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 Jul 14 2006, 04:44 AM
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I was talking to my boyfriend and it slipped out that I don't like his girl bestfriend.
I mean I don't trust her for various reasons and she has a boyfriend,yet she kissed her girl bestfriend. She flirts and she just annoys me. He said he doesn't give a "eff" that I don't like her, but I can tell from what he has been saying that he is..I said to him I shouldn't of said anything and I then said now i'm worried that he'll end up breaking up with me ebcause I don't like his bestfriend and he didn't say anything to that...He seems really angry at me...I was just been honest...what is it better to lie and say yeah I really like her..No i'm guessing it's not. |
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Jul 14 2006, 08:21 AM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
breaking up with you just because you don't like his best friend is stupid...lol
I doubt he'll do it.. 
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Jul 14 2006, 08:25 AM
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 roar. Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 430,978 |
I don't see a problem with you not liking her as long as you don't make things awkward when/if the three of you hangout. It isn't your fault, eh? I'd just say not to trash-talk her around him, (or at all.) and try your best to get along with her when you have to. For his sake.
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Jul 14 2006, 12:15 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(x0xIlmBx0x @ Jul 14 2006, 6:21 AM)  breaking up with you just because you don't like his best friend is stupid...lol I doubt he'll do it.. The people you choose to be around is what makes you - you ;o, if someone doesnt like you're friends, that would make it complicated wouldnt it :] Well all i gotta say is, I'm sure she's been there for him tons of times and they have a pretty close bond being best friends and all. You shouldn't be so jeleous of her, hainvg a girl-best friend may be good for him ;o. He gets a girls point of view other than from you, and i know thats gonna help sooner or later o_O; . When she starts answering his phone and tellinh you that hes busy and shes over constantly and doin his laundry, you will know somethings up :) |
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Jul 14 2006, 02:01 PM
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that is true, to tell the truth, and it was pretty much wrong of your boyfriend to get all angry [but what can u do, its peoples emotions] but anyways, you should really talk to him.. like some one on one time and say sorry if i have offended you but i'm uncomfortable with your bestfriend being HER.... the same thing happen to me [but vice-versa] my bestfriend was my EX and my bf [ex now] got so mad b/c he hates my ex but he trusted me even though so i think that you should trust your bf too
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Jul 14 2006, 03:03 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Hrm, I guess all I can say is, try to focus more on the good qualities of his best girl friend and not so much on the things you don't like about her. I mean, if they're best friends then she must obviously not be so bad, right?
 Try to find a way to make everything work out as to where you can all get along in some way, and not cause for any drama to take place.
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Jul 14 2006, 10:39 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Thats not a real good reason to break up with someone..you should try to work things out.Talk to the girl.
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Jul 16 2006, 03:53 AM
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maybe, she's better than you because her friendship with him is very bonded.
;] beat her ass up ! you can do it. jk. |
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Jul 16 2006, 08:05 AM
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QUOTE(misfit @ Jul 14 2006, 3:44 AM) I was talking to my boyfriend and it slipped out that I don't like his girl bestfriend. I mean I don't trust her for various reasons and she has a boyfriend,yet she kissed her girl bestfriend. She flirts and she just annoys me. He said he doesn't give a "eff" that I don't like her, but I can tell from what he has been saying that he is..I said to him I shouldn't of said anything and I then said now i'm worried that he'll end up breaking up with me ebcause I don't like his bestfriend and he didn't say anything to that...He seems really angry at me...I was just been honest...what is it better to lie and say yeah I really like her..No i'm guessing it's not. Haha. That same thing happened to me! Only he found out I dont like any of his 3 best friends, his sister, or really his parents. His best friend used to be this girl that he used to like A LOT- and then when we started dating she walked up to him and professed her love to him. I was pissed, he didnt understand why. He was always saying how he dosent like her like that anymore and that he was dating me instead of her for a reason. Eventually that sunk in. Now he isnt really friends with her anymore but when they hang out together I am completly fine with it. If your boyfriend breaks up with you because you dont like her- and he dosent even give you a chance to get to know her better- he dosent deserve you and that means he has a thing for her anyways. You shouldnt have to lie to him to make him happy either. |
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Jul 17 2006, 10:33 AM
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well itz not ur fault that u don't like her...lolz..i used to be in the same spot...i didn't like my then-bf's gurl best friend...but i tried not to make things difficult for him anyway...don't think about it too much...just try to at least act "human" around her... as in, at least try to be nice...lolz...it's hard but yea, it's the best friend, what can u do? hahaha
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Jul 17 2006, 12:40 PM
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 M0DED x] Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,292 |
haha d r a m a.
I guess the only thing i can come up with is that his bestfriend, is just being herself. Maybe she's known as a flirt?  But i mean, like everyone said, you can't just dislike a person because of how they act around people you care about. What i'm basically saying is just give the girl a chance to warm up to you, try hanging out and maybe when you become really great friends, she could tell you stuff about your boyfriend thats really surprising and amusing! But thats no reason for your b/f to break up with you (like everyone said haha) talk things out. and just give his bestfriend another shot. 
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Jul 17 2006, 01:18 PM
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no way, if you don't like her then tell the truth
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Jul 17 2006, 10:59 PM
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dont be worried about him breaking up with you just because you said that you didnt like his best girlfriend. to tell you the truth i would be pist off for one reason i would be questioning his "friendship" with that gurl i mean no guy breaks up with his girlfriend just for being honest. if hes still mad because of what you said you better question him about his "friendly realtionship" with that gurl. if he does break up with you because of what you said then he really was not worth it. but if you guys end up together still jus try and be friendly with her and show him that you at least try to be friends with her. GOOD LUCK!
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Jul 18 2006, 11:52 PM
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If he dumps you he isn't worth it and if he ends up with that girl it's his loss. You are honest, which is a good thing. If he dumps you, you are better than him.
Best of luck. |
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