do u think he likes me if... Options

[rainie8847]

ok this question just suddenly appealed to me...
when i was on the bus, i sat behind this guy who i disliked.
we dont reli talk, but we hav known each other ever since grade 3.
eventually we became more distant from each other.
we used to be ok friends but now we dont talk as much cuz we're not in the same classes.
but sumtimes he will like "bug" me.
i was on the bus and he was like "Who is that?" he was refering to me.
i got a new haircut and he didn't reli recognize me.
so then he kept on snapping his stupid fingers infront of me telling me to show him my new haircut. i was like noooo and kept on rejecting so eventually he stopped.
so my friend infront of me gave me that stupid look which means she's saying that he likes me. she said that to me before that she thinks he likes me but i dont think so cuz we never talk.
also there is this guy who is one year older than me and he used to go to my school. we're both in middle skool now and i recently saw him. we didn't talk but i have seen him looking at me a couple times. im just wondering y he didn't say anything to me cuz he seems shy. on the bus i was sitting at the front and wen he entered the bus, he was walking to the back. then he suddenly came to the front and sat to the spot next to me. like not exactly beside me but the chair beside me. and his friend was like y r u sitting here, you're supposed to be at the back. so just wondering if they both like me??? =SSS

[vn_cuti3]

i don't think the guy that bugs you like you cause he was just trying to see your haircut and your friends is thinking too much

and the guy that sit next to you on the bus mite like you but then again maybe there's no seats left for him in the back

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

LOL! you are WAAAAYYY over analyzing this! gurl the guy that keeps picking on you jus wanted to see your haircut. guys who pick on you dont normally mean they like you. and this older guy prolly just sat the seat next to you because maybe there was no seats left or maybe he jus didnt want to sit in the back there is no law that he HAS to sit in the back everyday. how do you even know he was looking at you directly? he could be looking somewhere else. stop making conclusions that guys like you jus because one day a guy looks at you and you think he likes you. if he actually tells you straight up then okay HE LIKES YOU.

[rainie8847]

oh there wer a lot of seats at the back... it's just that me n my friend decided to sit at the front cuz we wer to lazy to walk all the way to the back... weird. i dont reli think they like me but i was juz wondering. =l

[blacknailpolish]

What they are saying is very true: nowadays there is no way to tell if a guy likes you unless they actually say it. They can pick on you, look at you, and sit next to you as much as they like, but unless they really say it, you can't be sure.

This has happened to me SO MANY times I dont even want to talk about it. I end up overanalyzing when a guy will repeatedly look at me and approach me and sit with me. After that happens I usually ask them if they like me (cause thats just the person I am) and they usually look uncomfortable and say, "Uh...as a friend I guess" so there is no foolproof way to know unless they say it or you ask.

Btw.....100th post!!