reason of break ups |
 Jun 3 2004, 07:25 AM
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 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904  |
State reasons you and your other half broke up.
It might be useful for those who want to break up with their BF/GF but aren't sure exactly why.  Sometimes when a person breaks up with someone, it doesn't he/she doesn't love that person anymore. It's just that, there are other things that must come before love. Lol both me and Susan did this, break up with the guy we love not because we stopped loving him, but maybe because of our personal issues. At least Susan knew she made a mistake and got back with Justin, me? *sigh* I still regret but there's nothing I can do anymore... Meh, I go off topic so easily. Anyway, here's some of the reasons I've used. "I don't feel the same way anymore." <--- Too many people use this one.  "I just need to concentrate in my studies for now. " <--- Guys who really respect and care for you will let you go if they hear this one. "You're too f***ing horny damnit!" <--- Yes, I actually had to use this... But he really was too f***ing horny.  "Well, the school year's gonna end and we're going to different high schools now... So I guess this is it huh?" <--- Best used in middle school where no relationship is serious. 
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Jun 3 2004, 09:25 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
ughhhh ex long term relationship bf... we broke up because he moved, and we didn't get to spedn as much time together anymore
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Jun 3 2004, 10:00 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
1st boyfriend: the stupid sh*thead hooked up with my best friend at my birthday party when we started drifting and i told him i was getting feelings for someone else..
2nd boyfriend: he was a sweetheart but not my type .. he always let me have my way and that's not what i needed .. i needed someone who knew how to tame me .. i'm still with my 3rd man so we'll see.. |
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Jun 3 2004, 10:09 AM
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 Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
oooh
 that is sad!! however nothing should come before love--- yeah i'm a romantic haha
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Jun 3 2004, 10:33 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
1- juss wanted to be friends
2- was too sensative for me 3- lied cheated and started doing drugs again.. 4- eehh broke up with me in a stupid note... and speard crappy rumors 5- eehh i felt diguested being with him |
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Jun 3 2004, 02:01 PM
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 ;D* Group: Member Posts: 244 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,940 |
1st -- i didn`t see our relationship going anywhere. after he moved out of state, i knew he wouldn`t move back to cali and i would NEVER move out of cali... plus, the whole religion thing...
2nd -- distance and we were at different places in our lives. it was a high school relationship and a lot of times, after you graduate, they don`t last very long. we were at the time where he wanted to party his ass off while i was more focused on school and what was important to my future... plus, the distance between us allowed him to get closer to other people... which he did. |
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Jun 3 2004, 03:36 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Yeah, distance is usually the reason. But sometimes, if your love is really strong, I think the relationship can make it.
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Jun 3 2004, 03:45 PM
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 samurai champloo! Group: Member Posts: 748 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 2 |
ex: uh hey we need to talk
me: yep ex: uhm I think... me: yeah it's mutual ex: oh ok me: yep ex: ok. have a good rest of summer me: yep see ya soon It was mutual. |
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Jun 3 2004, 03:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,245 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,033 |
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Jun 3 2004, 10:33 AM) 1- juss wanted to be friends 2- was too sensative for me 3- lied cheated and started doing drugs again.. 4- eehh broke up with me in a stupid note... and speard crappy rumors 5- eehh i felt diguested being with him same here ..*cough* i stole shIte hmm..they cheated on me and told me how ugly i was uhh...thought i was too young wtf thats gay thats it.. 
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Jun 3 2004, 03:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,245 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,033 |
QUOTE(nas @ Jun 3 2004, 3:45 PM) ex: uh hey we need to talk me: yep ex: uhm I think... me: yeah it's mutual ex: oh ok me: yep ex: ok. have a good rest of summer me: yep see ya soon It was mutual. thats also how it was with me til we got back together!
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Jun 4 2004, 03:38 PM
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 . . . 1's and 2's. . . Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,948 |
1= she thought i was to young . . . and she only wanted sex !
2= i didnt care for her ! 3= i didnt even know her damn name ! 4= she thought she was to good for me ! 5= i didnt try hard enough to love her 6= i cheated on her . . . HAHA 7= she wanted space so she could go back to her stupid boyfriend ! 8= i only wanted to get some . . . didnt get any , (she broke up with me) |9|` stilll with her . . i really love this one and im not going to do anything wrong! |
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Jun 4 2004, 05:25 PM
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 old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
my first..girls would flirt [and he'd flirt back] in my face! and he asked my best friend out on a date...but my best friend told him off and told me. and he only dated me for my assests.
great for my first. 
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Jun 4 2004, 05:53 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
my first boyfriend broke up with me because he liked flirting with other girls and didn't want to be stuck with only one girl. he started it by saying that he really likes me, but wanted to end it. it was sorta mutual because we were drifting apart- but that was the stupidest thing i've ever heard.
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Jun 5 2004, 05:46 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,738 |
bad communication
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Jun 6 2004, 02:53 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
hmm..
> it's not you, it's me. (hahah.. right.) > it just got boring. > we could still be friends.. > you never seem like you care anymore. > you checked her out! |
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Jun 6 2004, 03:10 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
1) he cheated on me
2) lack of communication lol |
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Jun 7 2004, 04:15 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
i usually break up with my boyyfriends cos im just not attracted to them anymore or they change over time ((for the worse))..but i've gotten broken up with
1::because i was in san francisco for a week and he said i wasnt spending enough time with him that week ((uhh hello..i was 9 hours away loser)) and 2::he got mad at me cos i couldnt go to the movies one night so him and my best friend ended up making out and going out |
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Jun 7 2004, 04:51 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
"I decided to join the Soviet Red Army and fight for the glory of the Proletariat and the Motherland." --> My favorite one.
Or, "I'm dating 'Sarah Schmidt' right now sorry..." [inside joke] |
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Jun 7 2004, 04:54 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
1- he broke up with me .. we were together for 4 days .. ugh i wondered why i ever trusted him ..
2- too annoying and overprotective .. wouldnt even let me talk to other guys .. and also i started liking someone else .. and .. single right now
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Jun 7 2004, 05:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,265 |
He wanted to go further but i didnt....also he cheated on me and denied everything...dumbass
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Jun 8 2004, 12:12 AM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
I once got dumped for no reason...Getting dumped for no reason hurts the most
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Jun 8 2004, 12:14 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,488 |
#1. I kind of stopped liking him and told him we should be friends
#2. He was too old for me, and he was kind of too horny and he creeped me out during the relationship #3. Went back to his old gf #4. While on vacation, he met someone and just lost interest in me #5. Stopped calling me and seeing me completely over the summer?! And told me he was "too busy and had no time." HELLO?! You couldn't give up 1 minute of your "busy life" to call me to tell me that you wanna break up?! |
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Jun 8 2004, 09:30 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
YEAH I BREAK UP WITH HIM CUS 0F MY PERS0NAL ISSUES. HEH BUT I STILL L0VED HIM S0 MUCH U KN0W?^^;; HEHE AND HE LIKE IS MY MISSING PIECE. MY HEART WAS MISSING A PIECE AND THAT WAS JUSTIN... HE HAD THE MISSING PIECE. S0 IF 0NLY I G0T THAT BACK MY HEART WILL BE HAPPY AND WILL L00K LIKE THE SHAPE 0F A HEART^^;; WITH0UT HIM ALL MY HEART WILL BE BR0KEN INT0 PIECES EACH BY EACH...S0 YEAH BUT HE SAVED IT^^;; HEH. BUT F0R U, I D0NT KN0W WAT HAPPEN T0 U! U MUSTVE L0VED HIM S0 MUCH, HUH? YEAH THERE S0 MANY GUYS/GIRLS WH0 L0VED THEIR L0VED 0NES, BUT HAD T0 LET G0... AND THEY MAKE THESE DUMB EXCUSES LIKE SAYING "0H I D0NT LIKE U N0 M0RE. BLAH BLAH" BUT THEY REALLIE D0, BUT THEY G0T THIS PERS0NAL ISSUE G0ING 0N THEIR LIFE THAT THEY SAID STUFF LIKE THAT...BUT IT CAN HURT THEM T00 U KN0W? YEAH NEWAIS ALL IM SAYING IS THAT...
. . THERE ARE S0ME WH0 HAVE A G00D REAS0N T0 BREAK UP CUS 0F THEIR PERS0NAL ISSUE AND ALL. S0 YEAH THAT`Z ALL IM SAYING CUS ALL GIRLS/GUYS C0MPLAINS "THEY HE/SHE NEVER L0VED ME?" S0METHING LIKE THAT HEH... CUS I WAS IN THAT SITUATI0N BEF0RE... LIKE A YEAR AG0? HEH MY EX... HE DUMPED ME AND SAY STUFF LIKE "I G0T C0LLEGE W0RK PR0BLEMS." BUT THEN HE TELLS ME "IM S0RRY, I STILL L0VE U TH0, BUT I JUS HAD T0 LET U G0. I WILL BE BUSY EVERYDAY. S0 I CANT BE THERE F0R U. AND U NEED A GUY WH0 WILL BE THERE F0R Y0U DAY AND NIGHT. S0 I THINK U SH0ULD M0VE 0N" HEH...S0 YEAH... . . SIGH... |
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Jun 8 2004, 09:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Jun 8 2004, 10:30 PM) BUT F0R U, I D0NT KN0W WAT HAPPEN T0 U! U MUSTVE L0VED HIM S0 MUCH, HUH? YEAH THERE S0 MANY GUYS/GIRLS WH0 L0VED THEIR L0VED 0NES, BUT HAD T0 LET G0... AND THEY MAKE THESE DUMB EXCUSES LIKE SAYING "0H I D0NT LIKE U N0 M0RE. BLAH BLAH" BUT THEY REALLIE D0, BUT THEY G0T THIS PERS0NAL ISSUE G0ING 0N THEIR LIFE THAT THEY SAID STUFF LIKE THAT...BUT IT CAN HURT THEM T00 U KN0W? YEAH NEWAIS ALL IM SAYING IS THAT...  I feel like crying after what you wrote...
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Jun 8 2004, 09:53 AM
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1 | didn`t give a reason but got his sister, who was my best friend at the time, to do it «-he broke up wif me
2 | i didnt like him, but i got my friend to break up with him so i don`t kno wut he sed to him 3 | he told me he didn`t really like me like that 4 | i wrote a note sayin that he shouldve been with some other girl, because they wouldve gone out with eachother if it wasnt for me.. 4.5 | but he sed he's glad they didnt go out and some other stuf, so we hooked up again, and this time he broke up with me saying that it just didn`t feel the same 5 | he broke up with me saying i acted too shy and he said that it felt like i didn`t wanna go out with him 6 | i don`t kno yet because i`m stil goin out with him! ~!o4 . 16 . o4!~ haa, i`m stil a jit so these relationships are like, all in middle and most likely #6 will go to my freshman year with me.. lol |
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Jun 8 2004, 11:10 AM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
One got shot by the Wehrmacht durign the Brusilov Offensive.
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Jun 8 2004, 11:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 421 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,135 |
i've barely dated anyone but some that i've dated wanted to do things that i refused so i ended it.
my current boyfriend had a problem with our age difference at first but he got over it. |
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Jun 8 2004, 12:28 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
yea i hate regrets!! soo bad grrr. but its k u'll be able to move on find someone else dat u love n loves u back.
eryone does. 1. i still donn know why i broke up w/ him i used to regret but i moved on/lost hope 2. too horny 3. never really liked him in da first place but then afta few days da guy dat i really like even be4i met dis guy asked me out (finally) 4. he couldnt get over da fact dat i still had feelings for my first bf..so we broke up, but i regret dis one too bcoz we broke up over a stupid reason dat damn first bf so i lost him i guess u can say i still regret5. toooo pressed, overproctive, ANNOYING |
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Jun 8 2004, 12:37 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
on halloween he was superman when i was 12 years old and he had a huge ass boner through his spandex costume
it was just to much for me hahahahah |
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Jun 9 2004, 12:24 AM
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 YÖWTF Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,680 |
cAb3rTo Posted: Jun 4 2004, 3:38 PM
QUOTE 1= she thought i was to young . . . and she only wanted sex ! 2= i didnt care for her ! 3= i didnt even know her damn name ! 4= she thought she was to good for me ! 5= i didnt try hard enough to love her 6= i cheated on her . . . HAHA 7= she wanted space so she could go back to her stupid boyfriend ! 8= i only wanted to get some . . . didnt get any , (she broke up with me) |9|` stilll with her . . i really love this one and im not going to do anything wrong! Damn....!! good luck on your 9th one hun....  Anyway,1st : He broke up with me cause we didn't see each other, and i couldn't go out much. we only saw each other...2 times a month for 3 months.We never hugged/kissed! 2nd : I was desperate, and he asked me out, I didn't even like him or know him that well, he was my first kiss.. Now I think back, wtf.? 3rd : On this one, I was reeeeeallllllyyy desperate, he was one trick arse boy... We tounged and hugged like I didn't know what's happening, and he was a pessimist, bad looks, so my friend went up striaght in his face and told him that (me) didn't want to be with him anymore. I was so relieved yet ashamed. 
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Jun 9 2004, 12:56 AM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
Eh.. boyfriends -.-
:1st boyfriend: [reason one] After like 2 min of goin out, he changed into a completely different person. [reason two] All he ever talked about was how much he wanted to kill himself and how nobody loved him(even though I always told him I did) [reason three] He got annoying -.- [reason four] When I asked him out, he said no and asked me out the next day(wtf?) [lasted about four days] :2nd boyfriend: [reason one] We hardly ever talked. [reason two] He was trying to hook up with another girl. [reason three] He was only going out with me because he though I was hott (I'm not anyways) [eh.. a week and a half? not sure because he had to ask me out twice (first one was on the internet)] :3rd boyfriend: [reason one] Horny perv. [reason two] All he ever wanted to do was kiss. [reason three] He always talked about porn with my bro.. RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!! [reason four] He kept kissing me RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY DAD [reason five] He liked to make big scenes in public (like, he got into this big argument with his friends and stalked them around the mall, this chick threw soda at him) [the reasons continue in a very long list-.-][two weeks] I always gotta have more than one reason. But seriously.. why can't I get a nice boyfriend? [maybe I like girls now.. ]
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Jun 9 2004, 01:24 AM
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QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jun 9 2004, 1:56 PM) :3rd boyfriend: [reason one] Horny perv. [reason two] All he ever wanted to do was kiss. [reason three] He always talked about porn with my bro.. RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!! [reason four] He kept kissing me RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY DAD [reason five] He liked to make big scenes in public (like, he got into this big argument with his friends and stalked them around the mall, this chick threw soda at him) [the reasons continue in a very long list-.-][two weeks] And I thought there wasn't anyone more horny that my other ex... Talking about porn with your bro?! That's messed up man. |
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Jun 9 2004, 02:02 AM
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 mizgeralyn ;D Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,888 |
i broke up wit my last because i ended up cheating but didn't feel it was necessary to keep putting him through that because he was too far . i ended up moving BACK . and we messed .
another one of my exes. i broke up wit him because he wasn't acting the way i wanted him to and i didn't feel i could change him, plus i didn't want to be wit him that bad to try to make things work . i wasnt really much into either of them though . |
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Jun 9 2004, 05:33 PM
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 *~extraordinary~* Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895 |
first- i told him that i liked him when he had to move...and we started to have a relationship online but only through email and then suddenly he stopped talking to me.
second- he said he had studies to worry about...but I don't believe him because later, i heard that he just followed what this guy told him to do...to break up with me! 
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Jun 9 2004, 05:48 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(YOWTF @ Jun 9 2004, 1:24 AM) 1st : He broke up with me cause we didn't see each other, and i couldn't go out much. we only saw each other...2 times a month for 3 months.We never hugged/kissed! yeah, this was probably the real reason my boyfriend broke up with me- we didn't really see each other that much and barely had anything to talk about. |
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Jun 9 2004, 05:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
My boyfriend of 18 months broke up with me not too long ago. He did it after school, didnt act different or anything. He first said that the feeling just wasnt there. But that was a lie, he later said it was there strong as ever. But im a junior and he is going to be in college next year, he wants to experince life, and he thought it would be better to end it now rather than draggin it on and ending it whnever school started. Eversince then he has been one of the biggest jerks i've known in my life. ugh guys... ill never understand them!
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