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| *Kathleen* |
 May 30 2004, 07:08 PM
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Okay, so my sister blackmails me all the time. I have no idea what I do to make her hate me so much. She also tells on me. For instance, my mom dislikes us having boyfriends just yet, right, and of course I've had a few...somehow, Stephanie manages to find out when I have one, and who it is. Then, the other day, Steph got mad at me for something, and she told my mom. Of course I denied it because I didn't want to get in trouble, but I hate lying to my parents, even when I feel I have to. Or, even, with just posting my pictures up here, Steph tells my mom (my mom's one of those people that watch the news religiously, seeing all these girls getting murdered for meeting people online)...and I have to lie again, and cover up my tracks. It just makes me mad...and I don't really have a question to pose here, but I felt like venting since my best friend here's about it enough.
 I just don't know what to do...I try to compromise, I truly do, but it never happens.
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May 30 2004, 07:14 PM
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 Miss Alice  Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
how old is your sister?
hmm mebbe shes jealous of you. for instance when she tolf yur mom yu had a bf, mebbe she wants one too so she feels that itz not fair that you had a bf. mebbe yu should tlak to yur siste, tell her how you feel. hope this helps and good luck with everything 
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May 30 2004, 07:16 PM
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Hun siblings are like that. There's nothing you can do except blackmail them back. That's what I do to my bro. - -;;
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| *Kathleen* |
May 30 2004, 07:29 PM
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Aww, see my one friend told me that she might be jealous, too, but she seems to be more "popular" in school than I am, although I wouldn't want to be. She's thirteen, by the way. I'm two years older than her.
Also, the thing is, I can't find anything to blackmail her back with. I've tried, and I've failed. Also, there's that, "Don't stoop to her level," thing in the back of my mind. Thanks, guys. |
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May 30 2004, 07:32 PM
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Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
hmm i dont think blackmailing back will do da trick, two wrong dont make a right
but shes young, mebbe she wants to keep her "high status" in school, who knows?Good Luck with you little sister hope everything works out, and dont be tooo mad at her, shes yur sister, same chromosomes and everything
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| *Kathleen* |
May 30 2004, 07:43 PM
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See, but she risks me everything. She makes me lie. She's devious, and she even stops me from talking to my friends...
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May 30 2004, 08:01 PM
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have u tried talking to her?
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May 30 2004, 08:13 PM
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your sister could be jealous of you...
here here you can let it all out =) |
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| *Kathleen* |
May 30 2004, 08:48 PM
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Oh, yes, I've tried talking to her. Then she likes to make fun of all my friends, which pisses me off. For example, right now, I've decided to come upstairs to the crappy computer that barely works so she can use the good computer. Then, two minutes ago, after she's been on for hours, I ask her if I could go on around ten. I was shot down.
 She won't listen...she just wants to get me in trouble as much as she can. |
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May 30 2004, 09:07 PM
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*marie* Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,051 |
do you hang out with her? maybe she's doing all this to get your attention. i know i used to do that to my brother and sister because i wanted to spend time with them. like going to the mall or just going somewhere together. or she knows your gonna be graduating soon and then off to college, and she just wants to annoy you as much as possible.
hope everything comes out okay. 
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May 31 2004, 09:26 AM
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Like I said, Hit her hard then just put ice on it.
Deny everything. She doesn't have a bruise to back up her claim. Piece as cake. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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May 31 2004, 10:16 AM
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QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ May 31 2004, 9:26 AM) Like I said, Hit her hard then just put ice on it. Deny everything. She doesn't have a bruise to back up her claim. Piece as cake. - Chinkieeyedpnoi Nice, couldn't have said a better way myself.  I think she has a mis-conception about siblings. She might think that siblings were borned to go against each other, and she may still be thinking that you are plotting against her too. Show her that you just wanted peace, and hope that she might understand. |
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May 31 2004, 10:24 AM
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Grawr. Who the hell does she think she is?
This has happened to me.. A LOT. But I've found out that he needs me. LMFAO. Like for school work and everything? Who's gonna finish his projects? Let him borrow my color pencils? Now, he has nothing on me. I have everything on him. Because, just remember that YOU'RE the good one, and she's the evil one. So if you just think about it.. you'll find all these stuff about her.. that says "she neeeeds you kathleen!" Do you guys go to the same school? Maybe you can find crap on her.. OR whenever she invites her friends.. show them how nice you are.. but if they're mean to you, BITCH BACK and threaten to them that you're gonna kick them out.  Or you could just smack her. Do your parents permit smacking?
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May 31 2004, 10:45 AM
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Well actually, my cousin and her sister have the same relationship. They hate each other that they bleed each other to death.. seriously, I tried to stop one of their fights, I got scratches!
 So, really, I think its the whole, she's older and she gets more better stuff than me.. so she'll just overtake and stuff, right? *shrugs* I wouldn't know.
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May 31 2004, 10:50 AM
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 I have 6 blue blocks :3 Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 14,959 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ May 31 2004, 10:45 AM) Well actually, my cousin and her sister have the same relationship. They hate each other that they bleed each other to death.. seriously, I tried to stop one of their fights, I got scratches! So, really, I think its the whole, she's older and she gets more better stuff than me.. so she'll just overtake and stuff, right? *shrugs* I wouldn't know.reminds me 'bout my hamsters. my brother blackmails me all the time. i wish i could kick his little small @22! i'll KILL him!  ::jerry:: |
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May 31 2004, 10:52 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Hmm...I know how that is
::cough cough:: ROXANNE!
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May 31 2004, 11:09 AM
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ahhhhhhh my sister 2
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May 31 2004, 01:08 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
it's the same w/ my sister. she always gets her way.. but whenever I get the chance, I return the favor and blackmail her right back.
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| *Kathleen* |
May 31 2004, 08:29 PM
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Hehe aww thanks you guys. No, we don't go to the same school. The thing is, she utterly despises how I dress, and thinks I should change because more guys would like me or something. I dunno...she wants me to be her, I think. She's coming to my school when I'm in eleventh.
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May 31 2004, 11:40 PM
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My little brother try to blackmail me a lot... I would just kick his ass... but I know thats not how you are... I would just ignore it, or try to set her up... I am sure I can think of a devious plan if you give me enough information
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Jun 1 2004, 12:34 AM
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ugh my sis is like that. my mom says that boyfriends talk all your time and etc.. and she uses that against me all thetime. i hate it.
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Jun 1 2004, 12:52 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
i'm sorry to hear you don't exactly have the best relationship with your sister. it happens. my sister and i would fight like cats and dogs when we were a lot younger. but we've grown so close and she's my very best friend. we back each other up for everything and anything. maybe in time you and your sister will have the same.
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| *Kathleen* |
Jun 1 2004, 02:02 PM
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Hmm...I probably snap at her sometimes, but that's only because I'm busy when she wants to tell me something, or I simply don't want to put up with it because all she does is talk about the latest breakups at her school and whatnot - something I certainly don't have an interest for.
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Jun 1 2004, 02:11 PM
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 Coolerator Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,442 |
Remeber it takes 40-some muscles to frown bu tonly like 4 to b*tch slap them in the face. Sry i found that some where jus thoguht id put it. Yea smack her HARD enough to knock her out and the put ice on her wheil she is knocked out... then no proff u hit her. Do this all the time and thank Jose for the idea
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| *Kathleen* |
Jun 1 2004, 08:13 PM
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Actually, I did hit her before, but I always got in major trouble.
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