So there's this boy... Options

[breakingdawn]

That I hate.

I absolutely hate him in all entirety of the universe and beyond. And yes, I know that that doesn't make any sense. IT DOESN'T MATTER.

HOW DO I GET HIM TO LEAVE ME ALONE?!

Okay, let me fill you guys in with a bit of our history.

He was my first kiss. But it doesn't really count cos it was spin the bottle. So it wasn't like I had a choice. After that, we went out. But not really, because it was more of a talk-online-and-on-the-phone-only relationship. It didn't count. And I didn't even *like* him. It was just lust and since he was my first kiss and yachtayachtayachta. Okay, but apparantly he was in love with me. And he still is. And this was like, oh, two years ago? We broke up after a month because he was freaking me out. But I didn't hate him then. So we were good friends and stuff, but we had our ons and offs. Like, I would get really mad at him because I was with another boy and he would trip me and call me names because he was jealous and a little pussy of a guy. Just recently we started talking again, and all of a sudden he asks me out. Wtf? Where the hell did he get the idea that I wanted to go out with him? And now he wont stop calling me. And I'm afraid to answer the phone because I don't want to talk to him.

I don't even want to be his friend!

How do I get him to leave me alone... FOREVER!?

[stanzaonthewall]

if you don't like this guy why do you keep on communicating with him. WHy are you seeming like a friend. You are leading him on is a sense becasue he has such strong feelings for you already. My best advice is to stay clear of him. Let him know how you feel...if he doesn't get it sometimes an old fashion letter works...i've done that although i felt bad about it afterwards but he left me alone...Just ignore him...you don't have to contribute to his life that's what he want you to do.

[breakingdawn]

I haven't given him any hope. I made it perfectly clear after he asked me out that I wasn't interested. Ever. And that I thought it would be best that we didn't hang out anymore. He just doesn't get it.

[shigger_sweetie]

Although you may not want to do this but...
You should answer the phone and just tell him what you told us basically.
Not exact word for word, but tell him how you feel about the whole thing.
Once he knows then he should drop it.
If he doesnt get a clue that you don't want to be bothered with him at all.
Then the guy is looney.
That's when I would just confront him face to face and tell him to leave me the hell alone.
Its worth trying it.

[artisticpariah]

ooo my sister had the same situation cept she never went out with him, but he keeps calling her...

Well i heard that annoying people will only annoy you even more if you get miserable after they annoy you, so it's best to pretend that it doesn't irrate you... and live your life as if he is insignificant. that's all i can think of...

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

tell him flat out.

[*Uronacid*]

Alright, he may have just never got over you. It seems like he really wasn't in love with you at all. It seems like he just thought that he was in love with you. Many times peopel will confuse obbsession with love. Obbsession will lead you to become a jealous control freak. Also, if he was this obbsessed with you, he may not be able to get over you until you clearly tell him what you think of him. You need to tell him exactly how you feel. Alot of times people will tell me that they don't want to hurt the person that has a crush on them by telling them, but the truth is that, in the long run, you will be hurting them if you don't. He may not be able to get over you without you taking control of your relationship with him (when I use the word relationship. I am referring to a relationship between two people not a boy/girl relationship.)

Tell him that you have no intention in dating him ever again, and that you don't even want to be his friend if he will only be your friend with the hopes that he is going to go out with you someday. Also, take a break from communicating with him after you have said that.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

i agree with Uronacid.


the only reason he could still like you is most likely you have given him some reason to like you. that happend to me in the 4th grade and the 6th grade but i told those guys to leave me the hell alone and i never ever talked to them much less to have them as my friend. and they didnt bother me after that.

you need to talk to him and tell him you want nothing to do with him and if he wont quit talk with his mom or some older adult that you trust because that dude is not in love with you he is obssesed over you.

[PrincessAda]

Tell him,leave me alone.I`m not lookin` for a relationship with you.I just want to be friends..thats all we`ll ever be.