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 May 30 2004, 10:10 AM
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So lately I have been having some personal issues with some people... my ex girlfriend, my parents and some of my friends... It just seems that everyone has been turning against me all at once... My parents hardly talk to me, they dont like who I became with my life... my ex girlfriend acts so immature and starts to tell people I dont even know lies about me, and then she steals peoples phone numbers from my phone and starts calling them and hangs out with them.... and then my friends just dont even give a shit that I am going through all this shit...
Its been really tough, I dont know if anyone can understand this... but right now the only way to deal with it is not to give a f*** about it and just live day by day and make the best out of everything.... |
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May 30 2004, 10:27 AM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
There are times that everything seems to just fall apart in front of you, I would know. You should just try to focus on one thing and go from there. Talk to your parents, plan things with them. And why dont you tell your ex that from what she is doing it's making her look immature not you. And if your friends aren't helping you then why do you call them your friends?
I suggest writing all your problems down without rereading it and then tear it up and throw it up, seriously sounds weird but it helps i promise |
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May 30 2004, 02:53 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
i know what you eman when it seem slike everything is falling apart on you, you dont' even have one person there who's one your side... anyways you should talk to your parents sinec they don't talk to you, since they don't liek what you have become with your life, than pick yourself up and make it better, not just NOT care and continue it the wya it is... your freinds don't care maybe they don't competely understand what it is taht your going through... and as for that exgf off yours why do you even let her get those numbers form you??? be my forward and be tough hang on there you'll get by.
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May 30 2004, 02:55 PM
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 .Summa Mam`ii, Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,460 |
what eva happends, CB will b here 4 ya
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May 30 2004, 03:00 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
yep. I could really relate w/ you. Things will get better sooner or later. just talk things out w/ them. or you just need to take some time off from them.
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May 30 2004, 05:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
I am not changing my ways just to make my parents happy... im not changing anything about me... I personally think tht I am a very ambtious person, i just fell off track for the time being... I have my whole future planned out and not many people do...
And I told off my ex girlfriend, and it felt good... as far as friends go... I just dont know |
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May 30 2004, 06:24 PM
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baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
QUOTE(dukesoccer07 @ May 30 2004, 5:45 PM) I am not changing my ways just to make my parents happy... im not changing anything about me... I personally think tht I am a very ambtious person, i just fell off track for the time being... I have my whole future planned out and not many people do... And I told off my ex girlfriend, and it felt good... as far as friends go... I just dont know I'm proud of you dukesoccer07 ! Your ex seems like she well deserved it! No teen is ever happy with their parents at this age, we just deal You'll get through all this sh*t very soon but until just vent here you know we listen! 
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May 30 2004, 06:49 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
im sorry for all the crap thats been happening... everyone has a time.. when you feel everyone is turned agaisnt you... but you have to wish for the best.. or fix it out yourself.. hope ya work things out with everyone!
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May 30 2004, 07:02 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
QUOTE(dukesoccer07 @ May 30 2004, 10:10 AM) Its been really tough, I dont know if anyone can understand this... but right now the only way to deal with it is not to give a f*** about it and just live day by day and make the best out of everything.... If that was the only way to deal with it, you wouldn't be askin for advice would ya? Obviously, trying to pretend you don't "give a fudge" isn't working. Try to communicate anything to your "friends," thats if they really are your friends. If they don't care, they aren't worth your time. As for your parents, try talking to them. Write a letter or something about how you feel. I did that once, and my parents had a talk with me and things got better. Maybe it'll work for you. |
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May 31 2004, 12:37 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
I suppose you are right... I really arent saying "fudge it"... but I am trying to... its just to hard...
And my parents seriously hate me... it doesnt seem like they do, they actually do |
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Jun 1 2004, 01:14 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
try to be strong. things may not be going your way right now but i'm sure it'll start looking up soon. do what you have to do. your parents may be unhappy with what you've become but make sure you're happy with who you care because that counts so much more. if you are doing what makes you satisfied with your life then it's great because you're the one that has to live with yourself.
it doesn't seem to me that your 'friends' are true if they aren't supportive or try to help you out through all this. so don't stress it and just make new friends that'll be there for you when it really counts. as for that psycho ex of yours just stop all communication with her. it seems to me that she's an absolute bytch who's out to make you miserable and she isn't worth your time. going through your phone for numbers and then hanging out with your friends is really f*cked up .. and what's worse is that your friends went along with it.. *sigh .. you have better people to meet out there so don't be miserable hun .. do what you have to do and fresh new faces in your life will certainly help a lot!! |
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Jun 1 2004, 01:29 AM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
i have felt that way soo many times. haha i felt like that last week. i felt like my parents and my two sisters were against me while making me feel like i was the littliest person on earth. i hate that feeling...but like u said u just have to take it day by day. there really isnt anything else u can do. i hope everything gets sort out and u dont have to feel like this. remember ppl here at CB will always be there for ya.
  jackie
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