P.D.A., Public Displays of Affection Options

[rOckThISshYt]

lol. what do you think?? i personaly think it's fine. if i said it was wrong, then i'd be a hypocrit cuz i've hooked up in public places more than a few times. that includes school (library and cafatiria), mall (outside the food court. twice. and in front of the office building at the mall. once.), my porch (multiple times with my ex), etc. i think it's funny to do it with little kids around. then they're moms go "look away!!!" and cover their eyes. lol. but i've never done it cuz of that. i just think it's fun.

[LiNHy POO]

holding hands, hugging is ok... but kissing and making out is not good! juss keep it innocent..

[pikimoo]

You're such a weirdo. (ooo, sexay!) I think it's okay.. but I really don't care. Hey, whatever floats yer boat and tosses yer cookies.

[twistedfate]

i think that it's the couple's business what they do. personally, i like giving p.d.a. w/ my one and only of course

[DesperateXMeasur...]

Whatever popcorn's your chicken.

[dani41790]

well umm it depends where u r. if ur in sku then i think pplz should onli hold hands or hug but n e where else, then i think its fine to show all pda

[illushun_eyez]

let them express what they want to do

[ref_inn_ej]

hm.. i see ppl making out on the streets, i take a look and then continue with my own life
its their own business and it doesnt affect me so i leave them alone

[hair products]

please no humping

[177emories]

just like kissing and like hugging for a short time i slie okay but when they start touching each other or like make out like mad, than yeha they should get a room, i do't wanna seee ppl all over each other in the public, there are kids around..

[xquizit]

Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

[im___radx]

as long as its not in a park loaded with youngins, then i guess its fine. i get in trouble a lot for pda's at school, i hug one of my friends and then the teacher blows their whistle while screaming 'P.D.A!!!!' they over react constantly.

[twistedfate]

please no humping

lolz i agree, that's just too far

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

it's fine if you don't go too far .. there's a fine line between showing affection and love and being disrespectful in public.

[mznina]

it's fine if you don't go too far .. there's a fine line between showing affection and love and being disrespectful in public.

correct..

one day i was at starbucks, id ont kno about u guys, but at our starbucks we have sofas and stuff,, there was this couple, they looked like they were literally having sex on the couch, giving massages..and she was stadleing (spel ck) him. its like they didnt care what ppl thought!

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

correct..

one day i was at starbucks, id ont kno about u guys, but at our starbucks we have sofas and stuff,, there was this couple, they looked like they were literally having sex on the couch, giving massages..and she was stadleing (spel ck) him. its like they didnt care what ppl thought!

wow that's way too much .. being THAT affection should be behind closed doors with the person you love .. no need to be disrespectful in front of other people like that .. i know those starbucks couches are comfy .. but damnn!! that's a little too serious now >_< .. people need to learn to show self control!!

[mznina]

wow that's way too much .. being THAT affection should be behind closed doors with the person you love .. no need to be disrespectful in front of other people like that .. i know those starbucks couches are comfy .. but damnn!! that's a little too serious now >_< .. people need to learn to show self control!!

lol they sure r comfy, lol but yeh u r right, it was just gross, they also has an audience. lol it was bad.

when my boyfriend holds me around the waist at the movie theaters or something i think thats already tooo much affection. i just cant belive people would do what i saw at starbucks!

[ThePrincessofTKD]

when i see couples holding hands or give kisses on the cheeks...i wonder what they have done lately to get that far..

but if they start cuddling too much...if i`m in a good mood...i smile. if not, i glare at them or do worse.

[illuminessence]

Hmm...I am so used to PDA's cuz of my high school. I mean...ppl have sex in the damn bathroom! I see a lot of ppl feeling up on each other during lunch and eventually, I throw my own lunch away cuz it's just...so innapropriate. Eew...it's sweet to know you couples express your love through rubbing against each other as other ppl eat next to you.

[tinababy143]

i think kissing and cuddling and everything is appropriate..but when it gets to feeling each other up and taking clothes off thats just wrong

[charismatic_chic...]

while in school... me and my boyfriend will say bye to each other when we get to class... hug... kiss... then bye... it pisses me off most of the time when people we don't even know are yelling to the world "GET A ROOM!" it's not like we're doing anything serious! goodness gracious! usually me and my boyfriend will just play it off and smile because we don't wanna be rude... but when people start calling us names is when they push it too far!

the phrase "get a room" isn't a good choice of words anyways... they're actually making it worse for the couple!

[NostalgicRockChi...]

i think passing people making out in the hallways is extrememly awkward and uncomfortable... dunno why.

[MrTurtle]

i`m not gonna be hypocritical. i think its nobodys business. if you have a problem with it, walk away. me and my boyfriend try not to do it in school but when we're outside, we dont care, we`ll make out forever.

[lemonlina]

Holding hands and cuddling are fine... but once they start making out it's like, "please, get a room for or go somewhere private." xP

[LatinaLady]

i picked
don't care. it's their business. not mine.

i dont mind. i do that when i have a b/f so yeah. lol. love it. why not show that person you "love" anywhere. not like your having sex

[sweetlyz]

to a certain point yeh i don`t care .. but gawd, if yOo start groping each other in places or in a way tOo intimately .. PLEASE get a rOom! No one needs to see that. I remember seeing this HUGE white girl and this scrawny, twig-like, white guy groping each other and kissin each other and tryin to lift each others` shirts up right in front of the damn theater! EWWW!! talk about scarred for life!! YUCK!

[*Kathleen*]

Hey...I don't care if stuff happens...just not me. I'll be minding my own business, walking the hallways of my school, reviewing quiz questions in my head when I see some random couple sticking their tongues down each other's throat in the corner. Then, I become so scarred that I forget my quiz facts.

[cleec]

One of my friends and her boyfriend are all over eachother in school, first it was cute oh two people in their first stages of romance but now it's just gross. They grope eachother and feel eachother up in the middle of the halls all the while sucking eachother's faces

Uck. Develop some morals.

[rOckThISshYt]

to a certain point yeh i don`t care .. but gawd, if yOo start groping each other in places or in a way tOo intimately .. PLEASE get a rOom! No one needs to see that. I remember seeing this HUGE white girl and this scrawny, twig-like, white guy groping each other and kissin each other and tryin to lift each others` shirts up right in front of the damn theater! EWWW!! talk about scarred for life!! YUCK!

yeah... groping in public is so wrong. but just hooking up is fine, i think.

[Spirited Away]

Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

YES! Will somebody please think of the children?

My innocent little cousin, as annoying as she is, saw two teens making out on the bus... now she keeps on asking me about it... I wanted to pulverize those two kids.

I think that it's rude showing that kind of affection in public. If you don't care for your own image, then at least respect your partner, because people will think "what a sl_t" or something like that. If neither of you respect each other, then think about the children.

[Viggen]

Someone said in an earlier post that it is nobody's business to care about if they do it in public. I agree there but you just can't help not noticing it, and there will be people who will be offended by it anyway. Even if you do it right in the middle of a shopping mall with kids running around. Now what kind of example are you setting for those kids when they see some ass-rubbing and tongue action going on there? How do you feel in front of those mothers, fathers, and older seniors? Yeah they would not give a shit, another than they will think you just don't have any morals, period.

There is a time and place for everything. Hugs and a hand-holding walk is tolerable, kissing and tongue action stays out of public sight.

[asdf]

Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

i agree

[Just_Dream]

I piced 3. I don't care. It's there busines not mine.

COnsidering the fact that I'm always hugging my boyfriend and yea. I also hold his hand.. and kiss him on the cheek, a peck that is. I don't make out in school or anything. And I give him a peck on the lips =) That's about it. And usually that's duing passing period when I go to 3rd period and 5th and 6th lol. just a peck. No harm done. But when people are making out or touching each other all over their body or when a guy has his hands up the girls shirt (and I've seen that before eww PDA PDA!), it's a little.. too much. But hey, it's there business. Whatever they do, they might regret it later on becuase the guy who had his hand up the girl's shirt... they broke up later. And also, if they get caught, oh well, they shouldn't have been doing that. BUT, a vice-principal omg.. that lady (good thing she don't work at my school any more).. she said I looked like 'I was doing my bed stuff" when ALL I gave my bf was a HUG. She yanked my arm it hurted Grr no wonder EVERYONE hated her.. even teachers lol

[s o o o CONFUSED]

i think if it is like holding hands and huggin it koo but if it is like makeing out i think they could wait until they were in a private place to do that


like one time i was shopping and dis chica was bitin hurrr hubbies lip and stuff like all in ma way off shoppin lol

[pikimoo]

Well, it's okay to a certain point. Hugging and kissing is okay. But my friend and his girlfriend stand in the middle of the street next to an elementary school making out and he puts his hands in her shirt and starts massaging her boobs. That's just not right.
Ugh. I also hate it when you walk by people who are making out and they just stop and start glaring at you like you interrupted them. So annoying...
Sex in public is bad. o.O;

[liSSa_x0]

i picked #4. i think when they hold hands, hug, maybe kisses on the cheek or quick pecks, that's cute. but when they're all out making out (like i saw some people doing at dorney park) that's just gross. then it's like "get a room!"

[simply_mehehe]

its their business...........and yes we will hope that children aren't looking...........so long is it doesn't involve getting in ppls way or groping/humping what not thats just a lil disturbing there...........i mean me and my boo just give a lil peck thats showin affection enough..........if you guys really love each other then you don't have to show affection like that especially in front of children

[hOeyx3]

it`s really whatever. i mean, i like to hehe but i keep it down to holdinq hands, holdinq each other, or little kisses. but sometimes i like to nibble muhahaha..

but it qets qross when they make out or qrab her ass or anythinq else... *shudder*

[onenonly101]

i don't like it. it is okay to give a light kiss, but do not make oput in the hallways and try to cop a feel on your girl. that bothers me. Or on the side of the street...

[rOckThISshYt]

pda kicks ass!!! i do it and i love it. but it does get to a point where it's all like... ahhh!

[vivieeeen]

hands up shirt is a nono


... actually, hands up anywhere except the waist or hands or back is a NONO

[hybrid]

My choice speaks for itself.

Its their business. Not mine.

[mai_z]

i think it's cute....i mean like massive groping.....not in public, but holding hands, kissing, i think it's all really cute...i have this one friend who really hates it tho....it's sorta funny

[ComradeRed]

Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

Young children... and BIG BROTHER!!

Come in to the light, Winston... You must...

[ComradeRed]

Hey...I don't care if stuff happens...just not me. I'll be minding my own business, walking the hallways of my school, reviewing quiz questions in my head when I see some random couple sticking their tongues down each other's throat in the corner. Then, I become so scarred that I forget my quiz facts.

At least that's not in my school... that would just be WEIRD if that happened...

You need to assert yourself more. Punch them both and yell "FEAR ME!!!!" then walk away quitely whisteling a Nazi march or the Soviet National Anthem.

[islandkiss]

I have no problem with it. with p.d.a you could express your emotions and stuff. it's kind of cute when you think about it.. just as long as they like aren't really GOING FOR IT in public.

[someflipguy]

Okay...im all for the hugging and kissing..but making out in front of everone is a little over board..maybe take it to your car..or something...just prefrably dont want to see it...

[ComradeRed]

YES! Will somebody please think of the children?

My innocent little cousin, as annoying as she is, saw two teens making out on the bus... now she keeps on asking me about it... I wanted to pulverize those two kids.

I think that it's rude showing that kind of affection in public. If you don't care for your own image, then at least respect your partner, because people will think "what a sl_t" or something like that. If neither of you respect each other, then think about the children.

"Won't you PLEASE think of the children?" is quite possibly the single most overused bad argument in the world.

[Mireh]

As long as they don't bother me...its all coo'.

and as long as they don't start calling each other like "shmuckums" or "babyface" or anything...yea..

[Spirited Away]

"Won't you PLEASE think of the children?" is quite possibly the single most overused bad argument in the world.

Ah, overused, overrated, overstated, whatever the case may be, it still makes a heck lot of sense. To me at least.

I get uncomfortable seeing two people tounging and groping each other in public, and I'm not even a kid. I wouldn't want any children to be subjected to something they are not mature enough to understand.

[franceass]

everything that I wanted to say was already said here ....

PDA is fine with me as long as it doesn't involve anything more than holding hands, a hug, or a little peck on the lips/cheeks .... anything beyond that should be kept between just the couple in a more intimate setting where it involves just the couple ... I don't think anybody would want to see all that stuff. At least, I wouldn't.

[Mini]

i picked
don't care. it's their business. not mine.

i dont mind. i do that when i have a b/f so yeah. lol. love it. why not show that person you "love" anywhere. not like your having sex

what she said..just dont have sex in public. please!

[sandra]

they can do whatever they want, as long they keep it under control.. but sometimes a tad of overboarding is not cool

[JlIaTMK]

its fine.... as long as they dont "mingle"

[phatty]

nah i dont mind it. i mean it's cute when you see couples kissing and holding hands. but if they're like making out like they're gonna have sex then whoa~ get a room! haHAhaa

[rOckThISshYt]

who picked that it turns them on? i think that's funny.

[DisneyPrincessKa...]

moderate p.d.a. is fine, but a lot of people don't realize that. I don't want to go to the mall to see people making out everywhere, that's just not my thing.

[Winter]

I think it's fine as long as they don't go overboard.

[sadolakced acid]

stops at hugs, then it's fine.

haha... my school... you have people in the halls making out like a NC-17 movie.

and suddenly, these two decided to start making out in front of my locker every day. it's in the corner so i supposed they wanted 'privacy. in the public?

haha. the only way i got them to go away was the stick my face right next the them and pretend to watch. it took them 30 seconds to notice.

[ur_my_sweety20]

Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

i agree.!

[skaterjswife2]

omg i had a friend who did that ALL THE TIME like they were all over eachother EVERY SECOND. It gets really old..really fast. It's cute though with little things, like holding hands, hugging, and little kisses. But seriously some people need to get a room

[T00000]

it's chill as long as the breasts, penis, or vagina aren't either exposed or being groped.

i mean... sometimes two people in love get lost in their own little world.

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

if u wanna go the whole 9 yards.. get a room.. lol

[pbear]

It's okay with me as long as it doesn't reach the point where I get uncomfortable watching.
Holding hands, quick kisses and the like are fine, but when things like groping, humping, etc. are involved...

Seriously, get a room.

[Darkpekkle]

yea, it's fine as long as it doesn't get too NC-17-ish. holding hands, hugging, leaning on each other, light kissing- i'm fine with that 'cuz i think it's cute. but it stops being cute when i see groping, lots of tongue action, and clothes coming off.

[babixlilac]

it realli dun matter buh i feel lonliee if i see it and i have no one

[SarahxJoy]

I voted for choice #3. Although, some things can go TOO far..

[Davina85]

Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

yes..and well put...what i was thinking, a lady with class and respect. no need for all that other shiznit...who wants to have to walk in the mall with a bunch of couples kissing and making out...honestly what is the point, other than to show everyone else what you do, and the fact that you can't keep your hands off each other when in front of other people

[rOckThISshYt]

haha. all these people's examples are from the mall. well, not all, but most. but when i came up with this topic, i got it from when i saw some pda at the mall. i was in cvs with my friend. we were in line and there was a couple in front of cvs all over each other. they were waiting for their friend who was in line in front of us. he was like "aww!!! come on!!! no one wants to see that!!!!" then he turned to me and my friend and said "do you guys want to see that?!" my friend said no but i said i don't care. cuz they weren't like going up each other's shirts. but they were REALLY close, if you know what i mean. and they were kissing... alot.

[Squeegie]

its kooll....i do it sometimes andif people care than thats their problem..where else are you suppose to express your love?? at home alone?? ok lets go


^^^Sarcasm

[teef AHH knee]

i think holding hands.. and hugging.. and little pecks are okay. but i mean.. if i walked by some couple who was making out like crazy.. i would be thinking GET A ROOM..
but yeah..like someone said.. lol no HUMPING in public. there are little innocent children around.

[h22fanatik]

it's fine to a certain extent. i don't care if they hold hands and give pecks. i just think it's gross when they start groping on one another.

[xsweetdreams12x]

If it goes no farther than holding hands and little pecks, then I'm fine. But if they're making out and stuff, can't they just wait till they're somewhere private??

[iheartsimba]

i don't care if they do.

[eli5e]

i think pda's are cute.. but to a LIMIT.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

doesnt bother me, i do it all the time.

[defjam_gangsta]

Greetings!!

wanna make love?! go somewhere else!!

CHEERS CB!!

[audory]

uhm well i gues it depends where yooh are.. i mean if ure lyk in a playground where lil kids are runnin around.. keep it clean.. for most puplic areas.. i think they should juss lyk hugg nd hold hands.. tha clean simple stuff xD

[mouse_3k]

i dont mind..heck, i do it with my bf all the time. Im only disturbed if the PDA actions comes from like..5th graders..now thts gross. and as long as cloths stay on, its all good

[whywasisostupid]

im for it. but as long as yall arent lik groping each other or doing it out in the open. kids might b watchin geez..

rawr me and my ex made out so many times in the hallways... it was like 4 times a day almost.
or we wuld go and skip lunch and go have fun at the staircase

[Fashionista225]

holding hangs huggin and kissing are ok. I don't think it's cool to make out for a long time tho. Ew I once saw a guy pour hot sauce on this girls tongue and lick it off..then start makin out full force.......in the school cafeteria.

[Alpha240]

depends on how far you take it... kissing, hugging.. no problem.
groping and humping... ummm ew?

[SSJ Kenshin]

Whatever floats their boats. It's their lives, not mine.

[*Weird addiction*]

I dont mind cos i'll love to kiss mah bf in public so everi bodi can see how much we love eachother!!!

[jk9286]

To a certain extent it's tolerable. Like holding hands, hugging, quick pecks n such...but full out making out, groping, necking, n whatnot, I dont wanna see that. It makes me sick.

[smilingslightly]

dont care... too much is a no no though

[soulovely]

i think it's their business. but it shouldn't be taken too far as (someone said) gropping and humping! a simple hug here and there, pecks of kisses on the cheeks/lips/forehead are fine, holding hands (how sweet)... but not too far.

[Nicolatofu]

Well i don't really like to see couples all into it in public (uck my brother!!!!) lol that's what the bedroom is for, but a little kissing, hugging holding hands is fine!

[PinkTrash]

Ive done it before =/ on a street.. some grandma was staring at me and my [now exbf] kissing.. she kept smiling. yeah its wierd =l

[Blank-OuT]

doesn't bother me

[dreamerOi]

sure why not dont mind.

[silver-rain]

eh, i don't mind it if they're hugging or holding hands. but eh i don't really like seeing them make out or grope each other.

[pink_tootsie]

i dont care about that except when they go too far when theyre showing their 'affections' and yeah think about the others that might be watching you..especially kids..

[avsugarhigh09]

i laugh when i see my best friend hug her boyfriend just because they aren't p.d.a. people. i'm strange though... but yeah my opinion is that no one wants to have that rubbed in their face...

[1--GIRL]

I don't really care unless one of them gets on top of each other and rips his/her clothes off and then..

[*wind&fire*]

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[lilxroxy]

sometimes we hold hands and hug and kiss. thats doesn`t go too far into making out. ahahS.

tehre`s this couple in our grade. the guy always kisses like..MAJOR frenching going on in the caf and lockers. :\ teachers warn them tho..ahahs.

[JessJR1022]

depends on how far they go...like my friend and her new boyfriend drive me insane cuz they ar ALWAYS doing stuff...and it sucks cuz I just broke up with my boyfriend...

[kalyps0]

I have absolutely no problem with it. Though I couldn't since I do it. It gets irritating when people walk by and yell PDA!! Rawr..its immature

[WhiteLotus*]

I chose," It's their business, not mine." Me and my boyfriend just hold hands and hug in public. I think we'd both feel awkard if we were kissing and someone was watching.