what people REALLY want in a relationship, tell people what you reallyy want! :) Options

[xmusic]

have you ever read a myspace bulletin saying "guys read this this is so true!" or "what a girl wants"? it makes me think to myself what do people in relationships REALLY want?

girls want some things guys want other things. so lets tell each other what these things are shall we? :]


i want..
- someone honest
- funny
- perverted but only to an extent
- someone who will say its cute when u do odd things
- an easy going person


ohh snap new ones!

- someone who i can have a full conversasion with. not one of those. hey. *pause for a min* soo. wats up?. not much. cool. *pause again* anyway. >>;
- someone who interests me. and doesnt just fill the conversasions with "i love yous" or "i wanna be with yous" or anything mushy like that. its cute but not when its all u talk about.
- someone who will still let me be independant and do my own thing. but at the same time show concern for the things i do.

[dysfunctional_he...]

I want..

1] Someone who is funny, but at the same time, can be mature

2] Someone who will listen to your problems and help you to the best of your ability.

3] Someone who loves all your weird quirks

4] Someone who believes your perfect

5] Someone who will fight to the bitter end to make sure that the relationship works

[-sincerely]

^^^^ i agreeeeee. espically the fifth one. i hate when people like each other just for looks or money or something.

[redpeony]

- honesty, openness
- ability to talk things out
- trust (that is earned both ways)
- that the guy loves me and is good to me

the guy's gotta be intelligent, have his own thoughts and have the ability to make me laugh.

[xlitoxb]

I want suprises whenever I'm down or whenever.. :)

[*x1227x*]

i want

- loves me for me & doesn't tell me to change one hair on my head
- trust/faithfulness
- knows how to make me laugh :] (but knows when to be serious)
- doesn't purposely try to get me jealous
- compliments me with "beautiful, pretty, gorgeous, etc" rather than "sexy, hot, smoking"
- who would hold me & never want to let go
- being able to let me have my freedom
- suprises me with hugs & phone calls
- who listens to my problems & tries to help me solve them
- talks things out with me & tries to make the relationship work
- who makes me feel warm on the inside & out <3

[iDecay]

Most of the myspace bullitens are kinda dumb. They're cute and sweet, but now always accurate.

Hmm.. I want..

• Someone who would make me smile. (Obviously.)
• Someone who loves me for me and not how I look.
• Someone who will love me no matter how weird or crazy or stupid I am.
• Someone who is honest.
• Someone who isn't afraid to hug me in front of his friends.
• Someone who will be there for me when I'm down.
• Someone who is funny, but knows when to stop.
• Someone who has goals AND PLANS TO ACTUALLY ACCOMPLISH THEM.
• Someone who is sweet and isn't an ass.

There's probably more, but those are the most important for me.

Guys who can sing or can play an instrument (Well, depends on the instrument..) are a plus. Guys who can play sports (especially tennis) are plusses too.

[BabiiJay]

Basically what I want in a relationship is...

--Honesty/Trust
--Comfy-neshh/Open-ness
--Encouragements/Support/Compliments
--Love
--Understanding
--Not being afraid to show sum PDA (public display of affection).
--Butterflies in the tummy
--Laughs && smiles
--*F*U*N*
-- Surprises
--No expectations/ not reminscing on what past lovers have done and comparing it to now
--Sees my imperfections as beauty =]
--A lil jealousy..just to know he cares
--No doubts.

Last but not least...

--Knowing all about that person. I want someone who knows me and loves me for every bit of it. Someone who will listen to everything and anything i have to say and when im finished talking will say those exact words I needed to hear.

[_sarcastic_]

4] Someone who believes your perfect

5] Someone who will fight to the bitter end to make sure that the relationship works

agreed

what i want in an relationship is:

someone who loves me for who i am no matter how stupid i can be
someone who lets me be me
someone that doens't care how i look no matter what time of day
someone who is funny and sarcastic, that can make me laugh
someone smart, understanding, sweet, caring and romantic
someone that'll call me in the middle of the day just to say i love you
someone with goals
someone who can listen to my problems and tells me his
someone that can trust me and give me my freedom
someone that's not afraid to show me off to his friends
someone who won't give up on the relationship and make it work

[think!IMAGINARIL...]

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=132534
That's from like.. 5 months ago, though.

This is what I wrote in there:

he has to be someone i can trust, someone i can depend on, someone who's willing to actually listen to my problems, someone i can feel comfortable with, someone to talk to for hours and hours, someone that makes me laugh, someone who's not gonna try to change me, someone who's daring and exciting, yet sensitive and caring, someone who likes the same things as me, someone who has their own flaws and accepts them as well as mine..

[tokyo-rose]

Acceptance for who I am.
Love and care.
Honesty.
Loyalty.
Makes me smile.
I feel beautiful around them. (:
Proud to have me as their gf.
Respects me.

[dysfunctional_he...]

Proud to have me as their gf.

Yesss. That's something I would add in my list too.

[31miracles]

i want...

-someone who likes me for who I am
-someone who makes me smile
-someone who's creative and surprising in a good way
-someone who I can trust and trusts me
-someone who I can fall asleep on the phone w/
-someone who cares about her path in life
-someone who doesn't jump to conclusions
-someone who revives me when I'm down
-someone who I can share anything w/
-someone who cooks up a bangin' pizza (that's a plus)

and I'm the luckiest person in the world, because I have this special person in my life... :)

[xmusic]

awww such sweet things :].

[espressive]

I want a guy that can make me laugh, but is able to carry a serious conversation too. I want a guy that's thoughtful, like romantic, but not cheesy (ex: pickup lines). I want a guy that gets along with my friends & family. I want a guy who can cook! I want a guy that's a christian. I want a guy that'll listen and know exactly what to say to make me feel better. I want a guy that's bright and has a goal in life. I want a guy that isn't easily jealous & trusts me. I want a guy who isn't clingy. I want a guy that is an avid spooner. I want a guy that whispers sweet things in my ear. I want a guy that'll lend his coat and hug me if I'm cold. I want a guy who can dance. I want a guy that gives me kisses on my cheek. I want a guy with good morals and a good intention for dating me by truly liking me for me.


Picky, aren't I? But you asked...!

[AngelinaTaylor]

I just want somebody who can take care of me. And I'll take care of him. :) Someone who is able to relate to what I do. Someone intelligent - someone with charm, who can carry on an intelligent conversation, strikes me almost immediately.

That's basically it. Actually, I already have him Vincent Cheng

[datass]

xmusic- Strange, I want someone like that too.

[EddieV]

Someone who understands me
Someone who can take care of herself when I'm not there
Someone responsible
Someone who loves me as I love them
Someone mature yet still knows how to have a good time
Someone honest
Someone who's name is Christina Maria Perez <3

I found her....

[xmusic]

icy_wonderland - hahaha yeah it lets me be myself around them :]. fun fun fun!!

[xFaith]

- Someone intelligent
- Someone who isnt interested in me / keeps a distant

Only thing that will keep it "exciting" for me. I know, weird right?

[xmusic]

hahahaha its good :] different is good x]

[danginja]

- Someone different
- Someone that can be a kid while act like an adult
- Sexy yet nerdy
- Spunky yet conservative
- Be a girl

[Dreamers]

I want someone who

* Will tell me I'm beautiful or pretty and not "hot"

* A guy who will always be a kid, but will be mature when needed

*A guy who will let me do my own thing, but still have concern

* CUTENESS

*Who will stay by my side, and not be embarrased when I'm with him around his pals.

*For some reason I like guys who are older than me by up to 2 yrs.
(I have my eyes on a guy 2 yrs older than me right now lol, he's my older brother's friend)

*Tall as me or taller

* honest

*Won't smother me, but will hang with me sometimes

*I need soeone who will not force me to do something I don't wanna do.

AANNDDD...That's all I can think of right now...Besides I have Literature homework..BLEH, plus math!!! Curse those teachers! *shakes fist*

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

I dont want relationship I just want BANG BANG BANG

[31miracles]

^I don't want to know your name, I just want to bang bang bang^
haha

[xmusic]

hahaha wow how silly.

[whomps]

Either someone

- really funny
or
- really sweet

If they have both.. then just.. :O Wow.


Honesty is !mandatory

[tropicalchic]

I want:
- Sombody who will listen to me when I'm feeling down
- Sombody who is sweet and will give me compliments like beautiful and smart, not just sexy, hot
- Somebody who is funny and spontaneous as well as mature and down to earth
- Someone who loves me unconditionally and would do anything for me
- Someone that will hold me and say they love me in bed
- Treats me with respect

And guess what? I have somebody who is all those things and more.

[creamyxlicious]

I wrote this awhile ago..
I do believe it is still sort of what I want in a person.


I just want a best friend.
I just want someone to love me as a person,
be there as a friend,
care for me like family,
stand by me as an equal.

I want someone strong,
( Not just physically..)
to stand with confidence,
unafraid of what the world had in store for us,
someone I can learn from and look up to,
and someone that can learn from me
and be proud to be with me.

Yep, that just summarizes
my dreamy knight in shining armor.

[PandaKnight14]

I want someone who cares about me...
Someone who can understand how I think and feel...
Someone who doesn't want me to conform to "This is what a good boyfriend is and does"...
Someone who doesn't mind if I act like a dumbass in front of her...

Someone who can get into my head, and knows how to manipulate how I think and feel like a puppet on strings.

...

Okay, maybe not that last part.

[layli]

i want laying under street lights and looking at the stars.
or being stupid together.
or having a really good time doing absolutely nothing.

:) ohh relationships.

[misoshiru]

I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want. So tell me what you want what you really really want.


/end randomness.


well actually, I have a whole list out on my myspace. They must be able to fulfill my chocoholism and love of music, preferably play a sport, must MUST be intellectual, humorous, honest and sincere.

[xmusic]

NEW ONES FOR ME!!


i want someone who is honest but not too honest
i want someone who doesnt tell me EVERYTHING. but tells me enough
i want someone who can tell me their fears and not try to act tough about everything
i want someone who can tell me if there's a problem with anything
i want someone who isnt afraid to say im their girlfriend to anyone. and is proud that i am
i want someone who wants me.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

i want a guy thats really funny.

i want someone who isnt afraid to say im their girlfriend to anyone

^6thats most important

[pinacoolada]

an honest and responsible guy
someone who knows how to treat a girl
someone who cares..and is loving
and someone who trusts me and is loyal