Guys, liars, cheaters, cold mistreaters, and the real good ones |
 Sep 20 2006, 12:27 PM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!!  Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933  |
Have you guys ever had a boyfriend who mistreated you so badly?
Me and that "great boyfriend" I thought I had just broke up because he cheated on me at a party. I found out 2 weeks later from John, the guy he went to the party with. |
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Sep 20 2006, 12:34 PM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
that's horrible! i'm so sorry to hear that. i swear it's so hard to find "great guys" these days.
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Sep 20 2006, 12:35 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
NO guy ever did anything bad to me....
P.S. I don't date guys! |
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Sep 20 2006, 12:37 PM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
was he your first boyfriend?? my first bf's were the worst! they always cheated and always lied. im so lucky to have an awesome bf right now. we've been together since 8th grade.
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Sep 20 2006, 12:45 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
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Sep 20 2006, 01:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 721 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,101 |
I'll never cheat on you Eddie, you're just too hot.
 Anyhoooo, hmm, I actually cheated on them. |
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Sep 20 2006, 01:27 PM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
i got cheated on maybe like twice. cheated on someone once.
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Sep 20 2006, 01:31 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
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Sep 20 2006, 01:32 PM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
wow she is pretty!! thats so messed up!!! :(
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Sep 20 2006, 01:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 721 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,101 |
Eddie, take her picture off, it's a sign of disrespect.
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Sep 20 2006, 01:47 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
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Sep 20 2006, 01:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 721 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,101 |
The girl. Having her picture posted as a cheater EVEN if she's a cheater is not appropriate.
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Sep 20 2006, 02:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,178 |
an old boyfriend i used to be with had the nerve to hit me all the time...i eventually got outta that relationship though and i now am in the best relationship i could ask for
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Sep 20 2006, 02:08 PM
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i have had some interesting boyfriends...the one lived 7 hours away and got depressed really easily and had our lives planned out...asked me to marry him, knew what dogs we would have..it was creepy and I was only 15. I dumped him haha. Then my other ex was really great at first but then he started being really rude and getting into drugs and we broke up on Valentines day and then at partys he would make out with a bunch of my friends. Wasent cool. The boyfriend I have now is amazing though.
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Sep 20 2006, 03:41 PM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
QUOTE(xostolenkissezox @ Sep 20 2006, 11:00 AM)  an old boyfriend i used to be with had the nerve to hit me all the time...i eventually got outta that relationship though and i now am in the best relationship i could ask for oh my goodness!!! thats horrible!  he should never lay a hand on you! im so glad to hear you are out of that relationship now!
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Sep 20 2006, 08:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
QUOTE(No Fear @ Sep 20 2006, 10:45 AM) Every girl I ever dated cheated on me, cept my current one. All bad. |
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Sep 20 2006, 08:58 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Eddie, she's not THAT hot. D:
I've never even been in a relationship before.. 
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Sep 20 2006, 09:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 251 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 280,259 |
I'm really sorry to hear that, I can imagine how horrible it must feel, I don't know what i'd do if I found out my boyfriend cheated on me, my heart would be shattered into a million peices. My first ever boyfriend treated me pretty crap, he would always yell at me coz he had an anger problem and I was so scared he'd hit me, he also used to sleep in the same bed with his ex girlfriend a.k.a "bestfriend". I bet they did stuff. Oh well I ended up getting the guts to break up with him lol.
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Sep 20 2006, 09:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426 |
ohh.. that sucks. well.. my BF cheated on me whilst i went on holiday. and i found out from the girl. and then he told me like 4 weeks later. i was </3
my advice? don't date. =P |
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Sep 21 2006, 04:32 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
the 1st one lasted for 9 months and I must've had an illusion that it was really good. Turns out he was treating me bad and I was too blind to see it.
the 2nd one, well...I don't really count it..it wasn't much of a realationship..we were just like friends. |
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Sep 21 2006, 05:45 PM
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Girls can be pretty bad too, apart from my girlfriend now all my exes did "something" in the category of cheating..
Men these days are quite guillable I think.. while a lot of woman are taking over the bad trades men used to have |
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Sep 21 2006, 05:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
Why do guys get negative attentions? GRRR.
Not fair ;X I'm a guy. 
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Sep 22 2006, 01:46 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
my ex was horrible (i couldn't see it then of course) he'd lie and say that he's doing his work but instead he's out with some other girl on a date. i had to find that out from a friend of mine that doesn't even know him.
 but i love my current bf |
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Sep 22 2006, 06:35 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
i'm sorry too. he was really cute, and i thought he was sweet up until the point that i found out that he cheated. lol. thank goodness i'm about to go out with another guy and hopefully this one's a keeper!
 QUOTE(Trinie @ Sep 20 2006, 9:37 AM) was he your first boyfriend?? my first bf's were the worst! they always cheated and always lied. im so lucky to have an awesome bf right now. we've been together since 8th grade. He wasn't my first boyfriend. BTW- Congrats on your great guy! . I hope I find one soon! 
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| *This Confession* |
Sep 22 2006, 10:00 PM
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Well I'll keep my first one to myself, Josh knows what happend. I don't think the world has too though. I don't really say that was a relationship now.
Uhm, one boyfriend decided to cheat on my with 3 other girls. Since I'm computer smart I got in to his chat names and ended up talking to all of the girls on his name, since I only signed on to get one of his guy friends name because his friend wanted me too. And well all these girls pop up and are like Hey sweaty, how was your day, I love you blahh blahh blahh I told them the whole truth. He ended up losting 4 gfs in a matter of 1 hour. |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 22 2006, 10:07 PM
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There were times where we had fights, but he was real sweet.
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Sep 23 2006, 08:31 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
yea...every relationship ive been in has been hell. the one im in now has been so much better even though right now we are in a bad bad bad time....we workin on it but i dunno if we can get over this one....
sorry to hear about your ex though, i dont see why people cheat. if you dont value a relationship you dont deserve to be in one. |
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Sep 25 2006, 06:24 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
QUOTE(misfit @ Sep 20 2006, 6:23 PM) he also used to sleep in the same bed with his ex girlfriend a.k.a "bestfriend". I bet they did stuff. Oh well I ended up getting the guts to break up with him lol. I'm glad you dumped that creep. Nobody deserves that unless they do it themselves! *Proud of you*
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Sep 25 2006, 07:23 PM
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 rejectedchik89 Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 413,245 |
hmmm
-one of them had a bad temper and sometimes made me cry -one of them loved my best friend and basically lied about the reason he was dumping me (the real reason was to date her). -and the one i have now...basically perfect...LOL |
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Sep 25 2006, 08:49 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well.
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Sep 25 2006, 09:21 PM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
men are mischevious
QUOTE b' date='Sep 25 2006, 9:49 PM' post='2296434'] I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well. hunny you need to buy a knife a glove and a car, and put on that glove, stab him with a knife and put him in the trunk of the car and drive it off the cliff. |
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Sep 26 2006, 03:53 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
Well, actually all my ex boyfriends, except for one, have treated me very badly. My first boyfriend cheated on me and didn't have the nerve to just ignore me until I broke up with him. My second boyfriend pretended like he was the sweetest guy when really he was the biggest jerk ever since he always called me the worst girlfriend ever and yelling at me over little things like signing off aim before he wanted me to go. Then my last boyfriend was mad at me for breaking up with him that he tried to guilt me into making him feel bad by saying that he was gonna commit suicide and blame it on me.
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Sep 26 2006, 06:13 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
QUOTE(steph s. @ Sep 25 2006, 4:23 PM) -one of them loved my best friend and basically lied about the reason he was dumping me (the real reason was to date her). I have that happen to me.. his name was kody.. her name was andrea...that hurts like hell. he told me the reason he was dumpin me was because I was too controlling. That was a lie!  But he broke up with her for some reasons.. Don't know all details.. I got a new b/f now.. Everyone calls him Smurf.. He's got blue hair.... QUOTE(pandamonium @ Sep 25 2006, 6:21 PM) hunny you need to buy a knife a glove and a car, and put on that glove, stab him with a knife and put him in the trunk of the car and drive it off the cliff. make sure you get outta the car first! 
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Sep 26 2006, 06:34 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Yeah. You won't believe the ridiculous relationships I've let myself be in. One used to hit me because he felt I was being "too friendly" with my guy friends and he didn't want me hanging out with them (which was bullshit I ONLY had guy friends); another one wanted to know where I am ALL THE TIME and he loved to make me feel this little; another cheated a lot, based on what my best friend told me, and the most recent ex lied to me like no other human being would and he promised me so many things which, of course, turned out to be nothing more than pathetic lies. That one hurt the most, because I actually thought he was "the one".
But not all guys are like that. The guy I'm with now treats me like no one else ever has. |
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Sep 27 2006, 12:11 AM
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QUOTE(pandamonium @ Sep 25 2006, 7:21 PM) hunny you need to buy a knife a glove and a car, and put on that glove, stab him with a knife and put him in the trunk of the car and drive it off the cliff. crazy bitch! |
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Sep 28 2006, 12:30 PM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
QUOTE b' date='Sep 25 2006, 5:49 PM' post='2296434'] I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well. I'm sure things will get better soon |
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Sep 28 2006, 05:15 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I think I've only had 2 really bad boyfriends.
I mean, they just were really bad choices. Never really was abused physically, but emotionally yes. |
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Oct 3 2006, 06:24 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
that's sad...
 ... guys are mean these days...
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Oct 3 2006, 07:43 AM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
QUOTE(princess*missy @ Oct 3 2006, 3:24 AM) that's sad... ... guys are mean these days...i know what you mena sweeety! i've been through hell back in highschool . all my bf's we're jerks!!! i only have 1 true boyfriend. and thats the one i have now. :) |
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Oct 3 2006, 07:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,786 |
My ex boyfriend basically used me, gave me a day chance, pity dated me and did things so I'd hate him.
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Oct 3 2006, 08:44 PM
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no. =]]]
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Oct 4 2006, 01:39 AM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Sep 26 2006, 7:34 AM) Yeah. You won't believe the ridiculous relationships I've let myself be in. One used to hit me because he felt I was being "too friendly" with my guy friends and he didn't want me hanging out with them (which was bullshit I ONLY had guy friends); another one wanted to know where I am ALL THE TIME and he loved to make me feel this little; another cheated a lot, based on what my best friend told me, and the most recent ex lied to me like no other human being would and he promised me so many things which, of course, turned out to be nothing more than pathetic lies. That one hurt the most, because I actually thought he was "the one". But not all guys are like that. The guy I'm with now treats me like no one else ever has. ack, and I thought I had terrible relationships... |
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Oct 4 2006, 03:50 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Lol i never cheated , not litterally though. xD Long story
And i never got cheated on, since ive only been in NONE really serious relationships. havent got cheated on in a "normal" relationship either , though. |
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Oct 4 2006, 09:14 AM
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daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(No Fear @ Oct 4 2006, 2:39 AM) ack, and I thought I had terrible relationships... Are mine really that bad? 
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Oct 4 2006, 12:22 PM
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QUOTE(princess*missy @ Sep 20 2006, 6:27 PM) Have you guys ever had a boyfriend who mistreated you so badly? Me and that "great boyfriend" I thought I had just broke up because he cheated on me at a party. I found out 2 weeks later from John, the guy he went to the party with. Your boyfriend seems perfect next to my ex...(kidding but mine was pretty worse) He got me pregnant and then when i told him he said he didn believe me(actually his best friend was telling him many lies about me and he believed her), so he never cared to know if i was ok what was going on with his son.. anyway..since then whenever i date guys they don't go further on.. i mean this "magic" phrase: u know i've a kid makes them run..  But I there are also nice guys..
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Oct 4 2006, 03:42 PM
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QUOTE b' date='Sep 25 2006, 9:49 PM' post='2296434'] I've been f**ked around on, physically and sexually abused, molested and 1 of my boyfriends have tried to rape me, and a friend's friend as well. Among all the other, he lied to me, broke up with me, broke my heart as well. Why did you stay with him? One of my exes completely lead me on and turned it all on me and made it seem like I was the abuser. He tried to talk shit about me to my best friend and told everyone our story, of course he made himself out to be the victim and of course everyone took his side. He left out all the broken dates (we only saw each other a handful of times during the about 8 months we were "together"), the shady Valentine's Day bullshit (he refused to see me because he wanted to get a haircut that day ), the whole using the truth against me (I was very honest and he decided to throw it all in my face), and other stuff I have long since forgotten.One of my most recent ones turned out to be a psychopath. But prior to that, he was still terrible. I always had to go see him, I always had to wake up early in the morning, jump on the train to his place just to be greeted by his "why the f**k are you so late?" nonsense. Once, he refused to let me in because I didn't bring condoms. By the way, the sex was always painful and after awhile, he stopped caring. When I finally got the courage to get out, he kept threatening suicide and actually tried to commit suicide, I was blamed for it (he failed), he stalked me, threatened my life and I had to get a restraining order. To this day, I'm upset that I prayed for him that night because as cold as it sounds, I wish that he did f**king die. |
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Oct 5 2006, 06:31 AM
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QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Oct 4 2006, 9:22 AM) Your boyfriend seems perfect next to my ex...(kidding but mine was pretty worse) He got me pregnant and then when i told him he said he didn believe me(actually his best friend was telling him many lies about me and he believed her), so he never cared to know if i was ok what was going on with his son.. anyway..since then whenever i date guys they don't go further on.. i mean this "magic" phrase: u know i've a kid makes them run.. But I there are also nice guys.. yeah... I agree there are nice guys out there.. you just have to search for them.. but I'm sure one day you'll find a guy who will be man enough to take care of your kid... your ex just needs to grow up... and one day he'll realize that and he'll realize what he left behind.. but you will already have moved on!!!
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