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 May 26 2004, 04:32 PM
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I'm the type of person who isn't shy nessicarily(sp) but i don't like to do anything out of the ordinary. i guess you could say i'm selfconcious in a way. so when it comes to guys i hate making the first move or doing anything spontanious(not too spontanious but like tell em i like em or something along those lines). is there anything i can do to change this or is it just the way i am?
i guess one thing i'm curious about is there is this guy i like who likes someone else and i guess i don't wanna give up without saying i put forth an effort. he used to like me but i kinda don't think i was flirty enough or something like that cause the girl hes into now is way different than me. i know i've done had my chance at it but i guess i want him to know without me going into this much detail. i've asked my friends about it and they've told me to call him, be more flirty, get someone to tell him i like him, and one just told me he was a butthole with a little different wording. has anyone been in a situation and did something about it. the only bad part about this whole thing is that we're getting outta school and so i won't see him for another 2 month  ! anywho sorry so long but any advice???!!!
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May 26 2004, 04:36 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
you could juss loosen up... relax... take a deep breath... and say i can do this!
 im juss like you when im around guys... and you shouldnt always make the guy do everything... have a little confidence! be brave!
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May 26 2004, 05:12 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
hmmm, a guy shuldnt make yu change da way yu are, yu shouldnt force yourself to talk to a guy or flirt with him more if it makes yu feel uncomfortable
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May 26 2004, 05:26 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think u should suck it in and yell at him and say I LIKE YOU! lol ;D but tell him, or u'll regret in the summer
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May 27 2004, 03:18 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,378 |
you have no clue how many times i've wanted to but i knew that i would regret it!
anywho thanks for all advice!! |
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May 27 2004, 11:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,132 |
WHITNEY!!!!!!!!!! It's me Nicole. So nice to see your lovely, er, posts on this lovely message board. Like I told you on the bus the other day, or maybe I didn't, but now I am, if you think he is really, really, really, really, worth your effort than go for it. SHOUT it on the mountain tops if you have to. if you are willing to take a chance on him, take it. Grab it by the balls and twist, so to speak. hehehehe
Luv Ya Chick, Nik |
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May 27 2004, 11:28 PM
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 Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,299 |
i know it's not u to go tell him straight but believe me
 do it n u won't regret it, tell how u feel to him n get it over with, afraid of embarrassment? everybody do it, not just u n we can move on...it's ok!!!
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May 28 2004, 01:08 AM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
well, you should relax, first and formost. second, you should empty your mind. say to yourself "okay. i can do this. i have one shot and if i don't take it now, i'm never going to have it again." then just go for it. that's the most i can tell you. i'm not usually the first to make a move, although i'm usually not afraid to. but when it comes down to it, i realize that we're not the only ones who are scared and self-consience. they are too, no matter how hard it is to believe. so keep that in mind when you think about your move. good luck and god speed. riiight.
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