like a fly that buzzes around your ear and refuses to die,, my ex is becoming a nightmareeeeee. |
 Sep 7 2006, 09:01 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion.  Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535  |
we went out for 2 weeks, that's it. and i broke up with him, but he's like, not getting the message at all. it took me 20 minutes of explaining when we were breaking up till he finally understood no amount of persuading was going to bring me back, he was that slow to catch on. he's still calling me 3 times a day, he's still SMSing me, he's still IMing me, he's still staring at me @ class. oh and he still says 'i miss you...' and emotional stuff like that to me.
i really, really, really, really, REALLY need him to STOP. before i start to hate him. because you know how it's sorta hard to like, or even tolerate someone if they're stalking you like that? ADVICE. 
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Sep 7 2006, 04:23 PM
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 another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
Uhhhmmm...
Is it that bad to have someone care about you ? If he's bothering you SO MUCH then just tell him. Tell him to stop calling,IMing or w/e he's doing to you. |
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Sep 7 2006, 04:35 PM
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tell him that he really needs to move on. just say that you just need 'YOU TIME' right now. if he still doesn't get it, i would tell him to go away but yeah.
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Sep 7 2006, 05:12 PM
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Are you one of these teenagers who go out with guys for a couple of weeks, a while or a month?
All of the sudden, you broke up with a dude? |
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Sep 8 2006, 01:13 AM
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why did you break up with him??
 just tell him to stop calling/IM-ing/texting you |
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Sep 8 2006, 03:32 AM
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What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 8 2006, 6:12 AM)  Are you one of these teenagers who go out with guys for a couple of weeks, a while or a month? All of the sudden, you broke up with a dude? Actually, more than half the guys I've dated, I went out with them for over 6 months. I broke up with him because he was getting really needy, and was the type who'd get upset if I didn't ditch my friends for him 24/7. I didn't have enough time to possibly make him happy, so yeah. It's bad he keeps acting like we're going out. He's was sick today, so I didn't get to talk to him, but I'll tell him to stop soon... |
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 8 2006, 09:09 AM
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First off I would suggest that you not get into any more serious relationships with people. In a serious relationship you have to acknowledge the needs of your partner. I would suggest dating, and not getting into a relationship. Relationships cuase people to get attatched. This causes people to become "needy". They need you.
You need to tell him, "Look, I made a mistake in leading you into a serious relationship. I don't want to be in a serious relationship with anyone. I just want to date around and have fun. I don't want you. I don't ever want you. It doesn't mean that you are a bad person. I'm sure that there is someone out there that does want you, but it isn't specifically me. MOVE ON WITH YOUR f**king LIFE, AND GET THE f**k OVER ME!" *hang up the phone, and don't answer the phone if he calls back.* CUT THE CORD ON THE RELATIONSHIP. BE BLUNT BE HONEST. KILL IT!!! |
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Sep 8 2006, 03:11 PM
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 blah! Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 440,368 |
i had something like this,
but not as 'severe'? tell him that's it's weird him doing all of that stuff since you aren't dating anymore. hang out with other guys when you know he's gonna see it. |
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Sep 10 2006, 12:36 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
go out with someone else
and on a side note, kirsti, i REALLY hope that's not you in that picture |
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| *suddenly she* |
Sep 10 2006, 03:40 PM
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^i think she's pretty.
tell him to back off and then go hang out with other friends. |
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Sep 10 2006, 04:54 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
Tell him to leave you alone. Or flat-out tell him (again) why it is you don't want to have a relationship with him and would he please leave you alone because you don't want to be smothered.
Wow, he seems really really annoying. |
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Sep 10 2006, 08:33 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
First thing: I completely understand the reason you broke up with him. Clingy guys just don't do it for me... I need my space and I really don't want an extra body apparatus that needs to be taken care of all the freakin' time.
Just tell him to stop IM'ing you and stuff. If he doesn't, just ignore him. Sooner or later, he'll get the hint and stop. |
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Sep 11 2006, 04:33 AM
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What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
^ heh yeah agreed, i honestly do like my boyfriends, but when they stick to me 24/7, it kills the relationship for me.
thanks guys. =) i had a talk with him again, told him i need my own space and hung out with my bff. it seems to be going well. |
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