What should I do? |
 Sep 26 2006, 08:48 PM
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 Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129  |
Okay. I just starting liking this guy so basically it's like a crush right now. I don't know what to talk to him about, like to him I'm probably still his acquaintance. One of my friends told me that I was his type but I don't know? He always says hi to me when I see him and I say hi to him too.
Any advice on stuff to talk about? How can I talk to him more but not make him think I'm annoying? Would it be weird if I started IM-ing him? Usually I wait for him to IM me but I doubt that's going to happen so maybe I should start IM-ing him? I don't know..  Help?
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Sep 26 2006, 09:19 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
Okay
Yes, my dear im him. And talk to him about cassual stuff Say if you have classes together Or, about an upcoming game Or school function |
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Sep 26 2006, 09:55 PM
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 i'll fvck you til you luv me fagget Group: Official Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 428,884 |
At least he doesn't hate you.
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Sep 26 2006, 09:58 PM
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 the bird and the bee sides! Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 |
Start talking to him more - at school, and online. Don't bug him, but be friendly; talk about school events, the latest movie, etc. Get to know him better. And be yourself. (=
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 26 2006, 11:17 PM
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The more you hang out, the more you will have to talk about. Just let it happen, say hi and stuff.
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
Sep 26 2006, 11:47 PM
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QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Sep 26 2006, 5:48 PM)  Would it be weird if I started IM-ing him? Usually I wait for him to IM me but I doubt that's going to happen so maybe I should start IM-ing him? I would talk to him in person first, to get comfortable, and then IM him. If you just IMed him, he might think you`re a bit weird haha. If you talked to him in person though, and both of you guys were comfortable enough to IM eachother then I think that would work better than IM-ing him. I don't know.. Help?What to talk to him about? No idea. Commonalities? 
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Sep 27 2006, 10:47 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
ask him questions about himself. so u guys can get to know each other better! ;)
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Sep 27 2006, 04:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
Haha, I think he's not one of those open type of guys. So I really don't know how to open him up. I see him talk to girls but I don't know if I should tell them that I started liking him because they might tell him & I'm not ready for him to know since I barely know anything about him..
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 27 2006, 04:41 PM
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The easiest way is through myspace. So ask him for his myspace and gradually start messaging. It might make it easier to talk to him in person, as cheesy as it seems.
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Oct 2 2006, 11:26 AM
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 thanhnie Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 |
OOhh, I had the same problem last year! =P Only I sort of knew him in person like you, and he would say hi to me sometimes in the hallways. I actually took a chance and just IMmed him out of no where, and he made fun of me for it, but then we just ended up talking casually and then he began to talk to me more in person.
You should just try to do whatever you're most comfortable with. =] It all depends on you since you know him yourself, but the guy ended up liking me and so hey! You never know. =] Good luck! |
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| ***Lucy** |
Oct 3 2006, 09:33 AM
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QUOTE(yrrnotelekktric @ Sep 27 2006, 5:47 AM) I would talk to him in person first, to get comfortable, and then IM him. If you just IMed him, he might think you`re a bit weird haha. If you talked to him in person though, and both of you guys were comfortable enough to IM eachother then I think that would work better than IM-ing him. What to talk to him about? No idea. Commonalities? ^ I agree. better talk to him not im him. I'll tell you what i usually do when i want to get to know a guy better. I ask him if he's in a team ;do that, if he'is in ateam ask him when they play and you could go to watch him. Also ask him if went on a trip was it nice and stuff. In general ask him things that are interesting and have to do w/ him. 
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| *suddenly she* |
Oct 3 2006, 09:45 AM
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ohdang.
you know the world's coming to an end when someone likes someone else and other people suggest ways of internet to get to know him firsthand. definitely something in person rather than internet first. catch his eye, grin, stare for a bit, then get distracted by something else. introduce yourself. ask him for help with homework if you need to... talktalktalk get his phone number or email or screen name my significant other was a foohead and was like "okay i'll give you my screen name... tomorrow," and never did then eight months later after we started he was like "well i was wondering if you liked me enough to get it from someone else. obviously, yeah"  
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