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 Sep 6 2006, 09:51 PM
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i was with this guy for like 3 months but we both liked eachother for a full year b4 that and neither of us knew how the other one felt. for around 4 months b4 we were together we were VERY flirty with eachother...and he was always touching me and tickling me and alwyas teasing me (in a fun way)...now were done....since about a month ago...and for like 2 weeks things between us were awkward...we didnt see eachother much and when we did...we wudnt talk much and he absolutely wouldnt touch me...now hes starting again..hes teasing me and doing alot of stuff he used to do...do u think hes tryna get back with me? do u think i shud get back with him? i was veryyy hurt when we were finished so i really wanna get back with him but all my friends are telling me i shouldnt get back with him because he made me so upset and i shouldnt even be friends with some one who made me so upset...any help?
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Sep 6 2006, 10:05 PM
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you need to ask him about what he wants. & remind him of what happened last time.. tell him about your heartbreak or whatever it was that made you upset. he needs to know you aren't like a welcome mat to be stepped on.
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Sep 7 2006, 12:40 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
what do you want?
i dont think you should get back with someone who's hurt you before. unless he's really changed for the better... |
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Sep 7 2006, 06:50 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
in general, i think getting back with ex's doesn't promise many good things; any conflicts, fights, disagreements that ended your relationship with this guy might just be brought back again in a new relationship with him... if he hurt you once, he might hurt you again. but that's just what i think.
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Sep 9 2006, 11:03 AM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Go back with him everyone deserves a second chance.And i bet the second time will be better then before but tell him not to hurt you and to be more understanding and sensitive towards your emotions.
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Sep 9 2006, 12:27 PM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
go out with him then you can brag about it
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Sep 9 2006, 12:48 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 462,790 |
Id say give him another chance
The same happened with me and a guy we dated twice it was ace.. until we broke up.. bvut that was my fault i regreted it Were dating again i gave him another chance and ive never been happier so give him that second chance =] |
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Sep 15 2006, 10:08 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,549 |
hmm ok...now i know 4 a fact that he wants to get back with me...i absolutely want to get back with him but i dont wanna just get backw ith him the second hel take me...i know i hafta let it take time...but is gettingabck with him overall a bad idea??
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 15 2006, 10:41 AM
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Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. Tell him how he made you feel the first time that he hurt you. Tell him what you are afraid of right now. Just give him the facts. You don't have to be emotional about it when you tell him.
Here's an example of something I would say if I was in your position, "Look, I like you, but you really hurt me last time we went out. How do I know you're not going to do it again. I'm willing to do this for a second time because I like you. Things may be a little bit different this time because I don't trust you the way I did, and it will take time for me to trust you and act comfortable around you again." |
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Sep 15 2006, 01:02 PM
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Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 15 2006, 7:41 AM)  Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. Tell him how he made you feel the first time that he hurt you. Tell him what you are afraid of right now. Just give him the facts. You don't have to be emotional about it when you tell him. Here's an example of something I would say if I was in your position, "Look, I like you, but you really hurt me last time we went out. How do I know you're not going to do it again. I'm willing to do this for a second time because I like you. Things may be a little bit different this time because I don't trust you the way I did, and it will take time for me to trust you and act comfortable around you again." Beautiful really beautiful LMFAO! omg that was funny.But um really to be honest that was really good .I would have probally said somthing close. |
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