how did you .. POll<3 Options

[ariana8716]

curious about it.
tell me what you put & give me the example and everything.

and on the poll its him/her! haha sorry guys <3

[Looow]

I have done it in person or on the phone.

Person is always better though

[ilovAL092]

i've told most of my crushes on aim or myspace...sometimes in person, but not very often

[moninja]

lol
i tell a friend
and they end up telling the guy T__T

[n_Oodles]

I voted for note, but after I voted I realized that I would probably do it the easy way online. Even though its not as 'romantic' or whatever, I'm really shy so it's harder for me because I can't take rejection. Even if I did write a note, I'd probably avoid him after I give it to him

[CHiiCKENBUTT]

note, text, phone, AIM. everything BUT in person =) lol

[Listelle]

I think everyone has done it over AIM or in a note at least once. But the last time I did it, it was in person over a year ago. Yay.

[SarahxJoy]

Usually it would be like after school online on AIM or something.
Though if it feels right, I'd tell 'em in person.

BUT ONLY AFTER THEY ADMIT IT FIRST!

[Anielka]

I think it's less awkward when you do it in person, I dunno why. I prefer it if people tell me in person, too. :)

[pinayprincess]

-aim
-in person
-a friend did it for me
-over the phone

[ariana8716]

I voted for note, but after I voted I realized that I would probably do it the easy way online. Even though its not as 'romantic' or whatever, I'm really shy so it's harder for me because I can't take rejection. Even if I did write a note, I'd probably avoid him after I give it to him

haha that is so like me.
i'm planning to give him a note,and avoid him after.
lol.
you just took the words that if i was just a responder i would probably say the same thing.

[lalalaLANUH]

i've never actually told him...my friend let it slip, but if i had to choose i'd say in person.

[clarity]

I told my friend Chris to tell him. So he did.

[KissMe2408]

My most recent crush, um I told him in person basically.

Well told him I cared about him in person, I think we both had an understanding that we had a crush on each other, without really verbalizing it or anything lol.

[OhMyAnniee]

well the best way i did it was have my friend tell one of his friends and sort of joke about it. so that he would just " overhear " it. and then on aim or something i'd ask him " did you hear? " about how i like him.. and then i'd say like " haha, well anyways, it's true. " but sometimes i dont tell them because i know they would stop talking to me so i keep on the down low.

[cloudysunshine]

I'm a straight forward person and so typically, I'd tell the person in person. But I have told someone that I liked them while chatting with them online, as sad as that seems. :P

[PrincessAda]

Umm I`m shy sometimes when it comes to these things but mostly person and my friend telling them.

[ANG33ZY]

i cant anymore

[*This Confession*]

well if it was a crush i never told the person, someone else would find out or something stupid and go tell the person. Although crushes are kind of pointless.

goes along with that whole

its called a crush for a reason.

So i don't get attached. But if its more then that crush/infatuation.

Then I'll tell them myself I suppose.
I did last time, although I usually always get the guy to admit it first.

[adurf]

none. they just find out somehow. but other than that, i use every way. :X

[bballchick1]

I didn't vote, but, the one time I did tell a guy that I liked him, was in grade 6 by the way, I got my friend to do it for me. It didn't really work out too well...

Right now I'm going out with a guy that I've liked for a long time, but I didn't have to tell him because he asked me out first.

I think the best way would be in person.

[BrokenDream]

Blah. I get so nervous if I tell the guy in person. So that's a no. Phone is a no. I wouldn't know his phone number. AIM/MSN/Yahoo IM's are a no because I wouldn't know that either. Text is a no because I wouldn't know his number, and I don't text ><;. Friends is a no. It seems.. wrong. So.. probably a note would be the best choice .

[xforgottenlove]

AHH ! never ask someone else to tell. it'll just won't really show that you like him. if it were me, i would gather up all of the courage i have and tell him, hoping i don't faint while i do it XD

[*Intoxiique*]

I never told anyone I liked them before but if I wanted to I would do it in person for sure.

[aubbob]

in person..

[RCcola]

i would only do it in person.

ive done it once, with my other crushes i never told them...

[xostolenkissezox]

i didnt tell my boyfriend i liked him...it just kinda happened....we started hanging out and then one night he kissed me and we've been together since...so yea i didn't have to tell him but if i had to choose i would tell him in person for sure

[Chad_man]

MSN. Real cheese msn message.

[whenshesdancing]

i think words are sometimes my best friend. so preferrably, i would confront them on AIM, in a text message, or in a letter.

[shortiiex]

i think text/note/myspace would be better so you don't have to have that awkward silence..and teh next day you both would be prepared of what to say

[timeflies51]

Hmm...

5 - In person (not always through the exact words, just one way or another).
5 - In some kind of writing/AIM.
1 - Found out through someone else.
8 - Didn't tell them/I don't know if they know or ever found out.

[ima_fake_]

in person er AIM

[*My Cinderella.*]

Online.

[iDecay]

I never told a guy I liked him. Hah. If I did, it'd probably be online. Then I can say it was my friend joking around or something.

[Chii]

The only time I ever admitted I liked someone, I did it in person. It was embarassing and a bit awkward for me but it was an ego boost for him and he thought it was kind of cute.

We got together, things changed, we broke up and I miss him...

[mznikki]

i told them on the phone and another time on aim and another time they just knew.

[redpeony]

Umm yeah I'm so middle school, a mutual friend did it for me.. I told him to do it subtly but I think he did it rather obviously. But it's all good. We've been together for a year now.

[me1issaaaa]

He asked me out on dates over the phone... haha.

When I met my boyfriend, there was obviously some interest going on on both sides, lots of flirting. We started talking more and more and he would call me a lot, even after we had only known each other for about a week and he went on vacation in Florida for spring break he'd call nearly everyday. When he got back, he bought me a gift from Florida, and a few days later he asked me to prom and on dates and stuff. It was really sweet
(Kind of off-topic, but I felt like gushing.)

[Gypsy Eyes]

I usually do it in person once I get the guts to. Most recently though, my friend told them. That wasn't cool.

[-sincerely]

i'm a loser who never told a crush. =x

[espressive]

In person!

Okay, so here is my little cliché story. He asked me to homecoming with this fortune cookie thing & I said yes. After the dance/after-parties, he dropped me off at home. It was probably around midnight? So we got out of the car and said our goodbye's and thank you's, and I turned, starting to walk away. But then I felt this ridiculous urge to take the initiative so I turned and said, "What would you do if I told you that I liked you?" Then he kissed me & it was cute, because it was those 'no need for words' kinda thing and it was under the stars. Yeah, but we've broken up since then, so It made a good cheesy story though!

[xourzestt]

in person cuz if it was anything eles he would belive it.

[datass]

I'll do it on MSN or on the phone.

I think those who tell their friends to tell your crush is kinda stupid. If a friend came up to me and told me this guy likes me I would think he's quite insincere.

[alysaphobia]

i wouldn't do it in person, just because the times guys have come up to me and confessed they liked me (and these were situations were i only had known the guy for like, 2 weeks and was completely not interested) it got so awkward between me having to reject the dude and him almost crying, or getting all sad. :/ i'd save both hearts and do it online or on the phone.

[Trinie]

lol my friends told him! then i told him myself lol

[Serendipity]

Probably on AIM or in person.

[mytangerine]

in person is the best, cuz that way, you can see their reaction.

[LostinaJungle]

I told my friend, and somehow it got back to him.
It wasn't a bad thing, though, I guess, cause we're dating now...

[BabiiJay]

Actually ever since i got into middle skool, the guys always tell me first. Weird huh? Yeah I dont tell them until after I find out if they like me.

[love-issosweet]

for 2 people, i told in person. it was awkward because both were like, "WHOA REALLY?!"

for 2 people, they found out from a friend, even though they weren't supposed to. but we later went out, so it was all good.

[helloxtine]

urg.. gosh i told my friends that i had this huge crush on a guy then one of them told him

[*My Cinderella.*]

Usually online.

[tokyo-rose]

Well, I asked them out before I officially told them I liked them, so that pretty much made it obvious.

[rainie8847]

my first bf was the first person i actually admitted liking and i just told him in person~ wasn't that bad

[synthase]

ahh..that would be scary..for me
i would write secret love notes and slip them into his locker

[hiromi]

my friends end up telling the guy I like. It's been like that for the past few years now. I'll have the confidence to actually tell him one day though, hopefully :|

[c.moore]

This post has been edited by c.moore1982: Nov 28 2006, 09:15 PM

[*a painefull euphoria*]

id do it anyway thats conveient to me

[Joss-eh-lime]

i've never done it because im such a chicken.
i suck at boyfriend/girlfriends things.

there should be an advice forum dedicated to getting a boyfriend.

[multifaceted]

I flirt so much that he knows it without a doubt in his mind.

[devaani]

Note, Text, Aim, Myspace. Or maybe just flirt ALOT and make it superobvious.

[kuhriistal]

i told my friends, & i guess some of them told other people, which led to the other people telling him. but im glad he found out

[rochelley-o]

I always tell whoever it is in person. I think it's more embarrasing if you write it in a note or whatever, because if they end up not liking you, they can use it as blackmail or something.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

I love my keyboard and my pencil. I think if I confessed any sweet
nothings it would likely be on the computer or some form of writing
even if I am capable of doing it face to face.

Jeez, even while I'm in a relationship it's harder admitting
what little things I have to say without writing it down
even though I'm pretty open with that signifigant other.
Old habits die hard? Eh...

Yeah yeah that stuff about face to face being better and
I myself like it a lot better then the tell your
friends to confess for you routine some people do.
(Such a flawed method, I heard a story once that some poor
bugger had his friend ask the girl he was after for him but
instead his so called friend asked her out for himself and
gosh dang there goes the heart of the guy who originally
planned to confess to her. )

[anjelikar]

wow. well we were friends and we got in a hugee fight.
because he would get mad about me
talking with other guys and i was like
come on already ask me out.
so in a text i was like trying to fix it.
so i was like i like you. he was like
i like you too. so i was thinking
come on hurrrry up already.
so that night on the phone he
did it officially <33

[xhidethedetails]

Well my last crush is now my ex boyfriend.
Hmm I was to nervous to tell him to his face so I told him over AIM.

[sapphic]

A note, sitting next to her.

[mytangerine]

elementary: friends or note
junior high: friends or note
highschool: online or in person.

person works the best because you can see their reaction & you can tell if they're a jerk or if they're worth it.

notes are cute though, i must say.. especially if they respond with a note

last person i told i liked them [boyfriend now not counting cuz that's not an interesting story] it was when they were driving me home after we hung out at the mall, [it was just us] & that was after he told me he liked me. it was really bad to do because he had just hooked up with this other girl he barely knew & he knew it was a mistake & everything, but he's still with her & i have my own boyfriend now anyways.. guess we weren't really meant to be?

[SimplicityGirl]

I asked my current boyfriend out in person. =]
The other times...the guys suspected and asked me if I liked them. Too bad they all had girls that they liked at the time.

[mythanh]

i prefer tell them in ims ..too shy outside ^.^

[Jinny]

i tell him in person

[multifaceted]

Even though I tell many people not to do this, I am guilty of using the roundabout way to hint that person.

[PINAYSTER]

to tell a guy that i like him takes a lot of guts and a lot of time
i have to think of a plan and everything.. cuz i want it to be kind of perfect for the moment!
so yeahh.. i do it in person!

[Liana_Way]

Well um I just was hanging out w/him and i said
"I need to tell you something"
and then he asked what and i said
"well you mite just like me as a friend and im kool with that but i really had to tell you that im crushing on you"
and he said he was kool with that but wanted to be my friend
now we are still best friends
who knows you guys can get better answers

[cancholac]

In person, but not often I have to really like them to do that cause its so nerve racking.
sometimes friends

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

i probably done all of those at least once, except in person. LOL

[iDecay]

Err yeah the first time I wanted to call but like.. I forgot what happened and I had to end up telling him on AIM. Second time. Same thing. Today.. Phone. SAME. FREAKING. PERSON. Don't ask how that all happened.

[*stephinika*]

In person. To my latest crush (now boyfriend), I kinda blurted out while intoxicated.

[RAWRstephishere]

I would choose i note, because if your nervous and your talking to them, id screw up and say something stupid.

Electronically is stupid. Having your friends tell them is cheesey.

[megggnasty]

in person is ALWAYS, ALWAYS better.
any other way could potentially make you seem cowardly.
you aren't ready to tell them if you can't say it to their face.

however, if you're already acquainted, phone would be okay.
but not to like, pour your heart out to them.
definitely use the phone to casually ask him/her to a movie or something.
but save the real heart-to-heart stuff for when you're with them.

[priyas]

I would do it in person.

This weird guy who I hate...told me he liked me on AIM. <<I thought that was kind of stupid.
He also asked me out on AIM...

[pedophile]

I'd probably give them a note so they can read it in person, ahahah.

[vampiresugarjunk...]

i flirt.
and i guess if he flirts back it's mutual.

i don't do the whole straight forwardness, it's not really my style
i'm more the type to send mixed signals

but i guess if i had to choose one of those ways it would definately be in person and second would be on the phone so if he does reject you he won't see you hurt.

[deplorable]

in person, is, well....so much more personal...

[cupcakex]

Recently, I've just done it in person.
Back in the day, I'd tell them on aim.. Or have a friend do it.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Text moastly, or i will tell a friend and they tell the whole world and he finds out and SOMETIMES i do it in person.

[loveylovely]

I would always do it in person. It feels better to do it that way rather than myspace, ect..

[RAWRstephishere]

Err.

I wouldnt do anything electronically.. Because thats just stupid.

But Im not that brave to tell him myself. Maybe if we were really good friends and I found the right moment.

Id probably have my friend tell him.

[littleswallow]

A letter, cause I was too scared to tell him! Hahaha! And it took me seven years, too!

[FoxLucky]

In person, seeing their expression is EVERYTHING
***I told my boyfriend(guy that I liked at that time) if he didn't go out with me I'd stick ketchup in my eye

[NgocQuyen]

i've always done it over the phone or in person...
but Thuan told me over the phone...lol:)

[Imlearning]

I would actually just tell them in person.

But I obviously think AIM is easier.

[elaboratedream]

having a friend tell them is so immature... and really most of those options are.

In person and MAYBE over the phone are the only acceptable choices. Otherwise, you're just an immature little pussy.

Needless to say, I'd do it in person... but then again, I dont necessarily tell someone I like them. I flirt with them, end up making out w/ them, then ask them out.

[concreteangel]

The way that I told my boyfriend was through a note that I gave him as he was getting off the bus. The next day he was at my busstop with me and my cousin and we just started talking and hit it off from there.

[smileyworld010]

ahhh i feel like i could never tell my (current) crush that i like him. i guess i'm just soo scared of rejection. the one time i ever did let a crush know was when my friend did it for me. but i think that just made things awkward...

[omgomgKATHY]

I just don't tell them,and they never find out.

I'm wayy too shy

[STEPHY818]

HEHEHE 1ST HE FOUND OUT & THEN MA FRIEND OPEND HER BIG MOUTH

BUT HEHEHE HES ALLLL MINE NOW