love is really blind |
 May 31 2004, 08:02 PM
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Finally realised love is really blind.
My ex is actually so ugly.  My best friend used to go, 'Ashley, he is not cute, he is freakin ugly!' But I always thought he was the cutest. So yesterday, I saw his prom pics and I finally realised that he was sooo ugly! I was so blinded when I was with him. I mean, I still love him, but things are not the same anymore. Now I can really see. Does that make sense? 
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May 31 2004, 08:04 PM
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Thats how it is with my ex girlfriend
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May 31 2004, 08:06 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
well, i htink itz better if a person is bootiful on da inside not da outside. i woudlnt mind dating a realli reali realli ugly guy if he was smart, charming, nice, and funny
 andi would never date a pretti boi whos a total jerk
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| *Kathleen* |
May 31 2004, 08:34 PM
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Haha that happened with my last boyfriend. I still think my one ex is hot.
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| *CEP* |
May 31 2004, 08:37 PM
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Yeah.. it is.
-1.75/-1.80 eyes - glasses and contacts = me with my ex. really blind. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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May 31 2004, 08:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jun 1 2004, 9:37 AM) Yeah.. it is. -1.75/-1.80 eyes - glasses and contacts = me with my ex. really blind. - Chinkieeyedpnoi Brilliant math equation Jose.
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| *Kathleen* |
May 31 2004, 08:45 PM
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Hmm...but still, the ex that I still think is hot...I actually thought I was in love with him. Hah. What a joke.
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May 31 2004, 09:01 PM
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it does make sense.. don`t worry
most of my past boyfriends were NOT GOOD LOOKING AT ALL.. haha but i was with them nevertheless
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Jun 1 2004, 12:01 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
ooo yeh!!! thats i felt with guy b4... and everyone was thinking the same thing too!!! i agree very much that love is blind!!
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Jun 1 2004, 12:09 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Hahaha, I know EXACTLY what you mean. I look at older pics and I think to myself, what was I thinking? But you what I think it is... if you had a bad experience wtih that guy, then more than likely you're going to find him a lot less attractive.
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Jun 1 2004, 12:36 AM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
QUOTE(Winter @ May 31 2004, 7:02 PM) My ex is actually so ugly. My best friend used to go, 'Ashley, he is not cute, he is freakin ugly!' oh goodness i am tthe same with youi was going out with this guy last year and i thoughthe was very good looking after we broke up i looked at him straight up andi saw he was UGLY not cuz i "hated" him but he was really ugly. i would post a pic but im embarressed, but also everythign happens for a reason |
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Jun 1 2004, 12:50 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
it happens. maybe his personality is what overrided how you felt about his appearance. but until you're out of the relationship you don't see him in portions but rather a whole. he may seemed a lot more attractive to you while you were together and in love with him. it's true you often see people a lot differently once you're outside of a situation/relationship/friendship, etc.
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Jun 1 2004, 01:13 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Jun 1 2004, 1:09 PM) Hahaha, I know EXACTLY what you mean. I look at older pics and I think to myself, what was I thinking? But you what I think it is... if you had a bad experience wtih that guy, then more than likely you're going to find him a lot less attractive. It wasn't a bad relationship. It ended really great. Kinda like what latinalady96 said. QUOTE oh goodness i am tthe same with youi was going out with this guy last year and i thoughthe was very good looking after we broke up i looked at him straight up andi saw he was UGLY not cuz i "hated" him but he was really ugly. i would post a pic but im embarressed, but also everythign happens for a reason It's not coz you hate him or something. It's just he's so damn ugly lol... I'd post a pic too but I know he has friends in here... *looks around nervously* |
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Jun 1 2004, 01:32 AM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
yea damnit love is blind and that sucks. i mean even though i kniow my judgement is kind of impaired when im all caught up in my feelinfgs but i ignore it everytime. yes my friends told me that my ex was an ass but i didnt know it until he went and broke my heart. but hey i still think hes hot.
 but hes still an ass. jackie
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Jun 1 2004, 04:01 AM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
haha true to that! took me a year and a couple of months to realize how ugly mai ex was o.0 inside nd out. I guess when you're in love you defend the person you love... even if what you're defending for is wrong. *shrugs* stuff happen.
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Jun 1 2004, 04:06 AM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,660 |
ahah i know what you mean! all my friends and family members were like.. what do you see in him?! his insides are ugly and his looks dont make up for it either.. ahah
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Jun 1 2004, 04:06 AM
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MY EX WAS SO FREAKIN UGLII..HAHAHAH..I DIDNT REALIZE THAT..BUT NOW..I GOIN OUT WITH A HOT GUY..BUT IM LIKE 3 INCH TALLER THAN HIM..BUT HIS REALLY SWEET..EN EVERYTHING..
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Jun 2 2004, 05:19 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
hehe that happend to me, i didnt realize that he waz soooo ugly until i stopped dating hym.
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Jun 2 2004, 09:53 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,732 |
love is blind
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Jun 2 2004, 10:46 PM
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wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
sure is. just look at my sister. she's blind as a bat when it comes to "love"
 i hope she reads this.
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Jun 2 2004, 11:01 PM
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 PHIL ˝ Group: Member Posts: 2,663 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,982 |
"Love isnt Blind! its Near sighted!"
sorry i read it off the back of Love Hina. |
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Jun 2 2004, 11:29 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
yeah when ur with someone, or when u love someone u look past JUST their outter apperence...
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