Have you ever cheated, or been cheated on? |
 Sep 13 2006, 09:55 AM
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hope this is in the right forum it seemed fit! well have you?
i cheated on my boyfriend just to see if he would like break up with me like i was testing what he would act like and to see if i really liked him. and we made out (me and the other guy) and i told the guy im sorry i like some one else. of course i told my bf and we broke up. but we got back together that week.  well what's your story? we are still together
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 13 2006, 10:35 AM
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Um.... that's pretty odd...
But anyways, no I have never cheated on any of the girsl I have been in relationships with... I always said that I would rather break up with them before I did that. I almost cheated on one of them. I came really close but didn't end up doing anything. 
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Sep 13 2006, 12:06 PM
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That is silly. To cheat on someone for that reason.
Anyways, No... I havent cheated or been cheated on. |
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Sep 13 2006, 12:20 PM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Nope never cheated but i have been cheated on the worst part was that he said it was good so i kicked him in bettween his legs yup him cheating was totally worth it if it meant i could kick him now he knows better next time not to do that to a chick.
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| *krnxswat* |
Sep 13 2006, 02:05 PM
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Never cheated or been cheated on, but have been played with.
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| *This Confession* |
Sep 13 2006, 03:28 PM
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I've never cheated on anyone, I never found the point in it. Although I have been cheated on, one guy cheated on me with 3 other girls.
 And then another cheated on me with his ex. Hmm, I have a odd feeling there was one more but I can't think of it being anyone off the top of my head.  WOAH Beach. you cheated on your boyfriend for that, No offense I don't want to make you like hate me or anything. That was just plain dumb, you should test people like that, it makes them not trust you as much. Then the love they have for you will start to fade and you'll know it was all your fault. I don't think you want that to happen. |
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Sep 13 2006, 03:54 PM
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^I agree
I've been cheated on. It was horrible, he had sex with a friend of mine. The whole school knew. I will NEVER cheat on someone, look maybe but not actually do anything. |
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Sep 13 2006, 04:36 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
^I'm with you, I have been cheated on too (not to that extent, but it still felt horrible
 ) and all I know is I will NEVER do that to someone. Never. |
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Sep 13 2006, 04:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,480 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 444,349 |
QUOTE WOAH Beach. you cheated on your boyfriend for that, No offense I don't want to make you like hate me or anything. That was just plain dumb, you should test people like that, it makes them not trust you as much. Then the love they have for you will start to fade and you'll know it was all your fault. I don't think you want that to happen. yeah i know it's stupid now because he cheated on me. and it hurt and i couldn't say anything because he did it to give me a taste of my own medicine and i was like fine i get it okay. lol! i know its wrong now!  it takes alot to make me hate someone! lol!
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Sep 13 2006, 04:56 PM
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 oh baby! Group: Member Posts: 210 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 404,785 |
I been cheated on. He wants me back.
TOO-BAD! 
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Sep 13 2006, 05:03 PM
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Priscilla Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,856 |
Hmm. I've been, not cheated on, but played with.
I had liked the guy and we were flirting for like, months. He told me he cared about me, he loved me, blah blah blah. We weren't going out or anything, but I thought we were bound to. Then I found out he had a girlfriend... The whole time So yeah. That's my story. |
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Sep 13 2006, 05:04 PM
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never.. and I hope I never will be.
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Sep 13 2006, 11:11 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
uhm...i wouldnt test a guy like that...it hurts to be cheated with and plus you lead the person you cheated with on...
but being cheated on hurts...very much. everything you once thought was true, every phone call, every kiss, ever text message, every minute you spent thinking you were his and only his. only to find that she was thinking the same thing... so no, ive never cheated. never have, and i dont plan too. but yes i have been cheated on. |
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Sep 13 2006, 11:23 PM
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i cheated on my ex boyfriend with my other ex boyfriend... long story lol but the ex boyfriend i cheated with is now my best friend and the ex boyfriend i cheated on is just a close friend and now i have a new boyfriend and i know for sure that no boy can interfer except for this one dude but he cant .. i like my boyfriend too much lol plus that would be mean.. i learned from that mistake!
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| *krnxswat* |
Sep 13 2006, 11:26 PM
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QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Sep 14 2006, 12:23 AM)  i cheated on my ex boyfriend with my other ex boyfriend... long story lol but the ex boyfriend i cheated with is now my best friend and the ex boyfriend i cheated on is just a close friend and now i have a new boyfriend and i know for sure that no boy can interfer except for this one dude but he cant .. i like my boyfriend too much lol plus that would be mean.. i learned from that mistake! Want some xanga eProps? You're real cool.
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Sep 14 2006, 01:34 AM
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i've never cheated on anyone, didn't see the need to.
i've been cheated on, i had to find out through a friend. 
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| *Azarel* |
Sep 14 2006, 02:11 AM
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I hate cheaters. I've been cheated on before and caught him; my revenge was sweet. I was not surprised that my revenge was that easy to achieve or that he cheated on his girlfriend again after me.
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| *Pl-dot-lS* |
Sep 14 2006, 10:09 AM
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Poor guy.
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Sep 14 2006, 11:42 AM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Azarel @ Sep 14 2006, 12:11 AM) I hate cheaters. I've been cheated on before and caught him; my revenge was sweet. I was not surprised that my revenge was that easy to achieve or that he cheated on his girlfriend again after me. Agreed. I was gone for 6 weeks and the night before we saw eachother he cheated on me. Instead of breaking up with him, we stayed together and a year was wasted. I warned his new gf about him and she didn't take me seriously, no suprise here; a few weeks into it, he cheated on her. Gah, I could never cheat, it hurts too f**king much. And Beach, you are a bitch. |
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Sep 14 2006, 07:14 PM
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i am not i was in seventh grade jeez! lol! it wasn't that serious cause i was so young lol! so im not i was just curious as to what he would do and we are still together and we just laugh about it now! because we were so stupid! lol! so no you just don't understand the situation kay?
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| *This Confession* |
Sep 14 2006, 07:24 PM
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o_O
you changed your screen name I was like wtf. Didn't Beach. make a topic just like this and said the same thing  Rachel, no offense but I don't think its best to go around and call people a Bitch, she knows what she did was wrong, and he payed her back for doing what she did. I took revenge when I found out my guys were cheating on me. Its so fun at times.
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| *x1227x* |
Sep 14 2006, 07:41 PM
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nope, never been cheated on or cheated on someone =]
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Sep 14 2006, 07:54 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
nope. i wouldn't cheat on someone that's real low. and i don't think i've ever been cheated on, but then again how would i know.>_>
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Sep 14 2006, 08:16 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
wow... what you did is messed up.
Okay well anyways... yeah i've been cheated on, but thanks to karma he got cheated on by his new girlfriend. Heh now he knows what it's like. |
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Sep 15 2006, 10:55 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,480 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 444,349 |
QUOTE(dani41790 @ Sep 14 2006, 8:16 PM) wow... what you did is messed up. Okay well anyways... yeah i've been cheated on, but thanks to karma he got cheated on by his new girlfriend. Heh now he knows what it's like. karma is a good thing it's pretty awesome like totally! |
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| *Zatanna* |
Sep 15 2006, 12:30 PM
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Gosh, why would you do such a thing? *winces*
I've been cheated on. Very painful experience that I wouldn't wish upon anyone. I'd love to say that he's miserable now (this happened quite a while ago) but he's happy, married and has a baby. Oh well. 
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Sep 15 2006, 01:40 PM
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Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Huh me it wasnt painful at all sure i was pissed off but really i didnt think about it much the way i thought about it was it wass his lost oh well time to move on.
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Sep 15 2006, 04:53 PM
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i would never cheat on my boyfriend just to test our relationship.
and nope, i've never been cheated on .. but if he will, i would break up with him for sure. trust is really important to me and if it's broken, it would take a while to get it back. |
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Sep 15 2006, 04:59 PM
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You're incredibly stupid, and that's probably the most selfish thing anyone can do, aside from suicide. I would never, ever do anything like that to my boyfriend.
And you said you were in love when you were in the 7th grade?  LAME.
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Sep 15 2006, 05:10 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
I have never cheated on anyone. I don't understand why anyone would want to do it anyway. I have however been cheated on. Why would someone go out with me and then go out with someone else? Why not just say no in the first place? I don't understand why. I don't know whatever.
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| *Azarel* |
Sep 15 2006, 05:21 PM
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QUOTE(The E-Man @ Sep 15 2006, 3:10 PM) I have never cheated on anyone. I don't understand why anyone would want to do it anyway. I have however been cheated on. Why would someone go out with me and then go out with someone else? Why not just say no in the first place? I don't understand why. I don't know whatever.  Most people don't, myself included. I asked why a while ago..
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Sep 15 2006, 05:58 PM
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All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
I see...
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| *danielle_x3* |
Sep 16 2006, 01:02 PM
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I've been cheated on. When i found out, I broke up with him. However, he wanted to get back with me later on that month. I didn't want to get back with him. Ever. Ever again.
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Sep 17 2006, 05:57 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Azarel @ Sep 15 2006, 3:21 PM) Most people don't, myself included. I asked why a while ago..I don't really think there is an answer to why people cheat. It goes much deeper than just hormones, well at least I'd like to think that. |
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Sep 17 2006, 07:11 PM
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I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
Some people cheat because they don't know how to break up with their current bf or gf(so I hear), and to that I say bullsh*t.
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Sep 17 2006, 11:46 PM
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nooooooooooo
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Sep 18 2006, 12:18 PM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
[color=#CC33CC][font=Century Gothic][size=5]I"ve never cheated on any of my exs. I have been cheated on though. It hurts like hell.
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Sep 18 2006, 02:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,480 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 444,349 |
QUOTE(xoxo_koala_kisses_ @ Sep 15 2006, 4:59 PM) You're incredibly stupid, and that's probably the most selfish thing anyone can do, aside from suicide. i attempted suicide but i stopped in time for that reason and because i realized it was lame! QUOTE And you said you were in love when you were in the 7th grade? LAME.[/font]did i? i meant i am now like now!
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Sep 18 2006, 02:31 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
It's f**king messed up to play with someone's feelings.
Anyway, yes I've been cheated on before. Shit happens.
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Sep 18 2006, 04:43 PM
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I cheated on a boyfriend a couple years ago...it was a long distance relationship of 7 months. I never saw him though...probably 4 weeks in total out of the whole 7 months so the relationship wasnt really going anywhere anyways...i would never cheat on my boyfriend now though
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Sep 18 2006, 09:45 PM
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Cheated: No
Been cheated on: I don't think so. |
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Sep 18 2006, 10:32 PM
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 And in that moment...I swear we were infinite Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 407,922 |
never been cheated on [to my knowledge] but i kinda sorta not really but he thought so cheated on my ex. held hands with the guy and fell asleep with him and my boyfriend at the time found out and broke up with me. i didnt think what i did was bad but apparently he did
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Sep 19 2006, 10:14 PM
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"when you sleep with dogs you wake up with fleas" theres no reson for any one to cheat
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Sep 19 2006, 11:15 PM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
yes i've been cheated on. luckily i didnt really like that person that much. if we liked each other alot then it would be whole differnet story.
but i also broke up with my ex, and looked for a rebound. and cheated on him with my ex! ahaha and me and my ex got back together. that was still back in HS. |
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Sep 22 2006, 11:40 AM
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haha! hey^trinie? you look like ciara (sp?) i thought that was her at first glance lol! your really pretty!
anyways! umm i feel incredibly bad about cheating on him. kstar sorry don't know your name! i could understand that situation, did he find out? |
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Sep 24 2006, 12:18 PM
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Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
QUOTE(just another teenage dirtbag @ Sep 22 2006, 8:40 AM) haha! hey^trinie? you look like ciara (sp?) i thought that was her at first glance lol! your really pretty! anyways! umm i feel incredibly bad about cheating on him. kstar sorry don't know your name! i could understand that situation, did he find out? awww thanks sweety. but after my cheating and being cheated on experience back in HS i dont think i would do it again. |
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Sep 25 2006, 02:07 AM
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You cheated on your boyfriend to see what his reaction would be? How stupid can you get? But anyways I've never cheated on anyone but I've been cheated on so I know the feeling and I would never wish that feeling on anyone.
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Sep 25 2006, 07:27 PM
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 rejectedchik89 Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 413,245 |
well my bf loved my bestest friend....so he broke up w. me before they started going out but he may as well have cheated. and this one girl kissed my current bf...but just like a peck on the lips. i made sure she knew he was mine
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Sep 25 2006, 09:24 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
Never cheated. Im not saying never will.
Haven't exactly been cheated on. Depends on what you mean by cheating. |
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Sep 26 2006, 09:34 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
Yeah.
Both actually. I've chated so much. I'm so lame But, now, i never will. EVER AGAIN "Once a chater, always a cheater" Wrong. Never again. I love my baby with all my heart. |
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