who's he thinking of?, ... shouldn't it be you? Options

[orgasm]

Do you have the right to be jealous or upset if you were with your boyfriend intimately and he accidentally called you by his ex-girlfriend's name? Or vice versa for guys.

I mean,... on one hand, you're the one he's currently with even if he hasn't completely forgotten his ex.

But on the other hand... dammit, when we're together you BETTER not be thinking of anybody else. Right?

[mznikki]

lol that hasn't happened to me.. because all the guys i have gone out with so far except one guy, but most of them are name Patrick. haha but if my bf called me by his ex's name i wouldn't be completely upset or anything i'd be like wtf and stop and smack him haha and then i'd get over it(it takes a lot to get me really mad so yea). i sometimes mix up names too so its understandable.. but then again akward. but you do have a right to be a little upset but you don't have a right to be giving him the cold shoulder for one little mistake like that .. least that's my opinion.

[xlitoxb]

YES. =] hehe.. I would be mad, too because inside I'll probably be thinking like, 'Why did he just say her name? Is there something I don't know??' haha.. Something like that, but don't take it to the extreme. Just ask him about straight up and sees what he says. =D

[sprezzatura]

If this situation doesn't repeat, then it would be fine, but if it's always like this, there should be a problem between you both.

And sure you do have the right to be upset.

[Mschamgirl]

yea cuz u kno that hes not thinking of u and is thinking of her and so thats when things get out of hand.... i kno