what does it take, to get a boyfriend |
 Sep 29 2006, 10:36 PM
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 tell me more.  Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640  |
i know i sound so lame creating this topic..but
i've never had a boyfriend and im a sophomore. but i dont know what the problem is.. what do you have to do for guys to like you? if a guys reading this answer too. |
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Sep 29 2006, 10:39 PM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
you just really gotta be yourself and flirt a bit with guys you are interested in. plus you are still a soph i know people who are freshmen in college who haven't had a real relationship yet.
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| *mzkandi* |
Sep 29 2006, 11:35 PM
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Unfortunately there is no magically advice that can make a guy like you. My best advice is being yourself. If you're interested in someone make an attempt to talk to him, flirt it up a little. Some girls fall into that whole old fashion thing of waiting for a guy to ask her out but sometimes you just have to step up to the plate and make the first move. It's a bold move and takes a lot of confidence but if you up to it then go for it, if not, well.... I don't know!
 See how great I am at giving advice.  And I second what the person above me said. Having no boyfriend in high school really isn't that big of a deal. I know some girls that I met in college that never had a boyfriend or serious relationship in high school that are in committed relationships or married now. |
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Sep 29 2006, 11:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
same thing with me, i'm a sophmore too and never had a boyfriend
but i have no choices..i have no good people in my school and i'm not desperate unlike some people i know but whatever...boyfriends are complicated anyway |
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| *salcha4u* |
Sep 30 2006, 12:12 AM
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Hot clothes that show skin.
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| *sofakinglazy* |
Sep 30 2006, 12:16 AM
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Everything, but in my opinion, Luck.
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Sep 30 2006, 12:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,501 |
QUOTE(salcha4u @ Sep 30 2006, 12:12 AM)  Hot clothes that show skin. Okay, no offense salcha4u, but that's a bad way, because they'll end up in the relationship just for sex, or for physical pleasure. I think the best thing to do is just become close friends with some of the guys you're interested in until you find one that's interested in you back. I wouldn't know, because I've never had a boyfriend, either. But it could work. |
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Sep 30 2006, 01:35 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
It's not necessary to have a boyfriend.
And trust me, you aren't missing out on much. Most of the boys in highschool are immature and just fooling around. Though there are those true, genuine guys out there that treat you right, but dont' rush the dating scene. Dont worry about not ever having a boyfriend, it's not as uncommon as you think. Just be yourself, and when the right guy comes along who can see who you are and respect you, then the time is right. Just don't push it, and stop looking. That's usually when the best things happen lol =) =MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS= |
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| *salcha4u* |
Sep 30 2006, 01:36 AM
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QUOTE(.Hakalu @ Sep 29 2006, 10:47 PM) Okay, no offense salcha4u, but that's a bad way, because they'll end up in the relationship just for sex, or for physical pleasure. lol it's </sarcasm> Not bad for a seventh grader though ('93) |
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| *Infinite.* |
Sep 30 2006, 01:54 AM
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Man isn't there a topic like this, I use this thing.
-searches- There was this topic: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=131982 Don't know if it would help any. Honeslty, your young. You don't have to be in a relationship, unless you really want to be in a relationship. Then do you have someone in mind that you want to be in a relationship with. I'm pretty positive that there isn't anything wrong with you, some guys aren't looking for a relationship at this age. You have to accept it and move on, perhaps they like someone else too. QUOTE what do you have to do for guys to like you? Personally, I just act like myself, I don't really get nervous or anything around guys such as others. I get picked on a lot by guys too just because I've known them a while or they think I'm cute or something and like to pick on me. Its odd, I have to admit. Just be yourself always, don't be something that someone else is looking for because you may pass up the chance to meet the perfect one for you that would accept you for being yourself. |
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Sep 30 2006, 01:54 AM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
^x2 '93s are 8th graders though..
 < born in '93 too. there's no problem if you dont have a boyfriend. i mean, even if you're "ugly" in any way, people still can be attracted to you because they all have different taste. you just need the courage to ask out guys or flirt. |
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Sep 30 2006, 02:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,501 |
QUOTE(salcha4u @ Sep 30 2006, 1:36 AM) lol it's </sarcasm> Not bad for a seventh grader though ('93) *clears throat* i'm in 8th. and there's no way one can tell sarcasm on the internet unless it's noted. honestly, there are sluts out there that think wearing hot clothes that show skin is the way to get guys to like you. so sorry for taking you up on what you said, and not being able to tell that plain words were meant to have sarcasm added. |
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Sep 30 2006, 08:09 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
You're 15; don't worry about it. You've got a lot of time.
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 30 2006, 10:02 AM
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I depends on the guy, but I would say... just have fun, make friends, and evenetually someone will end up likeing you and ask you out.
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Sep 30 2006, 04:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
all it takes is being yourself... dont impress a guy by changing your style or the way you act... just be yourself and if you like a guy, it wouldnt hurt if you were to flirt with him.
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Sep 30 2006, 04:24 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
If you don't purposely go look for one, one might come to you. You never know. Just be yourself, have fun, and if you see a guy that you like, get close to him =]
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Sep 30 2006, 08:38 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Sep 30 2006, 9:28 AM) Just sayin...telling her not to worry about it doesn't really answer her question or help her. Sure, it could help her - if she doesn't worry about it, a boyfriend will come eventually, and it will seem easier ;) Having a boyfriend shouldn't be that important.. I regret the fact that I started dating at such a young age. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 30 2006, 09:29 PM
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Man, so don't most people.... >.>
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Sep 30 2006, 10:02 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
^ Huh?
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 30 2006, 10:13 PM
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Alot of people regret datign at young ages... thinkign about that makes me worry... I don't think I should...
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Sep 30 2006, 10:30 PM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Yeah, but there's no really point in regretting. So let it go.. The important thing is to prevent other people from regretting it :)
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Oct 1 2006, 12:38 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i thought i was the only one!
 not really but, lots of my friends have/are getting/have had boyfriends now, so i'm feeling like it's really... unfair almost. my guy friend says i intimidate guys  but i think it's just him.the thing is that a majority of high school relationships aren't based on REAL liking. just 'hey, you're hott, let's date'. so it's really hard for two people to "find" each other. |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Oct 1 2006, 10:53 AM
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There's really no way to make a guy like you. But as long as you be yourself, the right guy will come along soon enough.
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Oct 2 2006, 09:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,786 |
Become friends with a lot of guys and just be yourself.
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Oct 2 2006, 09:08 PM
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 the bird and the bee sides! Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 |
QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Oct 1 2006, 8:53 AM) There's really no way to make a guy like you. But as long as you be yourself, the right guy will come along soon enough. You couldn't have said it better. 
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Oct 2 2006, 09:08 PM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
just be urself! :)
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Oct 2 2006, 10:32 PM
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tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
QUOTE(Anna Banana =} @ Oct 2 2006, 6:07 PM) Become friends with a lot of guys and just be yourself. ah i made a topic on that too...not good at making friends with guys. guess ill just wait around..and be myself? haha thanks!
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