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[vn_cuti3]

ok here's the story it's really long one and i'm sorry if it's too long

ok so i like this guy name dan over the summer ALOT and then found out that he likes me too and he would ask me out when school starts. but then when school start my feelings for dan just kinda of faded away a little but we still end up together but not alot of people like it cause they say that i'm too good for him or like it doesn't look like we're a real couple it just looks like we're close friends so we don't match.

then a week later i found out that this other guy name josh like me too and he liked me for bout a month last year and i kinda have this "thing" for him too. so then this is when i got confused whether i like josh or dan more... and his really close friend went up to me and say that josh is waiting for me to break up with dan and that just put more pressure on me

then yesterday night me and dan had a big fight cause i found out something bout him and we broke up and before the fight josh came up to me and ask me to give him a chance and he asked me in a really sweet way... so that makes me more confused... but josh was known for being a playa and he's shorter than me. but today i denied him and told him i dunno whether he's telling me the truth or not cause i don't wanna get hurt (duh no one wants to get hurt) and he said it's cool and we can still be friends

i didn't give josh a chance cause we barely talk and so i dunno him that well and he doesn't know me that well either. so i'm thinking i should talk to him and tell him that i want to get to know each other well first then see wat happens next... but i dunno if that's a good idea cause i don't wanna end up getting hurt! what do you think is it a good idea?? or do you have anymore ideas? cause i mean the "thing" i use to have for josh is starting to some back and i'm scared...



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[demolished]

do you like someone with your lust?

[***Lucy**]

[font=Comic Sans Ms]ok here's the story it's really long one and i'm sorry if it's too long

i didn't give josh a chance cause we barely talk and so i dunno him that well and he doesn't know me that well either. so i'm thinking i should talk to him and tell him that i want to get to know each other well first then see wat happens next... but i dunno if that's a good idea cause i don't wanna end up getting hurt! what do you think is it a good idea?? or do you have anymore ideas? cause i mean the "thing" i use to have for josh is starting to some back and i'm scared...
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^I think it's a good idea. You should risk, just to see what will happen.
I understand u don't wanna end up getting hurt.
But sweetie if u don't risk u'll never have the chance to find out if Josh is a nice guy and if you two could be a nice couple or at least good friends.

Even if you end up gettting hurt (i truly wish u don't), u'll know that at least u risked and u'll have gain some experience..that's what i think..

Just follow your heart and do what U think is right, be optimistic and everythig's gonna be ok!

[*suddenly she*]

it doesn't look like we're a real couple it just looks like we're close friends so we don't match.

er... why does that matter?

take some time before you jump straight into another relationship with anyone.
if you're interested in josh, get to know him first before you establish anything farther than friendship.

[pinacoolada]

Don't worry about getting hurt and just try it out. Life is no fun if you worry about what's going to happen next. If you get hurt, then you get hurt and get over it.

[Jun_Nawk]

what am I doing? I m just too shy to ask these 2 girls out that i like and i love to spend time or hang out with them. i just think, i should get out of my little bubble and go out into the real world and risk it. One girl Elaine, is pretty, sweet, friendly and outgoing; which is the opposite to me...Naomi, I just met while in Bronze Cross Swimming but I KNOW ive seen her before somewhere, shes shy, smart, sweet, pretty. She is almost like me. Please advise me ona decision. I think to myself that they dont like me at all and will laugh at me... please tell me how you guys handled it or did it yourself. and also hel me like them not by lust.

[OhMyAnniee]

I barely knew one of my ex's. I had met him at my friend's birthday party and he made me laugh so much. I loved that about him. But you know, it was cool to learn everything about him after he asked me to be his girlfriend. Because it just seemed worth more.