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 Nov 24 2006, 05:33 PM
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okay so my best friend is going out with this guy
and this guy is always calling me and texting me we talk for hours and hours couple days ago he admitted he liked me and i liked him too im starting to fall in love witth him more and more and he said hes falling in love with me more and more too he asked me out the other day and i said yes but my best friend doesnt know anything about this like half of me doesnt want me to mess up what they have and the other half wants me to be with him i know its wrong but i dont know what to do what should i do |
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Nov 24 2006, 06:15 PM
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 Interdimensional Cat Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,663 |
I really do hate to say this, but it looks more or less like "what they have" has already down the shit-hole.
But think about this... how long have they been together? How short is his attention span? |
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Nov 24 2006, 06:23 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 477,865 |
i think its gone down the shit hole too
since he wants to be with me also they only been together for like a month and a half and idk about his attention span |
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Nov 24 2006, 08:37 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
The way I see it is: if he could do that to your friend while going out with her, then he could probably do the same to you when you two are going out. And as for what you should do...if you value your friendship with your friend, you'd talk to her about it, not going behind her back. Friends over boys anytime, just remember that. Because right now....you're hiding this from her, and it won't pretty when it comes out in the open.
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Nov 24 2006, 10:03 PM
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QUOTE I really do hate to say this, but it looks more or less like "what they have" has already down the shit-hole. agree  if you REALLY want to go out with him, you can try to tell it your friend in the easiest way possible. im not sure it will work, but i hope everything works out.  sorry if my advice makes it worse or piss your friend off or anything negative 
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Nov 24 2006, 10:18 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
i don't want to sound mean but the guy is not worth it. first of all, she's your best friend. you could potentially ruin your friendship. second of all, your best friend and this guy are still together. what makes you think it's okay for him to ask you out and for you to accept? at least have the decency to wait for them to break up and for the hurt to lessen. if you really didn't want to ruin what they had, you wouldn't have accepted when he hasn't broken things off yet.
if this guy could get together with you while he's with another girl, he probably has the ability to do it to you in the future. |
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Nov 24 2006, 11:18 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,767 |
wait, so they are still dating and you said yes anyway?
well, i understand your feelings for him, and everything, and i've been there, and it's hard, but you have to choose what's more important to you, your friendship with your friend, or him? that's probably hard, but realistically, it a decision you hve to make... |
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Nov 25 2006, 04:02 AM
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QUOTE(Endless_Symphony @ Nov 24 2006, 9:18 PM)  i don't want to sound mean but the guy is not worth it. first of all, she's your best friend. you could potentially ruin your friendship. second of all, your best friend and this guy are still together. what makes you think it's okay for him to ask you out and for you to accept? at least have the decency to wait for them to break up and for the hurt to lessen. if you really didn't want to ruin what they had, you wouldn't have accepted when he hasn't broken things off yet. if this guy could get together with you while he's with another girl, he probably has the ability to do it to you in the future. ^^ my point exactly hes not one to be trusted. and that was a really bad friendship move i might add by chosing him over your best friend feelings for him or not a girls rule of life is to never be the other woman of your best friends relationship. |
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Nov 25 2006, 12:43 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
stay away from him. thats your best friend now...what happens if he does the same to you and now your out of a best friend. i mean damn that is your bestfriend
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Nov 25 2006, 01:07 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
IMO, I think you did wrong. Badly. Boys come and go, but your best friends are always going to be there. Personally, I think you should end things with this guy and just stay friends, because once your friend finds out (and she will find out inevitably), all Hell will break loose.
And I agree, this guy is definitely not worth it. Especially if he's insincere enough to be with your best friend, yet want to go out with another girl? Much less, her best friend? That has hurt and idiocy written all over it. Imagine how your best friend is going to feel.  Good luck. 
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Nov 26 2006, 02:21 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with everyone.
forget about this guy, if he's doing this to your bestfriend he's most likely gonna do this to you too. afterall i really don't think you'd wanna ruin a perfectly good relationship with her over this guy who isn't worth it. |
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