Meeting a guy... |
 Aug 16 2006, 01:08 PM
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Ok so I'm going to be meeting this guy soon (my mom and his mom are setting us up, weird huh?) and I want to give off a flirty vibe. I want him to be interested in asking me out, rather than just being friends. What should I do?
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Aug 16 2006, 01:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
1. Be Yourself
2. Make sure you like him before you make a dumb mistake 3. Confidence 4. Have a Good Outfit and you're set to go |
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Aug 16 2006, 03:09 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
^ All of that is very true. Just by being confident and secure about yourself is "flirty". Guys like that in a girl.
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 16 2006, 06:20 PM
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Yes, just be confident and secure... really just be yourself and be happy with who you are. Make yourself look extra special (there isn't anything wrong with that), and get out there and show em who you are ;)
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Aug 16 2006, 06:30 PM
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 I've got ADD and magic markers. Oh the thrills I will have. Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,743 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Aug 16 2006, 2:12 PM)  1. Be Yourself 2. Make sure you like him before you make a dumb mistake 3. Confidence 4. Have a Good Outfit and you're set to go Do exactly what she said, but I'd like to add. 5. Don't come on too strong 6. Make sure that you keep breath mints handy and that you don't have food in your teeth 7. Ask about him and his interests |
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Aug 16 2006, 08:04 PM
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 What side was that Prvt Pile? Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,960 |
QUOTE(rubu1214 @ Aug 16 2006, 11:08 AM) Ok so I'm going to be meeting this guy soon (my mom and his mom are setting us up, weird huh?) and I want to give off a flirty vibe. I want him to be interested in asking me out, rather than just being friends. What should I do? Ok first can I ask you this.....you are meeting him for the first time....how do you know you will like him and want him to be interested in you? I will say this don't try to hard ok, let it happen if you like him he likes you everything will work out. If you come on to stong you might scare him away do not seem deperate, I always liked when girls would just be them and not try so hard to make things happen.... |
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Aug 16 2006, 10:30 PM
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 Good Cow. Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 449,486 |
QUOTE(satch @ Aug 16 2006, 9:04 PM) I will say this don't try to hard ok, let it happen if you like him he likes you everything will work out. If you come on to stong you might scare him away do not seem deperate, I always liked when girls would just be them and not try so hard to make things happen.... ^ A very good point. Don't throw yourself at him in an attempt to be "flirty" or you'll wind up coming across as something else entirely. |
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Aug 16 2006, 10:53 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
Confidence is seriously key.
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Aug 17 2006, 01:05 PM
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 SAXY kathy Group: Member Posts: 535 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,550 |
definitely be yourself (no matter how cliche that sounds). if you're able to be yourself comfortably around a guy and he accepts that then that's most def a good sign :]
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Aug 17 2006, 10:49 PM
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 i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E
guys don't like a girl that acts to desperate. (not that i think you're desperate or anything). yeah and just try to look your best. but definately be yourself. if you're trying to act all fake he might fall for the fake person and you'll end up pretending all the time. (not that i think you're fake or anything. |
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Aug 17 2006, 11:03 PM
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 baby, you wouldnt last<3 Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 413,445 |
QUOTE(colleen92 @ Aug 17 2006, 7:49 PM) guys don't like a girl that acts to desperate. (not that i think you're desperate or anything). yeah and just try to look your best. but definately be yourself. if you're trying to act all fake he might fall for the fake person and you'll end up pretending all the time. (not that i think you're fake or anything. oh and dont dress slutty[= |
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Aug 18 2006, 01:00 AM
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What side was that Prvt Pile? Group: Member Posts: 131 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,960 |
QUOTE(dinoooRAWR @ Aug 17 2006, 9:03 PM) oh and dont dress slutty[= Why not?  Kidding yes that is good advice also, dress nice not slutty |
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Aug 18 2006, 09:38 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I think it's better to be friendly first. Talk about common interests like music, movies, school, friends, hobbies, etc.
You can't possibly know that you like him as more than a friend after the first day. Exchange screennames or phone numbers or both before you go home so you two can get to know each other more. If you get an inkling that you like him, flirt with him as you two talk. Then, if the feeling escalates, you should talk about past relationships and get a feel for what he's all about. After hanging out a few times, you should really bring on the flirty flirty-ness. |
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| *This Confession* |
Aug 18 2006, 10:49 AM
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^exactly what Chii siad.
Be yourself as well, don't be something you think you have to be to make him like you. |
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Aug 18 2006, 11:49 AM
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 Just One Kiss Will Stop Your Heart! Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 454,951 |
Remain original be completely yourself dont try to be somthing your not or it could end up in a complete mess.
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
Aug 19 2006, 12:39 AM
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QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Aug 16 2006, 10:12 AM) 1. Be Yourself 2. Make sure you like him before you make a dumb mistake 3. Confidence 4. Have a Good Outfit and you're set to go exactlyyy. 
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