Almost 2 months, & im still not over him... Options

[LiSFORLiNDA]

Okay wells heres my problem...

Its been almost 2 months or so since me & my ex broke up. He broke up with me because of him working & not having time for me & this & that. He texts me ALL the time & he calls me. When he broke up with me he said he likes me but doesnt think we could have a sucessful relationship w/ him & work. So he still likes me...^^ unless the whole work thing was an excuse [but i dont think so] Anyways im tired of this..its like he likes me but doesnt. Its so confusing so tonight im going to ask him if he's over me or w/e so i can move on. Because whats the point of me wasting my time liking him when he doesnt have any kind of feelings for me...right ? When we're on he phone its just liek before,we're both laughing & making fun of eachother. I just dont want that to change so i kinda dont wanna ask him if he's over me,but i NEED to know so i can move on instead of being stuck on him...ya know what i mean ? so should i or what..?

Please help

[cassjamminx]

hmm, well if he has time to text you all the time and call you to talk, doesn't that mean that he DOES have time for you? have you thought about that..? but i may be wrong, maybe you guys text/talk at night and stuff, but if not, can't those times when you guys talk be times when he can see you to spend time with you?

if it's true that he still likes you, and you still like him, and you really want to be with him, maybe you don't have to give up hope entirely and wait for him until the time is right.

but if you feel that you personally need to move on (hence why you're asking him tonight) then there's nothing wrong with that. there is no sense in waiting around for something that isn't for certain, so it's good that you're taking the initiative by asking him.



keep in mind that time heals everything, but i know that that is easier said than done.
hope that helps.

[Just2Fresh]

Ask him if you two or done or not so you can get on with your life. If he isnt then you need to let him know that you dont want to wait and be in this position anymore. If he doesnt then you were just wasteing your time, but dont take it hard. Go out and meet someone worth your time yadididi.

[LiSFORLiNDA]

thanks :)

[PrincessAda]

If you really want to know..go for it..

[Aerjae]

Umm.... If I were you, I'd move on with life.

[blacknailpolish]

Uh, Im not so sure you should ask him. What good will that do? If he says yes, then you'll just hurt more, and nothing will be gained. If he says yes, and he really still can't go out with you b/c of his job, then you'll also hurt even more knowing that he likes you but you can't have him. Plus, sadly, it WILL make things awkward between you from this point on. Your best bet is to just try to move on and find someone knew, which is also easier said than done, but neccessary.

[*Uronacid*]

Go for it, I think it's great yourealize you need to do that.

[LiSFORLiNDA]

i texted him

Me: Blake?
Him: Yup ?
Me: I just was wondering if you were over me because if you are then i need to know so i can move on, because theres no point in me liking you when you dont have any feelings left for me.

he never textd back :[
gosh this sucks so much, im getting a job where he works in a few months so he's gonna feel so weird around me now...:[

[cassjamminx]

i have a friend who's kinda in the same situation, like everytime she wants to know something he'll ignore her. they used to like each other then he got a girlfriend and stuff and he completely ignored her after that.

if he's not going to be mature about it, then move on. honestly, it's not worth your text messages if he can't even reply with a simple yes or no even.

if it's awkward where you two work, just know that it's not your fault- he's the one who can't answer you. maybe him seeing you more will make him realize what he lost (you) lol hehe

[TaintedDesires]

I'm in the same situation except we broke up because our parents thought we were getting too serious. In the beginning, we said we'll wait a couple months and see if it gets better but now we both kinda moved on.

[*Uronacid*]

Um... try talking to him in person...

[artisticpariah]

Love is patient my friend... That is... If you love him...

[Looow]

SHiT. I'm in the same situation except we broke up cus of his dad. Yeaaah it' been a month & something. Almost two months now. Yeaaah he said it was "a hold up for the summer thing cus at school at least he gets to see me .." && ... now I don't know.

I want to go into school knowing if I'm single .. on a break .. talking to somebody .. or together.

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