Hmmmm... agree or disagree |
| *Uronacid* |
 Sep 5 2006, 11:24 AM
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A relationship is like raising a child the you care for. It's a job that doesn't end, but it shouldn't bother you if you love your child. You show your child how much you care about them through all the hard work and effort you put into them.
Communication and honesty are like a food that you nourish your child(relationship) with. You can feed it good food and it will become healthy and strong, you can feed it bad food and it will become unhealthy and weak, or you can let it starve and it will eventually die. |
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| *chaneun* |
Sep 5 2006, 12:04 PM
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i agree, urine acid.
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 5 2006, 12:29 PM
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QUOTE(chaneun @ Sep 5 2006, 1:04 PM)  i agree, urine acid. Haha, I hate you so much... It's "You're on ACID" XD... but so many people have pionted that out... don't worry about it XD |
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Sep 5 2006, 02:48 PM
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 Yawn  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Never looked at it like that, but I mostly agree with everything you said.
Especially this part "You can feed it good food and it will become healthy and strong, you can feed it bad food and it will become unhealthy and weak, or you can let it starve and it will eventually die." |
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Sep 5 2006, 06:36 PM
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i agree. & i would add that parents giive their children all their love and just hope that they would love them back.
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Sep 5 2006, 08:45 PM
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 the bird and the bee sides! Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 |
QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Sep 5 2006, 4:36 PM) i agree. & i would add that parents giive their children all their love and just hope that they would love them back. i agree with everything and above. good comparison. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 6 2006, 01:33 PM
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QUOTE(hardxcoreL0VER @ Sep 5 2006, 7:36 PM) i agree. & i would add that parents giive their children all their love and just hope that they would love them back. It's an anology for the effects of honest communication on a relationship. The child isn't the person you are in the relationship with. It's the relationship itself. A relationship can't love you back or talk to you, but a person in the relationship can. |
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Sep 6 2006, 02:22 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 5 2006, 9:24 AM) A relationship is like raising a child the you care for. It's a job that doesn't end, but it shouldn't bother you if you love your child. You show your child how much you care about them through all the hard work and effort you put into them. Communication and honesty are like a food that you nourish your child(relationship) with. You can feed it good food and it will become healthy and strong, you can feed it bad food and it will become unhealthy and weak, or you can let it starve and it will eventually die. what's bad food and good food. tell me ? i sort of disagree with you. 
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 8 2006, 10:29 AM
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QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Sep 6 2006, 3:22 PM) what's bad food and good food. tell me ? i sort of disagree with you. Good food = Good communitcation - Working through your problems and issues with your partner. - Speaking up when you feel bad about something someone else has done. - Telling the other person how you feel about them. - Talking about your intrests. - Giving your perspective. - Trying to understand. - Telling the truth when it's difficult. - Sharing your life with someone else, and allowing them to share theirs with you. - Empathy Bad food = Bad communication - Acting like everything is ok when it's not. - Pretending like you don't care. - Acting like things don't matter. - Masking your true feelings with anger and hate. - Telling lies about how you feel so the other person won't know the truth. - Not listening. - Not making an attept to understand. No Food = No communication - Not saying anything. I could add so many more to these lists. |
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Sep 8 2006, 10:54 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
^^
I was thinking good food = red lobster chillis el fenix la madeline jamba juice souper salad bad food = mcdonalds dirtys socks garbage no food = anorexia I'm sorry. I'm running on 19 hours since i last slept. i sometimes start thinking I'm funny. I very much agree...i think. I mean the big difference is that legally you can walk away from a relationship at any time. with a kid you gotta go thru a process. and then you are a bad person. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 8 2006, 11:04 AM
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QUOTE(starlette @ Sep 8 2006, 11:54 AM) ^^ I was thinking good food = red lobster chillis el fenix la madeline jamba juice souper salad bad food = mcdonalds dirtys socks garbage no food = anorexia I'm sorry. I'm running on 19 hours since i last slept. i sometimes start thinking I'm funny. I very much agree...i think. I mean the big difference is that legally you can walk away from a relationship at any time. with a kid you gotta go thru a process. and then you are a bad person. Yes, that is true... nothing can be a prfect analogy... XD... :P |
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Sep 9 2006, 02:30 PM
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 Kuki Nakamarua - AKA Bobby Lee Group: Member Posts: 447 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,812 |
seeing by this post and your avatar... do you have a baby?
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 11 2006, 10:12 AM
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QUOTE(jummony @ Sep 9 2006, 3:30 PM) seeing by this post and your avatar... do you have a baby? Um... no I don't have a baby... -_-' I hope to have one someday though... :] |
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Sep 11 2006, 11:08 AM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
that is so true. A relationship only works if both people do the works. It has to be balance, like a scale.
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| *This Confession* |
Sep 11 2006, 12:08 PM
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awe Josh has a baby
  I agree with all of this, although I think I kind of talked to you about this. I like the analogy. |
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Sep 11 2006, 12:20 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Guess it makes sense in a way...
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Sep 11 2006, 12:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 721 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,101 |
*Scratches ass*. So what?
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 11 2006, 02:35 PM
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QUOTE(moorepocket @ Sep 11 2006, 12:08 PM) that is so true. A relationship only works if both people do the works. It has to be balance, like a scale. YES! exactly ;] |
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Sep 11 2006, 07:34 PM
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I sort of agree with you...except the whole "relationship is a job" metaphor. if it was a job persay, that would mean that you'd HAVE to do it. you shouldn't feel like your relationship is some sort of chore.
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