It hurts, cheaters |
 Oct 29 2006, 12:59 PM
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I dated this guy for almost a year. I lost my virignity to him and then he cheated on me. I really truly loved him. I had other people in my life before but no one like him... It's been about 5 months now. It still hurts. I tried being with other people but it was just sex and thats all... I hate it, it hurts so bad and I don't know what to do.
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Oct 29 2006, 01:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,821 |
My second cousin and her ex was almost like that but different. And the stupid thing was that she was 12 back then and he was 13, i think.
You have to think, is it really love? or is it just and illusion of the mind. If he cheated on you, then he's no good for you. Maybe you should just be independant and single for a while. Just give it some time, you'll forget about him and move on. Do you still talk to him? |
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 29 2006, 01:24 PM
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Oh sweetie..
 This is horrible..But it could be worse i think.You should try to move on. I know it's extremely tough but u should just think that this guy doesn't worth your love. My ex left me and it still hurts so much. I really can't imagine how it'd be if he had cheated on me. I really can't. Throw away all his things that u have(photos etc etc) and just don't talk to him if u do so.. In case u need to talk to sb feel free to PM me. |
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Oct 29 2006, 01:37 PM
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I know it just hurts. I don't talk to him anymore but everyone knows him and talks about him. To make things worse the girl he is dating was my friend. I realize he's kinda gross though cause he is older and he dates young girls. He's like 20 and dating 15 and 16 year olds. So I know it's for the better but yeah.
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 29 2006, 01:42 PM
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QUOTE(.Girl @ Oct 29 2006, 8:37 PM)  I realize he's kinda gross though cause he is older and he dates young girls. He's like 20 and dating 15 and 16 year olds. ^His behaviour makes him gross  Not the fact that he likes dating younger girls. How long has he been with his new gf? |
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Oct 29 2006, 02:58 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,932 |
four months or something
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Oct 29 2006, 05:48 PM
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i'm sorry this happened to you, forget him, he cheated on you he isn't worth your love neither is he worth your time. don't start dating first, take some time off and be single for awhile who knows you might really like it. i agree with Lucy, he sounds gross. really gross |
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Oct 30 2006, 02:19 AM
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Yah I totally know what ur going thru Im kinda going thru it right now as well!! and honestly I HATE IT!...What I hate the most is when I'm out partying and people start talking about him meanwhile im trying to get over him !! ahh! and plus im friends with alot of his friends so i know what you mean ! mine didnt cheat on me tho but we did end things and he had a girl like a week later!!I know your asking our advice on what you should do but really none of us can really help u , sad but true! we can give u idea's on how to get over him but still that doesnt really help . I once heard that " as long as u were with the person it takes the same time to get over them " I think its a myth tho lol! I thought the same as you as well that seeing other people would take my mind off him but it mades things worst cause after a while I started comparing the other guys to my ex and THAT WAS NOT GOOD lol.. Sorry this didnt help ya all i can really say is give it time and hopefully things get better for u!
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Oct 30 2006, 11:22 AM
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 stay this way, don't change. ultraSWEET(: Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,985 |
oh man, i'm sorry to hear what happened to you. put the past behind you and move on yeah? he's not worth it. and couldn't agree more Lucy and _sarcastic_. he's downright gross!
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Oct 30 2006, 11:56 AM
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Just try to take it easy for a while you know, im so sorry that happened to you, my ex cheated on me and i couldnt take all that pain. all i can say is just try to move on
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Nov 4 2006, 02:00 AM
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 Watch This Group: Member Posts: 886 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,408 |
I know how you feel.
 However, as I always say stay strong and believe in yourself. Believe that you wont be hurt. It shows that there is someone out there, better for you.I don't know if I'll ever find her, but that's not gonna stop me from looking for her |
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Nov 4 2006, 12:46 PM
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if he cheated on you, he's not good for you. you just have to believe you'll get over him. i agree.
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