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 Aug 10 2006, 12:10 PM
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HiDiNG A RELATi0NSHiP FROM YOUR MOTHER BAd???BECAUSE MY MOM dOSNT WANT Mi TO dATE OR HAVE ANYTHiNG TO dO WITH HAViNG A BOYFRiEND
 BUT...i dO HAVE ONE ANYWAY MY QUESTiON iS; iS iT BAd TO hiDE THAT FROM YOUR MOM????HELP?? |
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Aug 10 2006, 12:19 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
I may or may not be able to help you with your mum problems. But, what I can do is direct you into the correct forum. As this is a question you're looking for feedback on and pertains to relationships you're going to want to have this in the forum entitled Relationships.
[P.S. You seem new. Try posting an introduction. Click here. Have fun!] |
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Aug 10 2006, 01:16 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
Its really common sense here of course its technically bad to hide things from your mom and everyone knows that it's like ethics. But does that mean you still shouldn't do it? No. To be honest, I would do the same thing in your situation, and to be honest again, my boyfriend is in the same situation. Ok, maybe this isnt the best advice, but come on, you know it's wrong, but I'm not saying I wouldn't do it
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Aug 10 2006, 01:49 PM
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Hrm. I've hidden that from my mom. I mean she eventually found out because I didn't hide it that well, but yeah. I mean there was really nothing she could do about it.
 If you want to be a good girl, then I suggest you tell her right away. Explain to her that you think you're ready to handle relationships and all that jazz. Maybe if you talk with her and give her all these reasons why she should let you, she'll lay off and be nice?
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Aug 10 2006, 03:06 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
I agree with Kathleen. If you show that you are responsible enough to be in a relationship then maybe you won't have to hide it from your mom. For example, you could set down rules and conditions for you to be in a relationship like being home by 11:00 or keeping your grades up or something. I'm sure she will be understanding.
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Aug 12 2006, 03:52 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(The E-Man @ Aug 10 2006, 3:06 PM)  I agree with Kathleen. If you show that you are responsible enough to be in a relationship then maybe you won't have to hide it from your mom. For example, you could set down rules and conditions for you to be in a relationship like being home by 11:00 or keeping your grades up or something. I'm sure she will be understanding. i agree 
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Aug 12 2006, 04:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
I hid my ex boyfriend the whole time.
Last week .. she asked me if I have had a boyfriend before. Mom's ALWAYS know, ALWAYS. Sooner or later they find out. |
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Aug 12 2006, 04:44 PM
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 Im a BAMF...what now?! Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 452,460 |
wow! Im 18 and I still completely know where your coming from. My parents are ridiculously protective and even more ridiculously picky. Since I had to hide boyfriends from my parents when I was younger I do it now anyway because I dont want to hear what they think about it. Its not a bad thing to do...jus make sure you dont let it stress you out, because it will get annoying really fast.
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Aug 13 2006, 07:16 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I think it is, yes. It's hiding a secret from your Mother. Which is bad.
I told my Mom about my ex-boyfriend. |
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| *This Confession* |
Aug 13 2006, 07:40 PM
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Yea I would say its pretty bad to hide something like that from your mother. How old are you? Because if she doesnt' want you to date or have a boyfriend then she has to have some kind of reason for it?
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Aug 13 2006, 08:21 PM
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 rissa. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690 |
First of all, yes it's bad hiding stuff from your mom. Especially if you have a relationship eith her. For me, I don't have a relationship with my mom... it's just really annoying when she talks to me about anything in the world. Yes, very sad. I do hid stuff from her such as who I like and what I do. I just don't want her to know about my life and don't want to open up to her. But I do obey her like when she says I can't have a boyfriend or when she says I can't go anywhere. It's just a way I get respected, and how I give respect.
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Aug 14 2006, 10:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
well.. its a big risk.. i used to do that for a year and when i told my mom.. he kind of accepted it, i mean she just wanted to APPROVE my boyfriend [ex now] ... he used to hreet her all the time, tease her [not in THAT way] but like be nice, but it was werid, everytime me and my boyfriend fought, my mom never said hi to him whenever HE did...
well if you're willing to take the risk of getting in truble then i say, its not really BAD, but in the way of keeping something behind your moms back.. well there goes another story |
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