Major Boy Trouble! 18yrs old., Boyfriend or Boyfriend's Brother???? |
 Aug 24 2006, 12:47 AM
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I met "bob" in the beginning of 9th grade. I never had a boyfriend before or even a first kiss, so i was very nervous about it all. He was a badboy and asked me out. We went out for like 3-4days untill i broke it off cuz i was too nervous. Now, I don't regret it cuz i was too young and immature for a relationship, but i was completely depressed all year. I cried myself to sleep at night for a week. Anyways we were still best friends for that year and got really close, then his brother "bo" asked me out. I was 15 and didn't think anything of it, so I did. In the beginning I didn't like him, i wasn't even phsyically attracted to him, still arem't. Over time Bob and I grew apart. Not by much cuz i was over their house like every day, but enough to know i didn't really know him as well as i use too. It's been 2.5years and I still really like Bo. Bob and I aren't doing too well, but it's soo hard to break it off. We've been through so much, he's my best friend and I can't just not have him in my life anymore! Bob just recently broke up with his girlfriend. It's weird, he's had a girlfreiend the entire time I was with Bo, not the same one, but he jumped into a serious relationship as soon as he got out of one. I went to a party with him and Bo recently and we were just hanging out. Lately he's been IMing me, which he never did and sometimes we like catch eyecontact. Maybe im just looking too far into things, but for like a split second its just us. I've never been more physically attracted to anyone before. I always said I'd pick him over Brad Pitt or Orlando Bloom any day! And im not exagerating. He's exactly like my type. But even if I did break it off with Bo, would Bob even wana give me achance? I mean I dated his brother for so long. I must be sick in the head to even think of it, but i can't help it. I never thought I could fall this hard for someone for so long. Its been 4 years. I'm not saying im in love, but I got whatever it is real bad! Another thing I can't help but to worry about, even if all this was possible, what would his family think!! I've met them all, they'd hate me. I mean if I think about it, and everything was possible, it wouldn't stop me, nothing would. But what are the odds!! I'm not even sure i can break it off with Bo, even if im not 100% happy. What the hell do i do?!??!?!!?!? Do I belong on Jerry Springer or what??????? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Aug 24 2006, 01:07 AM
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I think you should tell Bo how you feel and break-up with him. Then go to Bob and ask him if he is interested in you anymore. If he isn't then you would understand why but even if you lose both of them then atleased you wouldn't be lying to ur self with Bo. You would probly be really hurt for some time but the feeling will go away. You will find someone you love.
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Aug 24 2006, 02:32 AM
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Okay the person your in a relationship with, I honestly don't think you should have gotten in a relationship with him if you didn't have any strong feelings for him. Thats like using someone, and you know what they always told you when you were little . Do unto others as you would want done to you. eh or something like that. If you really don't have much feelings for him still you need to tell him the truth. Exactly how you feel and such, aparently you guys have been together for a while?
If you have feelings for his brother I think he should atleast know. I'm going to tell you the truth I don't think your going to end up with his brother  You probably need to talk to him too. I wish you the best of luck, perhaps if it doesn't work out either way, theres plenty of people out there. |
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Aug 24 2006, 02:10 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
no matter how much i liked his brother i wouldnt have gone for it...i mean its family. if i had a sister i wouldnt want her messing with my ex...
but you should just tell Bo about it. let him know and not lead him on...then talk to bob about it and see if he wants anything to happen... |
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Aug 24 2006, 04:31 PM
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^ agreed. i wouldn't want my sister go go out with my ex
break it off with bo. don't lie to yourself and to him anymore |
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Aug 24 2006, 11:21 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(lyin_in_wait @ Aug 24 2006, 2:10 PM)  no matter how much i liked his brother i wouldnt have gone for it...i mean its family. if i had a sister i wouldnt want her messing with my ex... but you should just tell Bo about it. let him know and not lead him on...then talk to bob about it and see if he wants anything to happen... i agree thats just not right to go out with his brother afterwards..its your own fault for going out with a guy that you didnt like and liking HIS brother instead. i would just break up with him and deal with it you have no right to cause a brother argument, because if his brother has been this long with you its for a reason. |
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