It's over, need help..please. Options

[pinacoolada]

edit.

Whatever..I'm moving on. At least trying to.

[amivicky]

Well, first of all, do you want to get back with him? If so, you should find out if he wants to get back with you. If he does, maybe wait it out a few days, then slowly try to work your way back into his heart (what I mean is, don't just say "go out with me again, please" or be straightforward). If he doesn't, then I don't believe that it is worth the effort, and you should move on from him.

It's hard to get over someone right away. Trust me, I know. I crushed on the same guy for five years, despite the fact that he only liked me only twice between that time and dated other girls. It really hurt, but eventually, I did get over him. It may feel like the world is going to end and your heart will always be for him right now, but you will move on. It doesn't matter how long it takes - a day, a month, a year, or in my case, five - you can move on whenever you're ready and willing to. There are other guys who will care for you and love you.

I hope this helped, and I hope you're able to figure things out

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

oh im sorry this happend to you!..sometimes guys are greatly influenced on their choices based on what their friends tell them or what their parents tell them. he might have had a conversation with his friends about you and they might have said " dude shes obsessed and blah blah blah!" or with his parents..give him so time to cool off maybe he does need some time to himself and if he likes you he will come back.. GOOD LUCK!

[PrincessAda]

I think you should get over him because it seems like he`s making excuses.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Two words: move on.

[bballchick1]

Aww, that (for lack of a better word) sucks so much.

I think it's up to you whether you want him back or not, but he's acting stupidly and, to be honest, I don't think it would be worth it to try and get him back.

[pinacoolada]

It's so hard to accept though. It's so hard to think that someone who loved me and cared for me just dropped me like that. That he fell-out-of-love in a span of about 3 days. It's so hard to let go. How?

[nucleus]

Two words: move on.

two word: break up

[AngelinaTaylor]

It's so hard to accept though. It's so hard to think that someone who loved me and cared for me just dropped me like that. That he fell-out-of-love in a span of about 3 days. It's so hard to let go. How?

You're how old - 14, 15? There will be way more guys to come. You weren't planning on getting married, right? You'll "love" many more. No worries.

[*This Confession*]

He fell out of love within 3 days, you want the truth?

Its because he was never in love with you, it was that fake love that people fall in to everyday thinking that their in love when their really not. Because people around you use the word so loosly.

I don't know how old you are and all, but I'm guessing 13-14. Your still young, theres plenty of guys out there. It was a learning relationship. You need those to truly understand and figure out what you really want in a guy for when you do get married.

[AngelinaTaylor]

^ Exactly. It was puppy love.

[pinacoolada]

ah..ouch. damnit ..I miss him again. Anyway..I sorta thought that during the relationship. I think he thought he loved me...or maybe he was thinking about it for a while and lied to me..either way, it's over..and it's just not worth it..