Lesbian/Bisexual, Experiences, thoughts, etc. Options

[saywhat_sayme]

So, yeah. The title's kinda self explanitory.

I was wondering what girls here are lesbian or bisexual, when they realized they were bi, and their coming out story.
If you're not lesbian or bisexual, then just give your thoughts.


Personally, I'm bisexual.
I guess I've known it for my whole life. I remember being on the beach when I was real young and I saw some really fine chick walk by in a bikini. And I remember coming out to my cousin and brother when I was also really young. I remember a bunch of lesbian thoughts from when I was younger.
Then I realized that, to a point, it was fairly socially unexpectable. So I denied it to myself and didn't tell anyone. Then I remember just laying on the couch watching Zoro with my mom and when Zoro was slashing off Cathrine Zeta-Jone's dress, all I wanted was for him to slash off more. Then I just admited it to myself and I didn't care.
I came out officially in 8th grade. Including my parents. No one cared. So it's all good. Now I'm in 10th grade and I'm the best known bisexual/lesbian in my grade at the very least.



So yeah. What about you guys?

[*a painefull euphoria*]

im bisexual.
ive known since 7th grade that i fell in love with my best friend.
it seemed like she saw through my sharp edges.
and saw me for a beautiful person
i really dont care when i say this.but the womens body is more beautifull than a mans.
even tho they are both nice.
i am open to only my friends and boyfriend.
but not my mom.
shes an extreame catholic
=/
but either as lady Sovereign says.
"if you love then f**k you
if you hate me then f**k you"

[Rachel]

Well, I think I am bi-curious. I haven't like fallen for a female or anything, but I do enjoy the female body more than the male. I think women are beautiful and are better kissers. That being said though, I don't know if I could settle for a faux-penis.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

^^ahah faux penis.
thats a odd way of putting it.

[tokyo-rose]

For a little while in 6th and 7th grades I questioned my orientation, but later on I realized I was most likely heterosexual. Ditto Rachel_is_love a bit too. I've never had a crush on a girl but I think females can sometimes be more physically attractive than males.

[mylittleMiracle]

Well, I think I am bi-curious. I haven't like fallen for a female or anything, but I do enjoy the female body more than the male. I think women are beautiful and are better kissers. That being said though, I don't know if I could settle for a faux-penis.

Yeah agree here.Between most of females care more for you.

[*mishyerr*]

I suppose homosexuality completely; I'm basically bi-curious. Right now I have a boyfriend, so I'm not sure if that makes me heterosexual. *Shrug* It doesn't really matter to me. I think in the future, everyone's going to end up bisexual.

[timeflies51]

I've been questioning for over a year now, and I've pretty much decided that I'm bisexual, just more attracted to guys.

It all started when I realized that I was developing a crush on one of my friends, which also made me realize that I had been looking at girls a bit differently lately. I tried to convince myself that it was just going to be a phase, but it became clear that this just wasn't going to go away. She gave me butterflies, and I would lose my breath if I saw a girl that was really attractive.

I didn't want to come out to anyone in case it was just a phase. But eventually I told my lesbian friend, who supported me and made me face the reality that it probably isn't just a phase. When I would hang out with people outside of my town, they were always cool with it, and talking about it made me feel more comfortable, that it was just who I really was.

I'm still being a wuss about coming out to anyone in my town because I'm afraid that they won't believe me. Bisexuality is being questioned so much now, and so many people think it's for attention, especially my dad, which makes it so hard. But hopefully, one day I'll get the balls to do it.

I have a boyfriend now, and what's kind of ironic is that everyone thinks he's the one who's gay (stupid stereotypes). How funny that it turns out I'm the one...


(EDIT)


I came out to my best friend the other day, and it turns out that she's bisexual, too! Haha, that was the most unexpected thing ever.

[lalalaLANUH]

Well right now I'm kind of questioning it. I'm not sure if I'm just bi-curious or bisexual. I know I like guys...but I've always thought the female body was more attractive than a males. I also kind of think I just MIGHT have a bit of a crush on my best friend...so yeah. Somewhere between bi-curious and bisexual right now =)

[helloxtine]

i wouldn't really care if one of my friends are bisexual/lesbian/gay. I mean the first thing is that it's wrong to hate someone just because they're gay. If they wanted something from me then i would completely come out to them and say i'm completely straight. I think it's fine being besexual/lesbian/gay it's just you expressing yourself

[-sincerely]

my friend is in 8th and she came out to me like last month.
she's bi.

[creamyxlicious]

I sometimes look at other girls and think to myself,

"Jebus christ she's gorgeous!"

I look at their wonderfully proportioned bodies,
their tan skin, the elegant look on their faces,
their slenderness..

Let's just say if looking at other girls and admiring them
for their beauty is what makes a girl
bisexual then I'm guilty as charged.

[broken inside]

I'm questioning, I know I'm not struaght. I'm pretty sure I'm les. Some people know I'm bi, only two know I'm confused.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

you know for us bisexuals and lesbians and also gays
i was wondering if we should start a club on here unless its been done before?

[-sincerely]

I sometimes look at other girls and think to myself,

"Jebus christ she's gorgeous!"

I look at their wonderfully proportioned bodies,
their tan skin, the elegant look on their faces,
their slenderness..

Let's just say if looking at other girls and admiring them
for their beauty is what makes a girl
bisexual then I'm guilty as charged.

i do not think it does.

[docsgirl]

I went through a phase of my life where i thought i was bisexual. I had a crush on this girl and i swore i was bisexual, but i never came out to anyone. After i went to college i realized it was a phase. While i find the womans body can be arousing, i could never picture myself having a relationship with a woman.

I prefer the penis.

[*xcaitlinx*]

i guess i used to be "bi-curious". i never had a crush on any girls, but i wanted to experiment. i ended up experimenting with my friend a couple of years back and after that, i've never thought about doing it again. im completely heterosexual now.

[synthase]

err..i really dont know what stage i am in..:\

[mznikki]

one of my best friends came out as bisexual.. well she prefers just "sexual" but anywho i was surpised at first but then looking back from when we were younger and more recently it makes more sense, but i have no problem with it, and another one of my friends told me she was bi-curious before she left for college, i don't have problems with it and i've always supported them, always will and always have. i also went though a phase thinking i was bi, was just bicurious, never had any crushes on girls or anything like that but it was only for like a few weeks and then i knew i was heterosexual.

[creamysmile11]

I THINK IT IS TOTALLY INCORRECT AND JUST COMPLETELY INSANE TO BAN GAY MARRIAGES.

we cant change who we are, and if the president doesnt care for the people of our country and our needs, he should not be a president at all.

we are in f_cking iraq, killing our own men, for gods sakes..

[*My Cinderella.*]

I'm straight but my sister is lesbian. I'm alright with it and I have nothing agaisnt. Let the people be with who they want to be with.

[*Zatanna*]

I think the best thing to do is to not think so hard about it. Go with your feelings and what your body is telling you.

I'm a straight shooter primarily, but I've had experiences with women and they were wonderful.

[*chaneun*]

my piano teacher was a woman.

does that count?

[AMY DOOT]

I am not but I have two realy good freinds that are Lesbians and I don't care that they are But they do seem to show up alote when I am laying out on my deck

[*a painefull euphoria*]

my piano teacher was a woman.

does that count?

what the hell?

[its_simplysweet]

im not really sure wht i am. i do date guys, but sumtymz, i check out girls & mess around with them. i've kissed umm, 4 girls but only on the lips, they werent willing to do french, but me, i was tempted to. lol :] im soo lost if im bi or not.....

[cheri_pi]

I have no idea what I am. I do find the female body way more beautiful than a man's, and I sometimes find myself staring at girls boobs (but that might be because I have none myself ;) ).
I do like the idea of marrying a man though, and having that protection from a strong man... Haha that sounds cheesy.
So yeah, I'm confused. Maybe I'm bisexual or a lesbian or straight, but it's too soon to tell for me, I think.

Once I was turned on by a woman (a music video), but health class says that that doesn't mean anything, because we teenagers are so f**ked up hormonally that we can get turned on by anything and it doesn't mean anything...

So yeah-- I'm confused and a little scared.

Not that I'd mind being gay- I'm a huge gay rights' activist actually, and my family's Jewish so we have no anti-gay religious problems...