Is weight really everything? |
 Oct 25 2006, 11:43 PM
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I'm pretty "average" weight I guess. I'm not exactly overweight and I'm not skinny either, but sometimes I just feel like guys only like the really skinny girls and not girls like me. Maybe I'm wrong..
But if its not weight, then what else would it be? |
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Oct 25 2006, 11:48 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Your personality? I don't know..
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Oct 25 2006, 11:52 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
A lot of guys I know like a girl who's just mainly healthy, whether they're petite or a little on the big side. Weight isn't everything, and if you're worried about guys not liking you becuase of your weight, then those aren't the guys for you anyway.
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Oct 26 2006, 01:05 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
well weight isn't really "everything" but usally weight has alot to do with being healthy. so usually the really thin girls look really good cuz maybe they excersize alot making them healthy or they're bullimic making them very unhealthy. i personally exercise alot. haveing more muscle instead of fat is good and healthy in my opinion. but if you're fine with your body than that's good. but if you want to lose weight, eat ONLY 3 meals per day(no munchies in between, except like a fruit or something) and like excersize. first work on you're thighs. by doing the Lunge. there's a topic about that somewhere...i can't find it. anyway yah you'll get sexy toned thighs by doing that.
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Oct 26 2006, 09:53 AM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
no weight isn't everything, and i agree with sarah. lotta guys look a personality, mainly the ones i know and just as long as they are healthy, plus never know opposites attract lol. but seriously there are a lotta girls who are really pretty but aren't like stick skinny but are healthy and guys usually don't wanna be going out with a girl who is skin and bone with an eating disorder
 they want to go out wiht someone who is healthy and with a great personaility
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Oct 26 2006, 10:28 AM
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Personality and healthiness i think counts the most. So, even if you're really skinny, You're not healthy in alot of cases.
And if you're obese, you're not healthy either. |
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Oct 26 2006, 08:18 PM
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Yes, I want a girl so thin that I can use her as a toothpick.
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| *Girthy* |
Oct 26 2006, 08:47 PM
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average is just a polite way of saying "you're fat". mmkay?
:) |
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Oct 26 2006, 09:01 PM
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Priscilla Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,856 |
I'm totally in your position with the weight thing. I know what you mean.
But don't try to go losing weight or anything because of a guy, or guys in general. Lose weight because YOU want to, and hell, you might not even need to. And from my experiences, guys don't ask out only skinny or petite girls- they like girls who actually have meat on their bones. I was having this conversation with my guy friend, and he told me exactly that. He also said how when he hugs a girl, he doesn't want to feel her bones or anything. You sound fine. You're not overweight, so why worry? Just try to maintain the weight you're at now or lose a few if your conscious about it. |
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Oct 26 2006, 09:07 PM
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 the bird and the bee sides! Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 |
Psh, don't worry about being skinny or anything. If guys don't like you for who you are, forget them. Personality is more important.
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| *salcha4u* |
Oct 26 2006, 09:21 PM
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Guys despise overweight girls. Fat automatically means you're ugly in their world.
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Oct 26 2006, 09:31 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
^ i agree. boys are so mean, lol. people should not be judged on their weight, but rather on their personality. Unfortunately, that is not the case in this world. Keeping your weight average is an essential to a healthy lifestyle anyways.
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Oct 26 2006, 09:38 PM
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QUOTE(salcha4u @ Oct 26 2006, 7:21 PM)  Guys despise overweight girls. Fat automatically means you're ugly in their world. No |
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Oct 26 2006, 10:01 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
theres tons and tons of girls that are overweight girls that are really really cute. theres so many its like they have a better shot to being pretty than other girls lol but im not saying go gain weight =p.
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Oct 26 2006, 11:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 106 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 417,467 |
Everything has to do with weight, moey, and surgery these days.
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Oct 27 2006, 12:15 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 472,833 |
QUOTE(Girthy @ Oct 26 2006, 8:47 PM) average is just a polite way of saying "you're fat". mmkay? :) hahHAH thats funny. not really. |
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Oct 27 2006, 06:57 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Oct 27 2006, 9:38 AM) No Unless the boy's obese too. |
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Oct 27 2006, 07:09 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
I guess some guys are just shallow.
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| *Infinite.* |
Oct 27 2006, 08:49 AM
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Most guys aren't exactly biased on looks. Its your personality more than likely... no offense
 Weight isn't everything. |
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Oct 27 2006, 11:52 AM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Oct 26 2006, 9:18 PM) Yes, I want a girl so thin that I can use her as a toothpick. HAHAHA!! that made me laugh...  Anyways I really don't think its about the weigh  since Im skinny, small,and I don't have a boyfriend. my weigh is 109 <-- not so skinny but im slim I think its about personality... |
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Oct 27 2006, 04:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
QUOTE(sofakinglazy @ Oct 26 2006, 9:18 PM) Yes, I want a girl so thin that I can use her as a toothpick. Oh Kevin.. 
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Oct 27 2006, 06:59 PM
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 Bonjour Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,449 |
i dont think guys like really skinny girls, typically they'll make fun of them saying their anorexic or some crap like that. since most guys loove food.
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Oct 27 2006, 07:34 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
^Haha that happens to me...but i loveee to eat. i would be an expensive date =)
Hell no. Where I come from guys like meat. |
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Oct 27 2006, 08:23 PM
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chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
^ Where do you come from, then? Guys here are SO discriminative.
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Oct 28 2006, 09:25 AM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
well the only advantage of having a skinny girl is saving a few bucks when you go to McDonalds
other than that, I like my girls "average" |
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Oct 28 2006, 10:09 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
i don't really think so. the guys i know don't really go for the overweight girls, but then again nobody finds anorexic attractive. you can't help being skinny if you have a fast metabolism though... so i say bring out the best of yourself and your personality and stop fussing about weight. :) as long as you're not extremely skinny or extremely fat, you're good. but i'm not saying those 2 body types don't attract guys fyi...
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Oct 28 2006, 10:50 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Weight definitely isn't everything, but I think that guys would rather have an average or skinny girl over an overweight one. Personality is what matters most though.
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Oct 28 2006, 05:03 PM
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 young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
weight shouldnt matter..even if guys say they judge for eprsonality,i think they actually judge for looks first,then go to your personality.
my brother tells me that guys dont like anorexic or skinnny girls,but i think that doesnt matter at all. so,weight DOES NOT matter. at all. :] |
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Oct 28 2006, 05:46 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
the guys that i've talked to about girls' weight and all that... they all preferred girls to be "healthy weighted". with a bit of meat on them, as they said. they said they liked girls to be squishy
which sounds creepy...but personality matters a lot too, almost the same probably. because personality is what keeps them. |
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Mar 14 2007, 04:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 509,705 |
Weight isn't everything at all. You should be who you are and like it that way. I know I'm a fine one to talk about self conciousness.
 lol but I think that if a guy only cares what a girl looks like then he's not worth the bother. He's just a low life. The most important thing is that you're healthy. 
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Mar 14 2007, 04:32 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
healthy wise yess.
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Mar 14 2007, 06:29 PM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
I definataly like MEAT skinny girls are so annnoying to look at cuz there isnt anything to look at. You could be not skinny but still look fit you know.
To all the girls thats say looks are nothing stfu hypocrites, i bet if u got reconstructive surgery and ur like really pretty then you wouldnt waste your time getting to know someone that is unattractive.(proably) anyways good luck finding a guy that only cares about personality(I do and dont) it would be impossible for them to like you if they dont get to know you for a very longgg time. |
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Mar 14 2007, 07:23 PM
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chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
Yes, it's everything. All the people in this world are fatties and need to be annorexic.
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Mar 14 2007, 07:59 PM
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 DING DONG. Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900 |
Well, actullay, today, when i was walking home with my friends nate and joe, we were talking about that and he said that he doesnt want his girl to be SUPER skinny because he thinks thats gross, and when he hugs them he doesnt want his arms to go around them then come back and touch him
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| *Girthy* |
Mar 14 2007, 08:01 PM
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YES
YES YES YES YES |
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Mar 15 2007, 11:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
If guys just like you because your skinny, dont go out with them.
Im healthy/skinny, only because I play soccer and have a fast matableism (sp?) most girls who think they are fat, really arent. that bugs the crap out of me when people say they are fat and they arent. I dont like guys that are skinny. Nor really fat. Just enough to love. :D QUOTE(cvchango @ Oct 28 2006, 9:25 AM) well the only advantage of having a skinny girl is saving a few bucks when you go to McDonalds other than that, I like my girls "average" I eat like a pig.. |
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