Dad telling you he's a bi |
 Sep 1 2006, 01:12 AM
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Sep 1 2006, 02:28 AM
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I'd laugh at him. Then tell my mom.
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Sep 1 2006, 03:02 AM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
And the other thread as well?
the term, "gay" can be used as lesbian. |
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Sep 1 2006, 06:11 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I'd disown him, since he's always telling me "f**k them gays and bi's." Aside from doing that, "somebodie's gonna get a hurt real bad."
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| *I Shot JFK* |
Sep 1 2006, 07:33 AM
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Could care less.
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Sep 1 2006, 08:42 AM
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I'd just be like...
 Ok...  It'd be sorta awkward for a while, but I'll get over it.. |
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Sep 1 2006, 09:34 AM
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i agree with elaine, itll be akward,but id probably accept it after wards
jk id jump him and beat him. -.- sike |
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Sep 1 2006, 10:23 AM
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Hahahaha. I'll laugh my head off. ROFL.
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Sep 1 2006, 12:12 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
Look at him in a funny way and walk away. My dad never tells the truth, he always jokes around.
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Sep 1 2006, 02:12 PM
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It would be pretty awkward... I probably would tell my mom though... she would flip out, and tell me that my father was always crazy, and that she had known all along even though she had never said anything... I don't know, I would probably move out if my father started bringing strange men into the house... yeah, that would draw the line for me... I would probably move to another state in fact... I would want to be as far away from him as possible... I know my father is a big influence in my life, and I wouldn't want him to influence me any longer...
QUOTE(french_fries @ Sep 1 2006, 1:12 PM)  Look at him in a funny way and walk away. My dad never tells the truth, he always jokes around. yeah, but what if he looked at you after you thought he was joking around and all and decided to say something like this... ,"I wasn't jokin that time honey... I really like men... :[" |
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Sep 1 2006, 02:18 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
I suppose it wouldn't be too bad...at least he wouldn't be gay. If he was gay, I would have to move out, I think. Seeing my dad go out with guys would probably scar me for life. But hey, if he's bi, at least he still likes girls :)
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Sep 1 2006, 11:35 PM
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i would probably laugh like crazy & after laughing, i'll probably just accept him as for he is, i mean, he's still my father. =] just that i know that he is bi. but i accept him for who he is, cause he accepts me for who i am :]
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Sep 1 2006, 11:38 PM
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hmm i'd probably tell my mom, and if she's alright with it, then i'll be okay w/ it too xD
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Sep 1 2006, 11:39 PM
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 [my face expression] and if i had a sign like that, i'd pull it out too lol but really i'd feel a little akward about it
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Sep 1 2006, 11:51 PM
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QUOTE(No Fear @ Sep 1 2006, 3:11 AM) I'd disown him, since he's always telling me "f**k them gays and bi's." Aside from doing that, "somebodie's gonna get a hurt real bad." same here!
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Sep 1 2006, 11:53 PM
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probbaly nothing..just laugh it off
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Sep 1 2006, 11:54 PM
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Beat him up?
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Sep 2 2006, 05:57 PM
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I would be shocked of course. Though this will never happen, I'd tell my mom.
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Sep 2 2006, 07:28 PM
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Respect his privacy and not tell my mom. It's something he'd have to deal with. I wouldn't be bothered by it, nor would I judge him. It's not really something that concerns me; my parents already act like they're divorced.
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Sep 2 2006, 08:36 PM
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QUOTE(rawr SOCK @ Sep 1 2006, 9:42 AM) I'd just be like... Ok... It'd be sorta awkward for a while, but I'll get over it.. Yeah. Same. Though I would feel really bad for my mom. |
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Sep 2 2006, 11:28 PM
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roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
QUOTE yeah, but what if he looked at you after you thought he was joking around and all and decided to say something like this... ,"I wasn't jokin that time honey... I really like men... :[" I'd be like. "Um..good for you dad." He can be whatever he wants. It's kinda awkward though since he's married and all. |
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Sep 2 2006, 11:38 PM
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I'd be like
and just stop talking.
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Sep 2 2006, 11:50 PM
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i'd like "o_0!? whatever..."
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Sep 3 2006, 01:18 PM
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It wouldn't happen. But even if it did, I'd be surprised at first, but I wouldn't be mad about it. Whatever floats his boat, as long as he doesn't cheat.
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Sep 4 2006, 12:25 AM
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I'd say "Hey, guess what? Me too!"
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Sep 4 2006, 05:28 AM
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I'd be like "kickass. me too."
then make some joke about hooking him up with my bf's gay dad. |
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Sep 4 2006, 07:46 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
  Wow...I would wanna run away...from my bi dad. |
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Sep 4 2006, 09:18 AM
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can i jus point out that there is no reason to feel sorry for the mother in the situation... provided he doesnt cheat, which isnt made any more likely by the type of person who he is attracted to.
and to people who would seriously disown him, grow the f**k up, you sad, sad, twats. k? |
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Sep 4 2006, 10:07 PM
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Seriously? I don't want any word that contains "sex" in it and my dad in the same sentence.
Because that brings disturbing thoughts that make me want to vomit. I would just accept it if he's bi (though I really, really would rather NOT know and pray that if he's bi or homosexual, he WILL NOT tell me), but I wouldn't tell my mom, b/c she's incredibly homophobic and will probably end up killing him. gah. that took a lot out of me. i'm still convinced i was born through immaculate conception. |
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Sep 4 2006, 10:34 PM
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It would never happen, but if it did, then I'd say "YES! SO AM I!!" :D
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Sep 4 2006, 10:41 PM
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I'd be surprised. i'd get over it soon.
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Sep 9 2006, 10:56 AM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
I would probally freak.And stay away for a while.I mean i dont mind my friends being bi but my father thats just a frightning thought.
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Sep 13 2006, 08:08 PM
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QUOTE poised' date='Sep 4 2006, 11:07 PM' post='2270383'] Seriously? I don't want any word that contains "sex" in it and my dad in the same sentence. Because that brings disturbing thoughts that make me want to vomit. ^^Lmao. I totally agree. I'd be like... o.O But I'd accept it. I have no problem with gay/bi people. It'd just be very... Odd, for lack of a better word. Oh, wait, awkward. Yeah, that ^_^ |
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Sep 15 2006, 02:00 PM
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Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Oh god know's how bad i would be disturbed.Just the thought makes me nauseated.
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Dec 16 2006, 12:06 AM
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I would prolly be upset because its a little late in the game to decide your bi. I would definately tell my mom.
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Dec 16 2006, 09:38 AM
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i could care less..it would be a "wow" moment, and then I would probably think of the fact that if he had chosen a guy to be with instead of a girl, then i wouldnt be born, but yea i dont care...its the new millenium and hearing that kind of stuff is becomming common. lmfao
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Dec 17 2006, 01:33 AM
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Tell mother! Hahahaha I laugh now, but if that really happened. I would just deeply stare at him. Then probably move out ><
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Dec 17 2006, 01:34 AM
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i wouldn't be like.. sad or anything. i would probably start laughing. haha as long as he's happy im happy. but AS LONG as he doesn't cheat.
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Dec 18 2006, 04:34 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
I'll laugh so hard and shoot my foot
after disowing him (if possible). Of course I'll do all the above after telling him "OH YEAH AND YOU AND MOM SAID BISEXUAL PEOPLE DON'T EXIST. You dang hypocrite!  " |
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Dec 22 2006, 12:12 AM
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I'd be happy that he decided to share something personal with me...
but not neccesarily proud. |
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Dec 22 2006, 07:20 PM
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id be like
"now i know where i get it from....." and id be happy |
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Dec 22 2006, 09:02 PM
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I wouldn't say anything to my mom and just accept it.
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Dec 23 2006, 01:58 AM
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LMFAO.
i honestly WOULD not be suprised. my dad's been in prison since 2004. lmfao. and i dont really like my dad. he's weird. :/ but if he ever came back to my house, and was like, totally GAYED out, [no offence to anyone.] my brother would shoot him, then himself. my brother is way beyond homophobic. i told him that he's just scared of them touching you. and he said, "no, i just REALLY hate them!" he's terrified. :D |
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Dec 23 2006, 03:48 AM
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... i'd commit suicide.
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Dec 24 2006, 02:14 PM
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not that it would happen but i would probably move out
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Dec 27 2006, 05:43 PM
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Move out. He's been unfaithful to my mom once. Now that he's changed i dont think i could hold all that in
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Jan 8 2007, 08:57 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
well it's not like im going to be mad and throw a huge hissy for or whatever.
i think i'd accept it. |
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Jan 8 2007, 09:40 PM
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If my father told me he was bi, I don't really think I would do anything. And personally I don't think my dad would do anything either. He has a girlfriend anyway so I suppose I couldn't see anything happen for the time being.
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Jan 9 2007, 07:32 PM
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It'd be really awkward. I would tell my mom, or at least make him tell her. It's not fair to keep something like that from your wife. I wouldn't have a problem with it though, I am who I am and that won't change.
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Feb 9 2007, 04:14 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
My mom would be really pissed to hear that.
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Feb 9 2007, 09:03 PM
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What if... for some reason you had to tell your dad he was Bi... how would you say it....
*serious face* "Dad, I'm sorry but... you're bi..." |
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Feb 23 2007, 08:19 PM
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ciindytrann Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,601 |
i would just stare at him confused.
and tell my sisters. and have an hour long conversation about it. 
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Feb 23 2007, 09:39 PM
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I'd be like "..oh okie...?" ... hehehe my typical reaction to most things that people tell me. Really I don't care because he and I aren't close anyway, so I could care less.
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Jun 11 2007, 02:18 PM
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I wouldn't do any of your choices. If my dad was bi, I'm pretty sure my mom would know before me. If my dad was bi, he'd still love my mom. If my dad was bi, he'd be bi?
I wouldn't be happy and proud because I wouldn't CARE. |
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Jun 11 2007, 03:50 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Laugh at him then tell mom. XD
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Jun 11 2007, 07:31 PM
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Nothing.
He's my dad and he'll always be my dad? The choices he or I make aren't going to change that - so I might as well just deal with it. |
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Jun 11 2007, 08:45 PM
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id pee my pants.
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Jun 12 2007, 04:51 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Probably be shocked , but then laugh it out in the end . Oddd.
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Jun 12 2007, 07:51 PM
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i would be like wtf dad. i would ask..was i mistake?...and id be sad,and tell my mom.
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Jan 14 2008, 11:45 PM
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Probably say...Well yeah so am I but no need to flaunt it
Bitch. |
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Jan 15 2008, 02:09 AM
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If my pops was on the downlow, I'd just tell my mother.
Nothing I can do about it from the other side of the world. |
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Jan 15 2008, 06:33 AM
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I would kill myself. Just kidding, actually, I don't know what I'd do.
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Jan 17 2008, 04:21 AM
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sock that n***a in his head and run.
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Jan 17 2008, 04:42 AM
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^
 I KNOW my dad would never be, but even he told me, i would be shocked at first, obviously, but then i don`t really think i`d mind much. i`m not a big homophobe...so yeah. |
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Jan 17 2008, 05:00 AM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(ojairus @ Jan 17 2008, 03:21 AM) sock that n***a in his head and run. Priceless.
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Jan 17 2008, 08:48 AM
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I'd have the biggest freak out of my life.
Then I'd probably come to terms with it. As long as he doesn't actively go after other men when he's still married to my mother and it was an honest admittance, yeah I could accept that. Any other icky doings and I don't want anything to do. |
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