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[ariana8716]

okay,well some of you probably read my post about how that guy said if he wasn't dating that girl he'd date me.

well this girl named Krystyn told me yesterday that she asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no.

So now I don't know if he is waiting to ask me out or what but yesterday I just sent him a text saying hey what's up? and he never responded,and then today my friend Arielle(same one that called him before that he told that he'd date me..etc.)called him from my phone and then hung-up,threw me my phone and ran.Then he called me back,and I was like hello? and he goes Hey,and I was like Hey,sorry my friend Arielle started randomly calling people out of my phonebook so I'm really sorry and he was like oh ok and then i was like yep and then i got quiet and then he hung up cus I guess he thought I was gana hungup,and I'm bad at telling people bye. So yeah and then like 5 minutes later Arielle called him again cus I was in the shower and asked him if I could call him later,and he was like well i'm at a horse show and won't be back til 2 so tell her that and Arielle was like okay,well she'll call you later then,and he was like okay,then they hungup.

Questions..
Why hasn't he asked me out then??

Do you think he lied about having a girlfriend??

What do I do??

[demolished]

He's not interested in you.

If you really want to know, ask his friend.


dont step over the border ... like ... asking him questions or called him.
he'll think you're annoying or something.

[ariana8716]

ok explain to me this then.
if he doesn't like me then why when my friend asked him if he didn't have a girlfriend would he think of me that way and him say yeah defffinatley,instead of no because i dont like her that way or no because blah.
explain that.

and no it aint no bullsh!t like he wanted to be nice & not hurt my feelings.
because if he didn't like me he'd let me know,
and in that phone conversation before there was nothing of "i dont like her".
it was just a have a gf but if i didnt i would deff date her.

[demolished]

Your English is very complicated. i'm sorry if i misunderstood you.

ok explain to me this then.
if he doesn't like me then why when my friend asked him if he didn't have a girlfriend would he think of me that way and him say yeah defffinatley,instead of no because i dont like her that way or no because blah.
explain that.

He could be playing around and joking. Do you believe everything he says? Are you the kind of person who takes everything seriously?

What gives you an impression that he actually .. "liked you". Did he ever gave you anything? How often does he talk to you? How are you both connected? what kind of guy is he?

How old are you? btw, please type understand-able English.

and no it aint no bullsh!t like he wanted to be nice & not hurt my feelings.
because if he didn't like me he'd let me know,
and in that phone conversation before there was nothing of "i dont like her".
it was just a have a gf but if i didnt i would deff date her.

How would you know he wouldnt bullshit? how long do you know him and how much do you previously talk to him. why would he date you anyways? he seems ... picky and shallow.

Dating is about finding someone who support and statisfy each others for love.

[ariana8716]

I was trying to explain it the best I could.
I'm not an english teacher.



No I don't believe everything he says,but why lie about liking someone?
It's a simple question.He wouldn't lie about that.
You don't know him so how can you know everything?
I take most stuff seriously,but I know when people are kidding.


Impressions of liking me.
+stairs at me 24/7.
+chases me around.
+begged me to ride his 4wheeler and scoot up near him
+told my best friend he liked me a lot.
+smiles at me when i look up at him.
+wanted me to double ride his horse with him.
+Does stuff to touch me..example: hitting me in the butt with a football,hitting me with a rubberband.
+When I talk to him he looks me straight in the eyes.
Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

He talks to me whenever I'm around him.
Usually trys to get me to play basketball,football,baseball something in that matter.


I know he wouldn't bullshit because there's no reason to.
It's a simple question.

I've known him for 3 years,and we are really close friends.
Whenever we are around each other we do talk,not a lot though because we both have things to do at horse shows when I see him.

[SarahxJoy]

Why wait around for him to ask you out?
Why not just ask him if he wants to go out with you?

If you get rejected, then at least you'll know where you stand, for whatever reason. And if you're scared about being rejected and then things getting awkward, don't. Honestly, a lot of people worry about "relationships ruining friendships", but it doesn't have to end up that way.

I say, just ask him out.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

i hope you dont get mad at me but im going to be as brutally honest with you as i can.


if you say that this guy likes you so much like stares at you 24/7 and looks at you in the eyes and smiles and what not wouldnt he ask you out by now? i mean from what you have said in your other topics you continue to ask you friends to go and ask him if he likes you and stuff (which is a bad idea by the way) . guys are not dumb if you have your friends like call him all the time just to ask him if he likes you or not i think by now he prolly figured it out that you like him. if he likes you wouldnt he already ask you out by now? i agree with tainted_angel you seem really sure that he likes you why not ask him out yourself and dont get your friends to ask for you.

[*liquid.*]

he dont like you.
you aint hot so drop a couple stacks and get lost