saying no?, to someone who asks you out |
 Nov 25 2006, 04:36 PM
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how do you think is the best, nice way to say no when a guy asks you out?/////
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Nov 25 2006, 04:39 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
just say no, that sorry you're not interested and only see him as a friend.
don't do what i did and run away. haha. |
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Nov 25 2006, 06:27 PM
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"im lesbian"
half lie since im bi... hehe thats nice enough. |
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Nov 25 2006, 06:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,786 |
Well, I hate rejection so if a guy asks me out, I just say yes and if I don't like them, I learn to. I currently got rejected though and it kinda made me blow steam because the guy said he likes me.
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Nov 25 2006, 07:37 PM
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^^^^how do you do that?????????????????????
900TH POST. |
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Nov 25 2006, 07:53 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
"I like you too...but only as a friend, and nothing more. Sorry but I really don't see us in a relationship right now...." something along those lines.
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Nov 26 2006, 03:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
"I'm sorry, but I don't like you that way. I still care about you though."
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Nov 27 2006, 01:57 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
just say
"no i like someone else" OR "no i see you as a friend" OR "im not ready for a realtionship right now" OR "lets get to know each other first." just whatever sounds nice. 
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Nov 27 2006, 03:42 PM
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 I've got ADD and magic markers. Oh the thrills I will have. Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,743 |
^You're so smart. And you also took the words out of my head.
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Nov 27 2006, 04:20 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Its not that hard.
"I normally don't do this with men I've known for such little time, but Brandon, I'd like to see where a relationship could take us." "Um.... no. "...." "Yea... no." "Bad timing?" "No, not that. You're very attractive. I'm just not interested." "Why not?" "You're not my type." PWN3D |
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Nov 27 2006, 05:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
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just say... 'no.' and just walk away... kel clark song. if you dont know/like that person then just say no, im not interested. |
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Nov 27 2006, 05:46 PM
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"Sorry, I just don't have the time for a relationship right now."
That's definitely what I'd say. |
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Nov 27 2006, 06:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
^ That's what I told this kinda creepy guy in eighth grade. -shudders-
(Jeffrey, if you're reading this, think Jon Lockwood.  Right after Anita.)
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Nov 27 2006, 06:16 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
I just straight up say .. I'm sorry I only like you as a friend.
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Nov 27 2006, 07:40 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(ANGEEZY. @ Nov 27 2006, 5:16 PM)  I just straight up say .. I'm sorry I only like you as a friend. Ouch. The FRIEND ZONE. I'm a cold-hearted bastard when I want to be but I won't go that far. |
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Nov 27 2006, 07:53 PM
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^^yeah thats so cruel compared to ."yeah no" and "your not my type"
so... |
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Nov 28 2006, 12:50 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
"No thanks, I have better things to do with my life.. Like watch TV."
:) |
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Nov 30 2006, 12:28 AM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Nov 28 2006, 12:50 AM) "No thanks, I have better things to do with my life.. Like watch TV." :) LOL!!  dang poor guy who hears that..lol |
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Nov 30 2006, 12:37 AM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(iROCKYOURSOCKS @ Nov 30 2006, 12:28 AM) LOL!! dang poor guy who hears that..lol Meh.. I've said it to a guy. But it wasn't really serious. |
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Nov 30 2006, 01:18 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,917 |
God I only recently learned how to reject people that ask me out.
And I'm still uncertain about my method..  If I had the guts I would most definately want to say. "sorry.. I just don't think of you that way.." though somewhere in my mind the words I actually want to say would usually be, 1) ain't interested kid. 2) eh, the thought about you + me scares me 3) Okaaaaay.. Now that's awkward.. >.> usually it's friends or close male friends that usually ask making it extermely difficult. Espcially if it's face to face I just choke up and just go with the nodding and the yes-ing and the hoping that it works out or dies quickly.  |
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Nov 30 2006, 11:07 AM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(creamyxlicious @ Nov 30 2006, 1:18 AM) God I only recently learned how to reject people that ask me out. And I'm still uncertain about my method.. If I had the guts I would most definately want to say. "sorry.. I just don't think of you that way.." though somewhere in my mind the words I actually want to say would usually be, 1) ain't interested kid. 2) eh, the thought about you + me scares me 3) Okaaaaay.. Now that's awkward.. >.> usually it's friends or close male friends that usually ask making it extermely difficult. Espcially if it's face to face I just choke up and just go with the nodding and the yes-ing and the hoping that it works out or dies quickly. It's a lot better to say what you really want to say upfront instead of saying something else and allowing what isn't being said to do all the alking. /redundant |
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Nov 30 2006, 12:19 PM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
"sorry, i just think that we're better off as friends"
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Nov 30 2006, 12:21 PM
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 R U A Q T ? [; Group: Official Member Posts: 7,276 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,631 |
"i only like you as a friend."
simple as that. |
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Nov 30 2006, 02:26 PM
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 it's just me ;) Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,527 |
used most recently, when the guy asked me in a NOTE
(c'mon, we are 18...get some guts): "I thank you for the compliment. I know it takes a lot of courage to ask a girl out, because I know rejection is a key factor. so it means a lot that you were brave enough to ask. however, I am sorry to say that I do not view you in that way and can only think of you as a friend. I am sorry again." I had known the guy 2 days when he asked me out... and I didn't even know his last name... but he became my "stalker" so I don't talk to him anymore... |
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Dec 1 2006, 01:21 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Aw, notes.
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Dec 1 2006, 01:53 PM
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it's just me ;) Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,527 |
I'm sorry, but when you are a SENIOR in high school
I would think you don't need to use the note system anymore... |
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Dec 16 2006, 05:54 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
rejection is just an answer. its worse if u lead the person on, then they'll definitely hate you.
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Dec 17 2006, 01:31 AM
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 baby, you wouldnt last<3 Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 413,445 |
I always use 'Sry, I'm just not ready to be in a relationship right now.' They don't seem to talk to me after that..
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Dec 17 2006, 01:33 AM
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"sorry, i only see you in a friendly way," or
"sorry but im just not ready to be in a relationship." |
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Dec 17 2006, 02:14 AM
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QUOTE(rawr SOCK @ Nov 27 2006, 5:46 PM) "Sorry, I just don't have the time for a relationship right now." ^ Same here. Couldn't have said it any better.
That's definitely what I'd say. |
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