaluate the reasons why they dont like him if its for stupid reasons then i dont listen if i know they are right then i listen yeah i agree. if its a retarded reason, i wouldn't pay attention. =P but all the ppl i fell for are ppl my friends know. |
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Dec 4 2006, 09:14 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,198 |
Some of my friends are worth listening to, so if they have something negative to say about a guy I like (besides teasing and whatnot), i usually take it into consideration. A lot of times they can see things about the dude that i don't.
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Jan 17 2007, 01:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,881 |
hmm leave them jk forget about the guy or keep thing on the down low but i rather have friends over guys
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Jan 17 2007, 01:15 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
I don't give a crap about it, actually. Sometimes, I regret it though since it always turns out ugly.
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Jan 17 2007, 01:45 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Usually my friends are pretty right about the guys I'd date.
I would def listen to them, take what they have to say and think about it. However, the bottom line, it's my choice and my relationship. But I know they are looking out for me, so I trust them. =MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS= |
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Jan 17 2007, 01:48 AM
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 and so it is Group: Human Posts: 1,304 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,085 |
QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Nov 30 2006, 12:01 AM) I would assume my friends would be homophobes. LOL.  Umm, I'll find out why they don't like him & maybe arrange a mini get-to-know-eachother party. I don't know. It's never been a problem. |
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Jan 17 2007, 01:51 AM
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 keep it on the hush(: Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,637 |
yeah it really depends alot on exactly WHAT it is they don't like about him. my friends always seem to be right about boys i like. of course, i don't listen to them & i regret it later when i find out they were right. so, take into consideration what your friends think
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Jan 17 2007, 07:41 AM
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 The Official Romanista Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,222 |
I wouldn't care if my friends cared what girl I go out with, as long as it's something that can be resolved and we can hang out like a big happy family.
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Jan 17 2007, 03:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,534 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 170,127 |
Well, I would try to find out why they didn't like him and if it's true or if I'm just so infatuated I can't see it. Though I pride myself in being completely unaffected by romantic feelings, so. With time, they'd come to accept each other. I've not liked my friend's others but with time I was fine and even grew to be friends with them. So just time.
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Jan 17 2007, 04:05 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
I would ask them why and take actions from there.
But most of the time my friends and I don't do the whole, disapprove or approving business. If stuff happens. Why do we have to act upon them by someone else's personal preference anyway? We should be able to makeour own decisions in some areas. |
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Jan 17 2007, 04:36 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i wouldnt care what my friends thought of the guy i liked. id ignore my friends and just go out with him if i really liked him.
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Jan 17 2007, 05:44 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
Consider their opinion, but yours is of the utmost importance.
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