being single for too long Options

[berry_lickable]

ive been single for about a year now and it really making me feel lonely
i miss the cuddling and all the mushy things couples do, i really miss having a boyfriend

anyway how long could you stay single and not misshaving a boyfriend/girlfriend?

[Blank-OuT]

Just gotta deal with it, enjoy being single lol; got more time for yourself.

[iDecay]

13 years. Hah. I don't even know what it feels like to have a boyfriend... Or even have someone really like me. Meh.

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

^kinda know what you mean.
i actually like being single though.
somedays i`ll want a boyfriend,
and others i wont.

[goodcharlotte]

Well think about it this way. You have more "you time". And you don't have to answer to anyone when they ask where were you or anything like that.

[femmefatale4160]

Boys are overrated. I'm fine being single for now.

[ItsAMansWorld]

it will come around.. don't worry :)

[xostolenkissezox]

it's not bad being single..sometimes i wish i still was just so i didn't have to answer to anyone...and it seems the longer i'm with someone...the less time i have for my friends and i hate that...so being single you have more time for what you want to do

[danginja]

Somedays you want a boyfriend/girlfriend sometimes you don't. Just be patient there will be a guy for you.

The longest I went without a girlfriend is like 2 maybe 3 years yeah..no biggie.

[yummy_delight]

3 years and still going.

Being in a relationship is really overrated. I found out that it was really unhealthy for me to depend so much on another person to make me happy. Now that I'm single, I've had a lot of time to find out who I really am and I've learned to stand on my own as an independent individual.

Just think of this dry spell as a little "me time" for you. You've got half your adult life to be married. Why not enjoy this while you can?

[xforgottenlove]

haha there ARE some advantages to being single [:
- you get to flirt with that one hot guy at hollister ;D
- you get more time to yourself.
- you get more time with friends.
- you don't have to worry about parents disapproving.

hahaha.. man i almost wish i was single again
just wait for the right guy.. when he comes along , you'll know

[*Kathleen*]

^x2 Three years? Holy poop. I've gone without one for over a year now, and I'm in the same position, berry_lickable. Meh I miss it, too, but.. what're you gonna do, eh? Just move on.. have some "you time," as Ian put it. I don't really think there's anything more for you to do. Go out more, maybe? Mmm how old are you, by the way? I mean, I'm sure you have plenty of time to find one.

[artisticpariah]

Haha just mingle! works for me....

[SimplicityGirl]

Been.....around 17.5 years single. Had a bf. Didn't quite like it. So now I'm single. Enjoy the single life while you can.....it lets you explore who you are and who you want for a bf. Don't rush into it.

[inkyoto]

desperate piece of shit

get ahold of yourself

[blacknailpolish]

Yeah, don't rush into anything or go out with the first guy who asks you just because you want a bf. People in your position tend to do that. I'm not saying you will...

For now, just have fun with your friends!

[berry_lickable]

desperate piece of shit

get ahold of yourself

excuse me, who are you reffering to?

[*Kathleen*]

Been.....around 17.5 years single. Had a bf. Didn't quite like it. So now I'm single. Enjoy the single life while you can.....it lets you explore who you are and who you want for a bf. Don't rush into it.

Who would you have to practice on?

desperate piece of shit

get ahold of yourself

Please don't member bash here.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

About 2 years. It didn't bother me being single during that time, because I really didn't want to be with anyone else.

[goodcharlotte]

Sometimes friends are better. You can flirt with them or other people. You can do whatever you want. No one to get in your way. Don't take it wrong I like being taken and I love my girlfriend but still single isn't that bad.

[AngelinaTaylor]

I've been single for about two weeks now, and I'm ashamed to say that.. I want a man

[technicolour]

I've been single for 2 years. mainly my choice. But, yeah.

[lyin_in_wait]

i stayed single for...3 1/2 years before i met the current guy im dating. i waited because of one, my dads in the military and i was in for a bunch of short term places, and two i was tired of being screwed over. so i figured if i found a guy who could wait for me, he was worth it. and i did

[clarity]

I've never had a boyfriend, so I'm used to it.

[mylittleMiracle]

I've never had a boyfriend, so I'm used to it.

the same

[*Kathleen*]

I've been single for about two weeks now, and I'm ashamed to say that.. I want a man

Will power!

I've never had a boyfriend, so I'm used to it.

the same

And again, who would you have to practice on?

[*Uronacid*]

All you have to do is think about all the bullshit you have to put up with when your in a relationship... Life is easier and alot less stressful when you are ina relationship... I was single for 1 1/2 years before I started going out with Holly. I loved every second of being single, and I love every second of being in a relationship.

[*Kathleen*]

I loved every second of being single, and I love every second of being in a relationship.

So what is your point? That really doesn't help the girl.

[magicfann]

well i dont hafta make up excuses for signing off AIM to play cs anymore..actually i dont think my last one minded all that much

[lilseeky]

i had a boyfriend for about 9 months.. then 2 months later i got a new boyfriend. we have been together for about 2 years and we were perfect for eachother.. now im going to be a single mom. but i dont care. guys suck. i wish i had just dumped his ass and stayed single for a very long time.
not that you will be an idiot like myself..
just a thought,
you should be happy being single until you meet someone who you trust. otherwise, its not real, its just the feeling of being held.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Will power!

You'd think I'd have some Well I'm doing a good job. Two weeks is a long time!

[*xcaitlinx*]

i love having a boyfriend...i was single for well over a year before i met my current boyfriend. id talk to other guys, but never began any relationships. it's nice knowing that you always have someone to talk to and i think that knowing that someone loves you just as much as you love them is a very good feeling. i hate being lonely, and i know that i'm a lot happier with my boyfriend than i was when i was single.

[ariana8716]

welcome to the club.
heyyy at least you havent been single for 2!

[*Uronacid*]

i had a boyfriend for about 9 months.. then 2 months later i got a new boyfriend. we have been together for about 2 years and we were perfect for eachother.. now im going to be a single mom. but i dont care. guys suck. i wish i had just dumped his ass and stayed single for a very long time.
not that you will be an idiot like myself..
just a thought,
you should be happy being single until you meet someone who you trust. otherwise, its not real, its just the feeling of being held.

Your pregant!!! :O!!! you never told me...

[BrokenDream]

I've only had one boyfriend in my life so far... he was fake.

Um, well, sooner or later, you'll find the one person that makes you feel special, and happy.. and you'll have a boyfriend.

No luck for me though. I'm single right now, and I'm 13. I seem young, but I see alot of 13 year old girls getting boyfriends . Even having sex at 13. Gross.

But heyyy. I think it's alright having no boyfriend. Nothing to worry about, you're like free.

[Aerjae]

I've never had a boyfriend. It's not like ... I'm ugly and can't get one though. I have had so many opportunities... especially with super hot guys but... my perents said I couldn't have one. gggrrr It sucks being tortured like that.

[mznikki]

^kinda know what you mean.
i actually like being single though.
somedays i`ll want a boyfriend,
and others i wont.

samee lol been single for a year now and i pretty much like it but then again u do have ur days when you want one and other days u don'tt

[blacknailpolish]

Sorry I no this doesn't help you but I'm loving being in a relatioinship with ma boyfriend, but I had to wait for awhile to find the right guy. I also had a few offers but you just have to be patient and wait for someone you really want to be with. Trust me, it's all worth it when u do.

[n_Oodles]

Well it's been more than a year -_- but im pretty much used to it.

[Shahin]

AIM Converstion:

ricAH: sometimes i miss being single

[pinayprincess]

pretty much a long time... if i like someone, there is always a chance of me to get with that person [leave it to my friends] b/c they'll make ANY crush i have serious!! take my boyfriend for example; i liked him, he sorta liked me, my friends 'persuaded' him to like me, he asked me out on my bday -- thats that! [but i was kina mad] .. but when im single.. its like FREEEDOM... you dont need to get introuble with anything!!!

[broken inside]

I've been single for 15 years, I know what you mean XP

[radhikaeatsraman]

It's a paradox. Humans are wired to desire companionship, yet if you've never been in a relationship, you'd be perfectly content to be single all your life. I, personally, am in that position. I'm only 14. 14 year-old boys are idiots. So are 16 & 17 year-old boys.

Think of it this way: Boys are idiots. Men are intelligent & developed. (Physically & mentally.) Looking at it in those terms, would you rather go through a slew of boys when you're young and be unhappy or wait for a man until you're older and be happy for the rest of your life?

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

personally i like being single because i flirt with guys and also have time to concentrate on my school work and hang out with my friends. having a boyfriend takes my mind of my work and then i cant talk with other guys while the boyfriend is tripping over things that arent that big of a deal and they think you dont spend enough time with them if your hanging out with your friends. dont worry you will have enough time to have a boyfriend and prolly the rest of your life married to one, i say live life!

[Serendipity]

hmm.
here's an icon i found<3

[dancinqueen89200...]

ive been single for about a year now and it really making me feel lonely
i miss the cuddling and all the mushy things couples do, i really miss having a boyfriend

anyway how long could you stay single and not misshaving a boyfriend/girlfriend?

iv been singel for about 3 yrs haha ive had like guys online wanna be wit me but it neva hapens for real.. afta this much time i get it its horrible... i bet i started feeling lonely prolly after a month or somtim cuz i new that mabe no other guy would ever wana be wit me ... so yha lonely seff. and i miss everything bout it too.... but i gess u gotta jus keep going

[rochelley-o]

I was single for a year& a half before I met the guy I'm dating. It wasn't that bad. I just focused on school& had fun with my friends. I didn't really notice not having a boyfriend.

[moninja]

^kinda know what you mean.
i actually like being single though.
somedays i`ll want a boyfriend,
and others i wont.

i agree.
boys are just bleh. why do you have to worry about having a boyfriend?
they're just going to end up hurting you.

i don't mind being single anyways.
being young and single ftw!

[AngelinaTaylor]

It's a paradox. Humans are wired to desire companionship, yet if you've never been in a relationship, you'd be perfectly content to be single all your life. I, personally, am in that position. I'm only 14. 14 year-old boys are idiots. So are 16 & 17 year-old boys.

Think of it this way: Boys are idiots. Men are intelligent & developed. (Physically & mentally.) Looking at it in those terms, would you rather go through a slew of boys when you're young and be unhappy or wait for a man until you're older and be happy for the rest of your life?

I love this post. You're very mature for a 14-year-old =)

Ohhh and I'm no longer single..

[arielrel]

i was single for a little over a year, but it didnt bother me. I didnt have to worry about flirting and getting 'In trouble' or looking at someone who i know is FINE and 'Getting in trouble'. Then agian i know what youre feeling, for about a week after me and my old girlfriend broke up i was lonley, you get over it. Think about all those other cute guys you get to swoop on. ;) And also sometimes after feeling the need to be with some one and then letting go you start to love being on your own because you relize you dont need a relationship to validate you. And when the right one comes round you learn that they respect you for being independent, and thats how you know you've survived. Often enough 2 dependant ppl eat away at each other. Time. Time is all it takes.

[ariana8716]

hah, you think one years bad?
i've been single for three.

[arielrel]

Before that girl i was single for about 5 years lol

[Jensenmiki]

I've never had a boyfriend
but i totally enjoy my single life.
Come on dude,cheer up

[LostinaJungle]

I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18, and now that I have one, it's kind of freaking me out. I like it, but I loved being single.
Eh, I guess I'll get used to it.

[smileeetina]

I`m 15 & I was single for 10 years before my first boyfriend.

[RyeCatcher]

I believe it easier for a girl to get a boyfriend than a boy to get a girlfriend. IF i was you i would wait for the right guy. but i dont think you should go into any relationship just because your lonely. just tough it out.

[luckyxi3]

I believe it easier for a girl to get a boyfriend than a boy to get a girlfriend. IF i was you i would wait for the right guy. but i dont think you should go into any relationship just because your lonely. just tough it out.

it's not as easy for girls neither for boys, and i don't know where you got that information, ryecatcher.


i understand that it may be lonely to not have a significant other, but you can't rely on that person to make you happy. sure, they make you feel really special but the best things in life are worth waiting for.

so let life just guide you and you'll find that someone.

[Anna-x-chan]

Ugh, I been single for almost 2 years now, I know what you mean, I suck at getting boyfriends. The guy I like told me he liked me and then he asked some other girl out. So yeah. You'll get used to it if you don't find someone..

[Mikael]

ive been single for almost 3 years now, but i do occasionally date. feeling lonely is human. also, i think that some people hurry to have a relationship because they see others that do. dont be one of them. be patient and im sure someone will come by who you'll go head over heels for.

[c.moore]

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[rAwritsgWeg]

I'm not sure how I make it through. I just focus on things other than relationships. I focus on the good I already have. Being Alone Isn't as bad You think it is. Becuase I have truly been alone A.K.A. no gf, nowhere to live, on the run, no contact with friends. So loneliness will jsut be handled differently by different people. I handle it well. I stay strong

[_sarcastic_]

Even having sex at 13. Gross.

my friend's ex gf had sex at 13. it was nasty

the longest i've been single was maybe 7 months before i started to date my current bf =]

[Horib]

13 years. Hah. I don't even know what it feels like to have a boyfriend... Or even have someone really like me. Meh.

Same here, jsut change it to 15 years old.
Though a guy did like me in 7th grade but i thought he was retarded back then. But i actaully liked him.
Damn was I an idiot

Oh well,

[Watttt]

ive been single for about a year now and it really making me feel lonely
i miss the cuddling and all the mushy things couples do, i really miss having a boyfriend

anyway how long could you stay single and not misshaving a boyfriend/girlfriend?

im only 12 but for hell. ever since i dated this 5th grader everyone been confessing there love to each other yah it sucks but think of the new not the old. life is to short