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is sex really supposed to hurt the first time?!!?
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:08 PM
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i heard it is.. ermm.gif
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does it hurt as bad as i think it does? dhnsjak
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:14 PM
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lol i don't know. but someone told me that when it does happen, you're gonna love it. pinch.gif
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:16 PM
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I don't know.. I really don't care anyways. I'm only 13 _dry.gif.
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:19 PM
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Depends what sex you are talking about..
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:32 PM
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^ lol..
i really don't know.. i heard it does.
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:43 PM
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I heard it does for hte girl...cuz it breaks your hymen or something
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:49 PM
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Yeah.
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:50 PM
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well, you're gonna feel it when your hymen tears. some girls bleed when it does. (that's why people say, "that girl's 'cherry popped,'")
but it's like using a tampon for the first time. it really hurts the first few times, but after a while it goes away.

but what do i know, i'm a virgin XD.gif
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 01:56 PM
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It's different for different people. Usually, it's expected to hurt unless you've already broken your hymen before (even without having sex). You can break your hymen doing rigorous activities; maybe while doing something like horseback riding or gymnastics.

Really, it just depends. For some girls, it hurts a lot and for others they don't feel any pain.
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 02:00 PM
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QUOTE(OMG_thisplacesucks @ Jul 25 2006, 2:19 PM) *
Depends what sex you are talking about..


agreed

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post Jul 25 2006, 02:02 PM
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hmmm
thanks :]
but hurtttt,.?
hha
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 11:19 PM
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A lot of people believe that if you have already torn your hymen it isn't going to hurt.
I know this sounds sick, but your vagina has elasticity. (Which is why a woman who isn't a virgin but goes a long period without having sex will sometimes notice a different when they start again). If you've never had something penetrate you before, it will probably hurt. I wish I had something better to compare it to, so it could be better understood.
Basically: If you're vaginal opening has never been stretched out, there will be some discomfort.
 
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post Jul 25 2006, 11:26 PM
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It hurts. Period, dot, dash.
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 12:07 AM
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yes it does
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 08:39 AM
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yeah your hymen rips so it hurts...

but it could have ripped when you were little...

but mine iddnt..
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 09:50 AM
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Actually on the first time, you'll feel this "stretching" going on down there....
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 09:54 AM
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o0o0o YEN!!!!
uhm idk about this but i think it hurts.IONO!
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 10:04 AM
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for some people it hurts because they have a little problem with their hymen getting broken

the stretching comes from.. well your parts getting stretched, depending on how f**ked up you are, it may feeel real good
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 10:09 AM
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it differs from person to person, although if your nervous about it its not going to be the greatest expierence..and if you use tampons or what Sarah said earlier and your hymen is torn already then it probably won't hurt so much
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 10:10 AM
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dude I hate how guys orgasm faster...
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 10:13 AM
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^ hahahaha..


yeah, it does hurt the first time. it wasn't as bad as i thought though.
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 10:15 AM
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You know I laugh everytime I read fanfiction with lemons because they always end up with both of them cumming at the same time and having the best sex ever

some fanfics can pull it off

but some are..wow
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 04:02 PM
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Yes. There's blood and pain and be careful because you might get pregnant and die.







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Depends on you actually. Sometimes it hurts a LOT sometimes not at all, sometimes a little.
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 04:12 PM
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I must be really puerile, because reading this topic made me laugh out loud.
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 04:38 PM
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Didn't hurt that much for me..but it reall depends
 
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post Jul 26 2006, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(smallsXalmighty @ Jul 26 2006, 5:38 PM) *
Didn't hurt that much for me..but it reall depends


Yeah it depends on the person..
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 12:14 AM
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QUOTE(Madame C @ Jul 26 2006, 12:26 AM) *
It hurts. Period, dot, dash.



thanks. for a straight answer

i didn't need all that explaing. biggrin.gif
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 12:38 AM
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wel what do you think??!! your getting a big fleshy shaft shoved up your private, of course its gonna hurt.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 12:39 AM
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It depends on the female's vagina. Some hurt, some don't.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 02:05 AM
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for me it didnt but he was pretty much the perfect size so that pain and pleasure was equal...then again that doesnt sound to convincing but w/e....if hes too big though then duh its gonna hurt
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 02:57 AM
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My mommy says it hurts your first time mellow.gif
But, she says it feels reall good the next time! biggrin.gif

I wouldn't know, I'm a virgin :)
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 04:33 AM
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idk..i hvnt had sex yet.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 11:47 AM
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Thanks everyone. Now I'm scared.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 11:57 AM
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QUOTE(OMG_thisplacesucks @ Jul 25 2006, 2:19 PM) *
Depends what sex you are talking about..


Agreed! laugh.gif thumbsup.gif
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 02:51 PM
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"Thanks everyone. Now I'm scared."

You're scared? You shouldn't be scared, it's a special thing :}

I'm not scared, I'm just not ready... I think I'm gonna wait 'till I'm married :) But, whatever happens, happens.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 03:36 PM
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lube biggrin.gif
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 06:17 PM
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QUOTE(xCrys @ Jul 27 2006, 3:51 PM) *
"Thanks everyone. Now I'm scared."

You're scared? You shouldn't be scared, it's a special thing :}

I'm not scared, I'm just not ready... I think I'm gonna wait 'till I'm married :) But, whatever happens, happens.



I was only kidding. laugh.gif
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 07:15 PM
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QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 26 2006, 11:10 AM) *
dude I hate how guys orgasm faster...




LMAO

sometimes im just like , your done? ok good.

LOL cause i dont get pleasure out of sex , i mean now , i allmosttt just started.
 
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post Jul 27 2006, 09:37 PM
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For me it did! A lot. My first time was a couple months ago, & it still hurts. ;/
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 12:50 AM
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it depends. well, if your "cherry has been popped" that may increase pain.
some say that if you've used tampons, or have been fingered, it won't hurt as much.
but really, tampons, and fingers don't compare to the size a penis.. right?

yeahhhh. but it depends on if you tore already.
and if you aren't, some people don't find it painful.

it depends.
 
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QUOTE(xCrys @ Jul 27 2006, 3:57 AM) *
My mommy says it hurts your first time mellow.gif
But, she says it feels reall good the next time! biggrin.gif

I wouldn't know, I'm a virgin :)

You asked your mom how it felt? blink.gif
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 06:44 PM
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^ lol i'd be like ahh stfu sick.gif my friend had the same info, she said her mom TOLD her and that she didnt ask. but my mom isn't like that, i wouldn't want her to tell me anything though lol
 
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QUOTE(EmmalieV @ Jul 27 2006, 8:15 PM) *
LMAO

sometimes im just like , your done? ok good.

LOL cause i dont get pleasure out of sex , i mean now , i allmosttt just started.

wtf

if you're not satisfied with the guy, tell him to keep going till you orgasm with him

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if y'all are curious

Why won't you ask bacteria?

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lol I know that wasn't relevant but I wanted to share
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 07:07 PM
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this is interesting, but i wouldn`t know.
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 08:09 PM
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QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 28 2006, 4:49 PM) *
wtf

if you're not satisfied with the guy, tell him to keep going till you orgasm with him

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if y'all are curious

Why won't you ask bacteria?

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lol I know that wasn't relevant but I wanted to share



lol i agree with you, but the whole bacteria thing made me go wtf? lmao
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 10:41 PM
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hahhhaha guys that last 3 minutes & then its over... wow... it sucks... its actually really disapointing... ughh.... sex didnt really hurt for me the first time.. but heyy i dunno... everyones different.
 
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post Jul 28 2006, 11:27 PM
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It hurts the first couple of times for most people. It hurt the first couple of times for me.
 
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post Jul 30 2006, 11:32 AM
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i've herd that it does.
but i think it depends on each girl.
but i don't know..
 
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post Jul 30 2006, 12:51 PM
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Yes, it does....if you don't use some form of lubrication. Just imagine trying to fit and elephant in a room into a Mini Cooper. It feels like hell...seriously. The pressure can be unbearable. That's the pain you feel...PRESSURE.


Sorry if I scared any of you guys. But it's all truth. So, yeah...I hope your partner's a caring one. If not, that's just sad.
 
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post Jul 30 2006, 01:05 PM
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As tainted_angel said, you can tear your hymen doing rigorous activities, but it can also tear from using tampons or being penetrated by, erm, other things.
 
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post Jul 30 2006, 07:12 PM
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so if it hurts that means she's a virgin?
 
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post Jul 30 2006, 08:20 PM
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^Or that she's only had sex a couple times.
 
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