is it dumb to let him know?? |
 Aug 11 2006, 01:30 PM
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me in this guy were tottally in love with eachother and it just sorta died down...i dunno what happened...well i just emailed him telling him i miss him and i miss what we had and is all that over?? and i told him this is making me realyl upset...was that stupid of me to tell him?
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Aug 11 2006, 01:31 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
No. Expressing your feelings is important for ALL relationships. Whether you are friends or more than friends.
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Aug 11 2006, 01:31 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
No. A good relationship is built on communication. You need to tell him how you feel in the relationship. And that you want it to be as good as it was before.
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Aug 11 2006, 01:31 PM
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No, I don't think it was dumb to let him know. It'll probably help you out. I mean, guys are confusing. It's best to get all your feelings and thoughts out in the open, or both of you will be left confused.
 Trust me, guessing games aren't fun.Edit // Eeep! We all posted at the same time.
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Aug 11 2006, 02:13 PM
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All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
Guessing games suck...
 It's good to have all the emotions out in the open. Girls are just as supposedly confusing as guys. 
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Aug 11 2006, 03:47 PM
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 msladyliberty Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,766 |
NO...not wrong.
guys need a *heads-up* on stuff...'cause they aren't psychic. My boyfriend always tells me if a part of our "love-life" is getting lame. I say, you should purpose an idea to bring back that fire. Something new & different helps. |
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Aug 11 2006, 05:05 PM
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 another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
Omg you are/were in the exact situation i was in !
but i texted him..& he never textd me back but i feel SO MUCH better because its all out of me, everything i had bottled up inside me is out haha, i mean it felt HORRIBLE when he never responded to me but i feel alot better now haha. |
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Aug 11 2006, 08:14 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
It's dumb for you not to let him know. Maybe he felt the same way about you
 . Communicate buddy, Communicate !!!. My boyfriend and I tried this , " you have to promise me you'll tell me everything that has been bothering you ! " . &&. yep :] |
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Aug 11 2006, 10:13 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
Yeah, you should feel like you can talk to your boyfriend if you love him so much.
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Aug 12 2006, 04:01 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
its bad to not communicate to him how you feel. its only bad if your like begging him to come back to you or pleading him that you love him and you guys are meant for each other and sending him like 20 text messages. now thats bad but just telling him you care about him is good
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