How should I say.. I love you to him?, Should I say it online.. on the phone.. in person? ahh im lost. |
 Jul 11 2006, 05:28 PM
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This guy and I are basically dating, and Im in love with him.
I know it, but i dont really know how to go about telling him.. Im in florida on vacation and i feel like if i dont tell him in going to burst! so, i was seeing if anyone could help me out and kinda give me some pointers on how i should do this.. thanks.. |
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Jul 11 2006, 05:31 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Just make sure you really DO love him, and that you'll start to realize that maybe you don't later on.
I think you should say it in person, it's the most intimate and sincere way. Saying it online..eh. Over the phone, it's okay to say if it's not the first time you're saying it. For the first time that you're going to tell him you love him, do it in person. Plus, you get to see his reaction (which hopefully will be one you like). 
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Jul 11 2006, 06:11 PM
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QUOTE Just make sure you really DO love him, and that you'll start to realize that maybe you don't later on. yeah make sure you do love him and DONT do it on the internet or w/e.. since you guys are far away the most you can do it is ON the phone but i'd suggest to be it in person [so you know he has your full attention on it]... |
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Jul 11 2006, 06:14 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
do you really love him? if you do, i would tell him in person. it seems like the most heartfelt way, and it would mean more if you said it to him in person.
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Jul 11 2006, 06:38 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
Don't say it online - I think the most meaningful way is to tell him in person, but, if not, I guess on the phone would be alright..
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Jul 11 2006, 08:02 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 646 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
i agree with everyone make sure that you do in fact love him because love is a really strong word and its not something you go around saying to every guy.
i suggest that you tell him in person like everybody said its more meaningful and honest. |
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Jul 11 2006, 08:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 890 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,645 |
I think he should be the first to speak up about it, but you can always do something snazzy and cute like staring into his eyes and...well... use your imagination.
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Jul 11 2006, 08:09 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Never say it online, and you should have enough balls to tell the boy you love, that you love him to his face.
Kiss him lightly on the lips, look right into his eyes and say I love you. |
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| *danielle_x3* |
Jul 11 2006, 09:01 PM
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tell him in person
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| *This Confession* |
Jul 11 2006, 11:19 PM
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Tell him in person, its more personal and its really sweet.
Ask yourself, if some guy was really in love with you and had the chance to tell you in person and look you in the eyes and tell you would you want them to do that or do it over the phone or something. |
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Jul 12 2006, 12:22 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Wait to you come back and than tell him..its much more better because he`ll know your serious.
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| *Uronacid* |
Jul 12 2006, 05:05 PM
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Treat other the way you would wish to be treated... How would you want him to say it to you.. do something similar
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Jul 12 2006, 08:22 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
well the first time my boyfriend said it was over the phone. and i still felt the "power" of the words lol...so theres really nothing wrong with that. online is sorta iffy, use it as a last resort. in person can be really nerve wracking though for first time, plus if you dont get the reaction you want atleast you can make up something since the phone tends to get words wrong sometimes...
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| *Shinji_Mimura* |
Jul 14 2006, 01:27 AM
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It's always better in person...
... so you can see them "lol" and walk away. |
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