im not a racist but ... Options

[*videogamsta*]

i went to the mall today and like most of the asian girls i saw, they were with white guys i mean as a relationship date .. that sucks for asian guys. i mean just because them white girls are bratty and slutty to you white dudes, dont mean y'all gotta take our girls! and unusually i saw a white guy with a black girl 1st time in my life today 3 times .. not a good preference. i hate when white boy date black girls but i dont seem to give a shit when a black boy date white girls ..

[think!IMAGINARIL...]

I swear, you made a topic like this before but it got closed.

You really sound racist.

[Looow]

Wow, you're hella f**king stupid.

[Trinie]

are you sure you aren't racist??? then why do all this mixed relationships bother you then?

[*I Shot JFK*]

maybe if you tried being remotely appealing to girls, rather than moaning about those whute guys on th einternet, you would hav emore success?

food for thought.

[douchebag]

What is so wrong with white guys dating black girls again?

*Whistles 'Jungle Boogie'*

[orgasm]

You're an idiot.

[*videogamsta*]

are you sure you aren't racist??? then why do all this mixed relationships bother you then?

I know a lotta ignorant white guys that make fun of asian girls, how they are not attractive .. yet theyr'e the ones dating them .. how pathetic, i have a point here

[clarity]

Reading what you just said, You are racist.
Atleast you sound the part.
Why can't relationships just be diverse?
Gee, It's not like its gonna kill anyone.

[Trinie]

yeah i dont understand this guy! I hope you know, that what you are saying, is making peope think you are a racist.

[*I Shot JFK*]

I know a lotta ignorant white guys that make fun of asian girls, how they are not attractive .. yet theyr'e the ones dating them .. how pathetic, i have a point here

well, you may very well hve a point, but do you know what it is?

is it
a) white guys are dating asian girls, and that is making it difficultfor asian guys
b) white guys are hypocrites for dating asian girls
c) other?

because really, your coming off as a dumbass

[*videogamsta*]

yeah i dont understand this guy! I hope you know, that what you are saying, is making peope think you are a racist.

well i swear to my life, i am not a racist.

[*I Shot JFK*]

^ then why are you making broad, sweeping generalizations based on race?

[Trinie]

I know a lotta ignorant white guys that make fun of asian girls, how they are not attractive .. yet theyr'e the ones dating them .. how pathetic, i have a point here

lol are you sure about that??? because i have a lot of white friends too, who think asians are gorgeous. also, not all guys are the same. so some prefer asian, some don't? and for those guys who make fun of asian girls, they are just retarded.

[*videogamsta*]

well im saying that its better to date someone that's the same race/nationality as you .. maybe thats what their parents would prefer you to do too .. my parents dont want me get into a interracial relationship and they have excellent reasons why not too .. again, im not trying to be an ignorant racist .. why would an asian girl pick a white guy over an asian guy? is it because theyre hotter? stronger? i dont know the issue .. im not 100% AGAINST THAT okay .. i just see some things in a negative way on interracial relationships ..

[Trinie]

i've date more than my race. i actually dated on one filipino boy in my whole entire life, and it was an ok relationship. But i've dated indians, spanish, black. but i dont care about race, i date and go out with who i want not because of their race, but because of my feelings for them. I know my parents would probably want me to marry a filipino guy. but right now i've been with my boyfriend who is spanish for almost 8 years now. yeah my parents didnt like him because he wasn't filipino. but little by little, they learned to let it go. Also i dont let them control my love life. if they did i wouldnt be happy.

[douchebag]

Miscegenation 4tw.

Bigoted idiot 4tl.

[*I Shot JFK*]

well im saying that its better to date someone that's the same race/nationality as you .. maybe thats what their parents would prefer you to do too .. my parents dont want me get into a interracial relationship and they have excellent reasons why not too .. again, im not trying to be an ignorant racist .. why would an asian girl pick a white guy over an asian guy? is it because theyre hotter? stronger? i dont know the issue .. im not 100% AGAINST THAT okay .. i just see some things in a negative way on interracial relationships ..

maybe, because she LIKES THE GUY BEST?

see, you claim you arent racist, and yet you are talking from a completely ethnocentric viewpoint.

i think you should stop, as you are digging yourself a hole

[Trinie]

maybe, because she LIKES THE GUY BEST?

see, you claim you arent racist, and yet you are talking from a completely ethnocentric viewpoint.

i think you should stop, as you are digging yourself a hole

i sooooooo agree with her

[Jeng]

i see this all the time, its never asian with asian, whats with that

[femmefatale4160]

You are digging yourself into a hole. And your opinion IS an ignorant, racist viewpoint. Why shouldn't black women be able to date white men? ONE GOOD REASON. My MOTHER is black, and my FATHER is white. Does that make me some kind of mutant? I mean seriously, what is wrong with you?

[Trinie]

^Ditto. That IS an ignorant racist viewpoint. Why shouldn't black women be able to date white men? ONE GOOD REASON. My MOTHER is black, and my FATHER is white. Does that make me some kind of mutant? I mean seriously, what is wrong with you?

you go girl!! i mean is there really anything wrong with interacial relationships??! i mean i honestly don't see anything wrong with it.

[*videogamsta*]

You are digging yourself into a hole. And your opinion IS an ignorant, racist viewpoint. Why shouldn't black women be able to date white men? ONE GOOD REASON. My MOTHER is black, and my FATHER is white. Does that make me some kind of mutant? I mean seriously, what is wrong with you?

My parents don't like interracial relationships, they don't want me to date a female that isn't the same heritage as me. Are they racists? They say if I date or marry a girl that's the different race or heritage, there can be many problems in the future dealing with many kinds of stuff. There are positive and negative views.

[*I Shot JFK*]

im a he, but thank you kindly!

saying there may be prejudices against an interracial relationship is valid. saying that you shouldnt have one altogether is not. end of.

[*chaneun*]

lol, yellow fever.

[femmefatale4160]

Yes, that IS racist! What problems would be in your future because of the girl you marry? None, unless they were caused by more racist people!

[think!IMAGINARIL...]

My parents don't like interracial relationships, they don't want me to date a female that isn't the same heritage as me. Are they racists? They say if I date or marry a girl that's the different race or heritage, there can be many problems in the future dealing with many kinds of stuff. There are positive and negative views.

Asian parents are just like that. I find it a little racist.

But what problems would there be? I don't think there are any.

[femmefatale4160]

I find it a little racist.

But what problems would there be? I don't think there are any.

THANK YOU.

[*videogamsta*]

Not only can interracial relationships result in unhappiness for the individuals involved, but it can also affect their family members. There might exist language barriers between families, making it difficult for the couple to live harmoniously with each other's loved ones. This can cause unnecessary conflict and broken relationships. Let's suppose an interracial relationship goes on to become an interracial marriage. The problems suddenly become more serious. Interracial couples are constantly haunted by questions such as, "Which culture will my child belong to? What cultural values will I instil in my child? Will my son or daughter be ostracised from both ethnic backgrounds because s/he is mixed? Will they be confused as to their identity and heritage?" What it all comes down to is what we try so hard to ignore: two people from two different cultures are not the same. They have different backgrounds, different customs, different beliefs, different ideas, and different lifestyles. Opposites might attract, but can they really survive? Don't think so.

[*StanleyThePanda*]

There isnt anything wrong with that.
You are very racist, and this is probably one of the stupidest threads Ive ever seen.

[*chaneun*]

Not only can interracial relationships result in unhappiness for the individuals involved,

[*I Shot JFK*]

Not only can interracial relationships result in unhappiness for the individuals involved, but it can also affect their family members. There might exist language barriers between families, making it difficult for the couple to live harmoniously with each other's loved ones. This can cause unnecessary conflict and broken relationships. Let's suppose an interracial relationship goes on to become an interracial marriage. The problems suddenly become more serious. Interracial couples are constantly haunted by questions such as, "Which culture will my child belong to? What cultural values will I instil in my child? Will my son or daughter be ostracised from both ethnic backgrounds because s/he is mixed? Will they be confused as to their identity and heritage?" What it all comes down to is what we try so hard to ignore: two people from two different cultures are not the same. They have different backgrounds, different customs, different beliefs, different ideas, and different lifestyles. Opposites might attract, but can they really survive? Don't think so.

everything in bold is also potentially applicable to a realtionship between two members of the same race.

and you're really, really, painfully naive.

[Trinie]

im filipino and my bf is spanish. a bit similar cultures, but alot of different customs and traditions and etc. i did ask what language should our children speak, we both agreed on all 3 languages. that is a lot of languages to know. but hey we want our kids to know something about each culture. there isnt really a language barrier because we both know how to speak english.

[femmefatale4160]

Not only can interracial relationships result in unhappiness for the individuals involved, but it can also affect their family members. There might exist language barriers between families, making it difficult for the couple to live harmoniously with each other's loved ones. This can cause unnecessary conflict and broken relationships. Let's suppose an interracial relationship goes on to become an interracial marriage. The problems suddenly become more serious. Interracial couples are constantly haunted by questions such as, "Which culture will my child belong to? What cultural values will I instil in my child? Will my son or daughter be ostracised from both ethnic backgrounds because s/he is mixed? Will they be confused as to their identity and heritage?" What it all comes down to is what we try so hard to ignore: two people from two different cultures are not the same. They have different backgrounds, different customs, different beliefs, different ideas, and different lifestyles. Opposites might attract, but can they really survive? Don't think so.

Bull.

Different ethnicities do not equal different languages, and a language barrier does not automatically mean that families can't get along. My mom is African American and Native American. My dad is Polish, Scottish, German, Irish, British and Italian. They're both from the U.S. Their families are from the U.S. We all speak English. Black people do not hate me because I'm half white. White people don't hate me because I'm half black. And just because a child's parents are from two different cultural backgrounds, you don't have to choose just one. You can choose both. No, they won't be confused, and in fact being part of a minority can help them later in life.

Even people from the SAME ethnic background aren't necessarily alike. NO ONE is the same, race has nothing to do with it. If two parents are white, but one is Christian and one is Jewish, how is that any different than having a hispanic parent and a black parent? It's not. You just need to realize that there's nothing wrong with interracial relationships and that not everyone shares the prejudiced views that you do.

[think!IMAGINARIL...]

Not only can interracial relationships result in unhappiness for the individuals involved, but it can also affect their family members.

First of all, why would someone have a relationship if they're unhappy with the other person?

What it all comes down to is what we try so hard to ignore: two people from two different cultures are not the same. They have different backgrounds, different customs, different beliefs, different ideas, and different lifestyles. Opposites might attract, but can they really survive? Don't think so.

Reallllyy? Well, my sister (Chinese.) has been in a relationship with a white male for over a year now and they're talking about getting married and having kids. Neither sides of the family have problems with it. No language barriers, no nothing.

[*I Shot JFK*]

Actually, can i just ask, if you're so convinced that the interracial realtionships are doomed to fail, then why do you care about ht easian girls dating the white guys?

surely, they're going to break up, and end up with an asian guy, truely happy in a perfect little bubble world...

or does that interfere with illogical rant time?

[Trinie]

i'm guessing maybe you can't get an asian girl???? is that why you are so against it??

[*I Shot JFK*]

^ dont limit it. i doubt he can get a white or black girl either...

[femmefatale4160]

^Hahahaha*cough, hack*HAHAHAHAHA!

[*videogamsta*]

^that would be the result of jessica alba's face with down syndrome ..

[mznikki]

maybe, because she LIKES THE GUY BEST?

see, you claim you arent racist, and yet you are talking from a completely ethnocentric viewpoint.

i think you should stop, as you are digging yourself a hole

^agreed. seriously from what you are talking about, it makes it seem that you are racist and like he said earlier, ur digging urself deeper and deeper into the hole.

have any of you seen that video on youtube, yellow feaver? its pretty much the same thing as this topic and its pretty funny.

[magicfann]

My parents don't like interracial relationships, they don't want me to date a female that isn't the same heritage as me. Are they racists? They say if I date or marry a girl that's the different race or heritage, there can be many problems in the future dealing with many kinds of stuff. There are positive and negative views.

i just read ur signature and this is completely off topic but gmail sucks

[JerzDevil]

well im cool wit it .. i wouldnt feel different at all if i dated a female that was not the same race or heritage as me .. but its all up to my parents .. thats the part where it gets controversial ..

[think!IMAGINARIL...]

^ dont limit it. i doubt he can get a white or black girl either...

i just read ur signature and this is completely off topic but gmail sucks

Gmail is the best free email service there is. Yahoo has a lot of spam. AOL takes SO long to load and it's crap. Hotmail sucks too. What do you suggest? [/offtopic]

[femmefatale4160]

^that would be the result of jessica alba's face with down syndrome ..

So what's your point? She doesn't have down syndrome, and the most common cause of down syndrome is women having their babies at an older age, not because of racial backgrounds.

[Trinie]

http://myspace-262.vo.llnwd.net/01038/26/29/1038869262_m.jpg

^that would be the result of jessica alba's face with down syndrome ..

wow now thats really mean. now you are bashing on people with down syndrome???? people don't get down syndrome because of race.... im guessing your parents REALLY drilled it into your head of how bad interacial relationships are. A lot of parents are like that, but doesn't mean you have to listen to them. What if you do get attracted a black girl or a white girl? oh im sorry you prollie wouldn't listen to your heart, but what your parents have to say. you are a mess.

[*chaneun*]

videogamsta, you posted that you felt bad for people making fun of those who have down syndrome.

[me1issaaaa]

Mmmhmm. No, you're not racist at all!

Stupid freshman.

[Gigi]

If you need to justify yourself by saying "I'm not a racist, BUT...", then you're a racist.

[think!IMAGINARIL...]

Mmmhmm. No, you're not racist at all!

Stupid freshman.

Add these to the list.
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=153386
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=153787

[*sofakinglazy*]

Lol. You are a short guy huh? I bet you got some chicken legs too. Better watch it before KC eats em!!

[*videogamsta*]

wow now thats really mean. now you are bashing on people with down syndrome???? people don't get down syndrome because of race.... im guessing your parents REALLY drilled it into your head of how bad interacial relationships are. A lot of parents are like that, but doesn't mean you have to listen to them. What if you do get attracted a black girl or a white girl? oh im sorry you prollie wouldn't listen to your heart, but what your parents have to say. you are a mess.

if i was attracted to a black girl or a white girl and suddenly went out .. if my parents didn't allow that, what else could i do? disobey them?

[F_L_I_P]

ROFL Dude he's a freshman. He's probably still into that whole AzN PrYdE shit. That or he's just ignorant and narrow minded :X

[Trinie]

if i was attracted to a black girl or a white girl and suddenly went out .. if my parents didn't allow that, what else could i do? disobey them?

so then what would make you happy? be with the person you like? or not because of your parents? but like everyone said you are probably too young to understand. as you get older, you will probably understand more, and that you parents don't control your life, especially you love life.

so if you parents wanted you to date a random person and you weren't attracted of had no connection, you'd do it? to make them happy?

[HakunaMatata]

if i was attracted to a black girl or a white girl and suddenly went out .. if my parents didn't allow that, what else could i do? disobey them?

In a word? YEAH. Is it bad to disobey your parents? Sure. But we cannot help who we are attracted to. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being attracted to another race, it is completely normal and if parents disagree, then they need to see that it doesn't matter.

Going back to your first "point" that you "hate when white boy date black girls but i dont seem to give a shit when a black boy date white girls" it seems that you're a sexist too. Why does race and gender matter when it's OTHER PEOPLE DATING. They have their own lives. Stick to your own.

[angelrevelation]

"i hate when white boy date black girls"

... i'd call that racist.

that reminds me of the 'yellow fever' video. go search for it on youtube.

[Trinie]

"i hate when white boy date black girls"

... i'd call that racist.

that reminds me of the 'yellow fever' video. go search for it on youtube.

hmm i havent seen this video. i shall watch it right now.

[F_L_I_P]

Going back to your first "point" that you "hate when white boy date black girls but i dont seem to give a shit when a black boy date white girls" it seems that you're a sexist too. Why does race and gender matter when it's OTHER PEOPLE DATING. They have their own lives. Stick to your own.

Nicely said!

[Smoogrish]

"i hate when white boy date black girls"

... i'd call that racist.

that reminds me of the 'yellow fever' video. go search for it on youtube.

I WATCHED THAT.


Judging from what you said, you do sound horribly racist. And stereotypical. Not all white girls are "bratty" or "snotty".

[F_L_I_P]

Dude i just found out youre jason! Why man! I thought you were cool. i seriously did o_o

[me1issaaaa]

Dude i just found out youre jason! Why man! I thought you were cool. i seriously did o_o

...Ooooohhhhhhh. Well that makes sense.
Again I say, stupid freshman!

[Trinie]

i still don't think there is a problem with interracial dating.

EDIT:

i meant to put don't ..

[*StanleyThePanda*]

^ You think there IS? why?

Annnd.. why was this re-opened?

[*.fire*]

I think he has a small penis

[orgasm]

^x2. Hmm.. Maybe because it was somebody's opinion about a certain topic so there's really no reason for it to be closed?

I honestly don't know.

Or maybe because this is a perfect example of how you DON'T want to turn out and if this thread isn't kept open, how will the new kids of the generation learn from videogamsta's stupidity?

Which brings me to thinking... no WONDER this kid's the way he is... his head's always in video games! There's TONS of violence in video games, which must be where he generates all this uncalled for anger. He must not be able to get to level X and must be very frustrated. We should all be empathetic. I think. It's too late at night. I should go to sleep.

Ending the pointless post now...

[*sofakinglazy*]

Nice Observation there Cariss.

[*.fire*]

I've seen it...

[orgasm]

^ Ew. I'm sorry. Want a vicodin for your eye?

[pandamonium]

^ lol or maybe a microscope

[orgasm]

^ Wait... why would she want a microscope? It's not like anybody really WANTS to see it...

[pandamonium]

^ it sounded funny at the time, and i really need sleep.

[EddieV]

Maybe it's time you Asian boys should open your eyes and stop dating Asian girls. Man there's plenty of fish in the sea, try a Hispanic girl, try a Desi, try a White girl. Stop just going for Asian girls. It's actually pretty annoying...

I've never dated an Asian girl in my life. Well only one...

Interracial rocks!

[pandamonium]

^ yea there are a lot of fish in the sea. there isnt just one asian girl is there. i doubt it. if shes taken look for another one lazy ass. lol

[vash1530]

not to mention theres a crapload of hot azn grls anyway. call me racist but it seems like azn guyz r usually more shy around grls and that might be why it seems that they are all getting snatched up by wht or black guys....just a thought....

[Spirited Away]

if i was attracted to a black girl or a white girl and suddenly went out .. if my parents didn't allow that, what else could i do? disobey them?

I'm guessing you're about 10 years old, but then again, at ten years I was already getting in trouble for doing things my parents didn't like.

If your parents discourage you from being with the person you love the most because of her ethnic background, then your parents need serious ass kicking to help them catch up to the 21st century.

Though I'm sure my own parents would be uncomfortable if I bring home a Black man, I also know that they will look for reasons why I love him rather than focus on his race. In my opinion, it is the most logical and loving thing parents could do in this situation. Loving parents will not tell you that you loved the wrong person because he/she is Black, Asian, White, Hispanic; that's what stupid, insensitive, racist folks do.

Have a nice day.

[vash1530]

^ummm....not everybody has loving parents....

[Spirited Away]

^ummm....not everybody has loving parents....

Note: logical.

And it follows that if one's parents are not loving nor logical, one should have NO business listening to what they say. Thus, answering that, yes, he should disobey his parents should they are unloving and illogical.

I thought that was a obvious conclusion, but there, it's now spelled out.

[*I Shot JFK*]

Dude i just found out youre jason! Why man! I thought you were cool. i seriously did o_o

i KNEW IT!


lol. that explains so much...

[Spirited Away]

Oh. Well shit, that wasted time. Haha.

[*BONNIE.*]

i went to the mall today and like most of the asian girls i saw, they were with white guys i mean as a relationship date .. that sucks for asian guys. i mean just because them white girls are bratty and slutty to you white dudes, dont mean y'all gotta take our girls! and unusually i saw a white guy with a black girl 1st time in my life today 3 times .. not a good preference. i hate when white boy date black girls but i dont seem to give a shit when a black boy date white girls ..

Lol. You are a short guy huh? I bet you got some chicken legs too. Better watch it before KC eats em!!

Haha

[evaleen]

i see this all the time, its never asian with asian, whats with that

You should see my school, there's lots of asian with asian. But I'm an asian with a latino.


As for the topic, it does sound racist. You shouldn't have a problem with different interracial dating. It's their choice. There's going to be plenty more that you'll see in your life time, so live with it.

[Anna-x-chan]

Thats stupid, let them date who they want to.
Its about if you love the person not how they look and what colour they are.