Do you want to date someone... |
 Jun 3 2004, 10:35 AM
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Different then you?
Different personality? I would want to date someone different then me, cause if we are to a like I dont think it would work out well... |
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Jun 3 2004, 11:02 AM
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Well I guess it depends... I mean there are pros and cons.
The pros... The relationship will be interesting. There's always something new to share and to learn. You guys will be able to convince each other to do new stuff each day. The cons... If you're different personality wise, you'll definitely have different opinions on certain things. And that'll just lead to fights. Example me and my ex. We were two very different people. We had a lot of fun together. I'm the more tensed kinda person so when we're together, we do fun things. And it's really great coz we could talk about everyhing and anything. But we had fights. A lot. And these fights were all about pretty stupid things, if you think about it. But not as stupid as fish food.  But all these fights effected us. It effected what we thought about each other.
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Jun 3 2004, 01:29 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 3 2004, 11:02 AM) Well I guess it depends... I mean there are pros and cons. The pros... The relationship will be interesting. There's always something new to share and to learn. You guys will be able to convince each other to do new stuff each day. The cons... If you're different personality wise, you'll definitely have different opinions on certain things. And that'll just lead to fights. i diffently agree!! but it would be cool if i dated sum1 unlike myself... ill learn alot more! |
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Jun 3 2004, 01:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,245 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,033 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 3 2004, 1:29 PM) i diffently agree!! but it would be cool if i dated sum1 unlike myself... ill learn alot more! same here like ashley  but she said shed never go out with me or like me so i feel un-special... 
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Jun 3 2004, 05:05 PM
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 SARAH <3s YOU Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,959 |
i would like to date someone.. well iut actually depends who though..
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Jun 3 2004, 05:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
I'm just saying, you need some diversity in a relationship... like me and my ex girlfriend were just too a like... I need someone thats a little different then me
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Jun 3 2004, 06:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,258 |
i want some diff and opp of me. to complement each other. complement each other's flaws so that it could be like one perfect person. so that we would grow as a person by each other. and learn too
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Jun 3 2004, 06:36 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
my baby is the complete opposite of me .. that's one of the things that made me extremely attracted to him .. if he were like me it would be too predictable and there's be nothing exciting in our relationship.
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Jun 4 2004, 03:39 AM
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Yeah, it depends among the pros and cons of the girl that I would date...
But is it true that opposites do attract?  Ha Ha Ha
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Jun 4 2004, 03:57 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(the_average_xangan @ Jun 4 2004, 4:39 PM) Yeah, it depends among the pros and cons of the girl that I would date... But is it true that opposites do attract? Ha Ha HaDefinitely! I am very attracted to bad boys. Lol not that I'm a good girl or anything. 
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| *Kathleen* |
Jun 4 2004, 10:25 AM
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I would actually like to date someone that has many similarities with me so we can freely talk with each other. On the other hand, I do want to have some things that are different so it gives us time to share things the other has not experienced before.
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Jun 4 2004, 10:51 PM
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 badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
hmm... this will be a good post for you ( i hope )
So yes, my ex and I were so different. She liked to go church and help out, I liked to help out in public community stuff. She liked watching love movies (ewww), I liked watching action movies. Different things are good!!! but then again... different things are bad... Since we had very little in common, when we'd get in a fight about something, she would tell me "You don't understand!!! You like something different than me! You really can't say anything about it!!!!" and blah blah blah... so it'd be a good thing if you had half and half, you know?! you like about the half the same things so that you both will be happy! yes... yes... yes... have differences, but not hella, ayte?! 
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Jun 4 2004, 10:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Jun 5 2004, 11:51 AM) yes... yes... yes... have differences, but not hella, ayte?! Yeah that's the most perfect one. Like my ex and I had a lot in common, we liked a lot of the same things. But personality wise, we were very different. But it's okay coz there's a balance you know? |
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Jun 4 2004, 10:59 PM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,660 |
i would want him to have several similarties but at the same time have differences.. if we were too alike (like seth cohen and anna.. I LOVE THE OC) i think it would get boring and be too predictable like what NvieDi3ai3yGrL said
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Jun 5 2004, 01:07 AM
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oh, i never thought about this...maybe someone different, someone kinda the same personality then me but i take her if she's explicitive (maybe lolx), can call herself dirty's girl and can get down and dirty okay maybe not...
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Jun 5 2004, 03:07 AM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
i wanna date someone a little different that me with a different personality. does that make sense?
 jackie
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Jun 5 2004, 05:22 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
I'm not really sure because I would wanna have things in common with the other person but I would date a person different just not too different..
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Jun 5 2004, 06:34 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Some things in common are good.. but I mean my bf is alot different than me.. But the coolest thing about dating someone different is... that when You TWO hook up, you both start to talk and you BOTH might find some cool things in common =D And you guys can open up yoru perspective to different views towards things.. like life, love, education, etc. =P
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| *jimmyjackiechan* |
Jun 5 2004, 07:21 PM
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It's different and a challenge i think.
But it;s kinda hard to meet in the center/middle on a dicision I think |
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Jun 5 2004, 08:47 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
yes i have a"crush" on this guy and *sigh* how i liek him. lol
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Jun 6 2004, 03:21 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
[not really. I mean, we'd be so different.
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Jun 6 2004, 04:25 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
i dont think it would matter if we were alike or opposites..if you have feelings for someone you cant realli stop it..
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Jun 7 2004, 03:29 PM
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badminton rocks!! Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,031 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 4 2004, 8:54 PM) But personality wise, we were very different. But it's okay coz there's a balance you know? yawp yawp, I agree with ashley!!! a bf and a gf gotz to have half good and half bad. cause if you both like everything and have everythign in common, there will be nothing fun and interesting for you to experience, you know? so yea... balance is great! |
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Jun 8 2004, 10:28 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
WELL I ALREADY HAVE S0ME0NE... WH0 IS DIFFERENT THAN ME..HES WAY SMARTER THAN ME AND HE L0VES EXERCISING... HEHE^^;; BUT ME...ERMM HEH LETS SKIP THAT 0NE HAHA... NEWAIS I WAS THINKING LIKE IF I LIKE A GUY WH0 HAS THE SAME INTEREST IN ME...THEN THAT W0ULD BE A PERFECT MATCH... AND YEAH I WAS RIGHT L0LS... WELL JUSTIN AND I HAVE THE SAME INTEREST T00 WHICH IS A G00D THING^^;; HEHE BUT WAT IM SAYING IS THAT S0METIMES IT'S N0T ALWAIS G00D HEHE... S0ME RESULTS C0ME 0UT BAD. S0 LIKE 0NE 0F MY FRIEND, ANGELA WH0 SAID LIKE SHE WANTED T0 DATE S0ME0NE DIFFERENT...LIKE T0TALLY DIFFERENT. WH0 D0ESNT HAVE THE SAME INTEREST LIKE HER, BUT I T0LD HER THAT S0MEDAY U GUYS WILL BREAK UP CUS U GUYS WILL G0 IN A DIFFERENT PATH... BUT F0R HER IT CAME 0UT 0K... HEH SHE STARTED T0 LIKE HIS INTEREST AND LEARN FR0M IT AND THE GUY LIKED HER INTEREST S0 SUDDENLY AND STARTED T0 LEARN FR0M HERS...S0 I GUESS YEAH HEH^^;;
. . I H0PE U GUYS KN0W WAT I MEANT L0LS. S0RRY IT`Z L0NG HAHA BUT I HEART TYPING!! . . 
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Jul 3 2004, 08:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
i guess i'd rather go out with someone like me. i have to be comfortable with him to keep a conversation otherwise it'll be awkward for me
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Jul 3 2004, 09:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
i would date someone different cus being with the same people gets boring.i can also learn more things
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Jul 3 2004, 09:21 PM
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omgshers i would loveee to date someone completely dif than me..itd be totally awesome. i mean thas wut i usually go for no doubt..Buh the opposite of my kind usually dont want me bak..ya kno?
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Jul 3 2004, 10:53 PM
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 lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
errrr...no..i'm dating someone that's wayyy different than me ...and you guys can see the TORTURE i'm going through..nonono...someone like myself will be easier for both os uf to understand each other..=)
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