Can you go out w/ someone younger than you? Options

[lamorena]

Do you think its weird when a girl is going out with a guy a year younger? Cuz I like this guy but he's younger.

[VAS]

absolutely not.

[Gigi]

I'll always think it's a little bit weird, especially during your school years. But I've always been old-fashioned. I say go for it.

[*Girthy*]

JKFAJKLJGAKLJGA
doesnt work out.
it's like going out with someone shorter then you

/suzette

[smileeetina]

JKFAJKLJGAKLJGA
doesnt work out.
it's like going out with someone shorter then you

/suzette

True. I went out with this boy 1 year younger then me. WORST RELANTIONSHIP EVERR.
But hey, we're entitled to our opinions. If you like him enough, go for it.

[*mipadi*]

Don't worry what other people think—do what you want.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Don't worry what other people think—do what you want.

Yup. That's what I'm doing right now :) And it works.

[tokyo-rose]

Yes, of course you can go out with someone younger. I know someone who's in a relationship with someone a few months younger and it's working out just fine.

[-sincerely]

Do you think its weird when a girl is going out with a guy a year younger? Cuz I like this guy but he's younger.

no way! i've liked this guy, school wise a year younger than i, birthday wise 10 months and 6 days younger than i, and nothing was wrong with it. psstt, i think he liked me back, rofl. but nothing ever happened, we're both shy. but anyway. my friend is going out with a girl who's a year older than him for a few months now. nothing wrong with it. :D

JKFAJKLJGAKLJGA
doesnt work out.
it's like going out with someone shorter then you

/suzette

my friend is a year younger than me, and he's taller than i am. and i'm kinda tall.

[mznikki]

nothings wrong with that i went out with a guy who was a year younger than me and he looked older. and my freinds some of thier bf's are younger than them by a year.

[_sarcastic_]

if you really like him then go for him. one year difference isn't really a big deal

[Watttt]

SO YES i dated a girl a year younger than me for a while..now shes stalking me go for it .love should not be held back by such trifle matters as race or age

[technicolour]

Nope. My friend is doing it.

[*My Cinderella.*]

As pedopilish as it seems, I do like younger guys. In my opinion, I don't see any problem in going out with someone a year younger than you. Like Mipadi said, don't worry about what anyone else thinks. Do what you wanna do.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

a year younger is nothing.
im dating someone a year younger than me no big difference

[*Infinite.*]

There's nothing wrong with it if your comfortable with the difference, and don't care what others may think of it.

I don't see why it would be that big of a difference though. I personally, just like dating people older than me.

[JustAnotherTeena...]

my cousin went out with two guys (at two different times!!) that were both 8 months younger than her. One lasted a total of 81 days (they went out 3 different times) and the other was 13 days. He was an idiot so she dumped him.

it depends on how old you both are. i mean if you're like, 12 and he's 11, that age of guys is really immature, but if you're past guy's puberty stage, it's fine

[pinayprincess]

the youngest ive been with was born in september, while i was born in june [of the same year] soo.... i guess if hes a yr younger.. idk its kind of akward... my sister is a year younger and it would feel werid...

[angelrevelation]

there isn't anything wrong with it, as long as you don't find it weird... but i personally usually don't find younger guys attractive. i always see them as little kids, even if they're only a year younger

[PandaKnight14]

Ha. My girlfriend is a year older than me AND she's shorter than me.

[*chaneun*]

my cousin's husband is 2 1/2 yrs younger than she is.

[Laughsalot]

i prefer to go out with someone that has the same maturity level as me. thus an older guy

[iDecay]

As long as they're on the same maturity level, sure. I'd rather date an older guy, though.. But uhh.. who knows?

[SimplicityGirl]

As long as the maturity levels match, age isn't too big of a factor.

[EddieV]

um...my girlfriend's younger than me...

[datass]

I went out with someone 3 months younger.

I mean, of course you can go out with someone younger than you, just not too much younger, for example, 5 years.

[quinntastic]

Not wierd at all if he's mature.

[SarahxJoy]

I've never been with someone who was younger than me, unless it was by a few months or something. But never because I'd never go out with someone younger, but just because I've never been attracted to someone who is.

There's nothing wrong with it.

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

I guess it depends on the age difference. Like if you're in highschool it shouldn't matter, but usually it does to other people. I agree with quinntastic. But, me being almost 17 wouldn't want to date a 15 year old. That's almost jailbait

[creamyxlicious]

I'm in one of those sort of relationships right now.

A while back I used to think so lowly of the idea.
But now I'm beginning to see what my friends have told me.

Age doesn't matter too much if it's nothing exterme..
It really depends on the person you got your eye on.

I'm finding the guy I'm with quite a lovely experince,
he's surprisingly quite maturer and reacts to situations very
well for someone that hasn't been in many relationships.
[/obviously proud of the boyfriend]

I say don't limit yourself because of society's point of view!!

Go for it if it's what you want!

[rAwritsgWeg]

Yes you can. Age shouldn't really matter(Unless its like ten years ahead :P)As long as you love each other and are there for each other, that's all that matters.

[*Uronacid*]

It depends, and here is a good example. If both you and your partner are out of high school even a 7 year age difference doesn't really matter. If your out of college and your partner is 7 years younger than you and still in high-school you might be taking on a real challenge. The problem I see is that you are both at different stages in life. In this situation if you are the older of the two people in the relationship you will find that you occasionally belittle your partner without even realizing it. You don't do it on purpose. The things that are old to you are new to them. You have been through the situations that they are beginning to face.

I'm 20 and Holly is 15, and there are definitely times when I f**k up... Just last night I was helping her with homework, and when I asked for help on mine I think she was a little worried about helping because I'm in college (She's really smart though). This is just one of many situations we run into because of our difference in age. Things like that take a little getting used too. Sometimes I feel like I might give a little to much insite on things and I feel like I'm being more of a DAD than a good boyfriend. She yells at more for it, and I really appreciate that because otherwise I would have no other way of practice my boyfriend skills.

I'm sure we have gone though more tough times than we realize due to the age differences we share. Really when it comes down to it, you just need to accept your partner for who they are and treat them as an equal. You won't get it right at first, you may never be perfect, but you can always get better through practice.

Although I'm in a relationship with someone who is younger than me and love them very much, I would suggest suggest against getting into a relationship with someone who is a different stage of life than you are. It's difficult, and at times it's tough to relate to them. There are good things that come out of it, but for most I'm sure the difficult times would out-weigh them. I suggest getting to know the person you're thinking about getting into a relationship with before even considering it. Also, make sure that you aren't the type that looks down on someone for their age (example: Seniors looking down on freshmen.). If you are the type of person that made fun of all the freshmen in high school... I would definitely suggest against it.

The BOTTOM LINE:

THIS IS WHAT I HAVE LEARNED!! DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT, AND LEARN FROM IT.

[Just2Fresh]

Aint nothin wrong with goin out with someone younger than you. My girl is a few months younger but were in different grades. It all depends on how mature the both of you are and if you can work it out. Who cares if your a sophmore going out with a freshmen for example. Dont let other people tell you what you feel is right is wrong just because of a years age difference or grade difference.