"...but maybe you guys are together, just silent and not voiced..." |
 Aug 21 2006, 03:12 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters  Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284  |
I was talking to my friend about the relationship that I'm having with a close guy friend of mine...of which whom I've developed a serious crush on. We act like we're together...always hugging and holding hands...but as far as I'm concerned, we're not offical nor together.
But a lot of people have suggested to me that maybe we are together...it's just neither of us has voiced it out yet. So my question is...is it possible to have a relationship without either the guy or the girl asking each other out and telling them how they feel...or in order to be official, it must be voiced out? |
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| *LaStiNg4EtErNiTy* |
Aug 21 2006, 03:43 PM
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i think it is possible for something like that.
i am in the same kind of situation..just not the holding hands part. but like we always hug and touch...alot. but neither of us talked about being together. but idk. eh. sorry cant help much. i'm confused myself. |
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| *This Confession* |
Aug 21 2006, 04:19 PM
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Yea I suppose it could be possible, it just sort of happened. But you won't even know anything like if its really real unless you say something or just ask. Which I advise you do soon. And just him what he thinks and such. Because if you two are in a relationship then you two should be able to talk about anything.
So yes, it possibly could happen. But eventually it has to be voiced out. |
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| *krnxswat* |
Aug 21 2006, 04:22 PM
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I highly recommend it's voiced by one of you.
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Aug 21 2006, 04:26 PM
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yeah that happened with one of my mates, she was really close with my ex's best mate but they couldn't go out bcos she hadn't broken up with her current boyfriend as he was away with his band but when he got back they broke up and then the other guy just said to her 'so are we going out now?' and she said yes and then they were just together, you could ask him though just say 'do you think of us as an item?'
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Aug 21 2006, 04:29 PM
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yes. it does happen. i know that for a fact because that was how two of my closest friends were. ask him what he considers you two and if he says that you guys are a couple then make it official!
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