ok soo does anyone wear, like a tank top or something over a bikini? |
 Jul 9 2006, 12:30 AM
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well i dont know... im kinda like overweight... nd i dont look very good in a bikini.. but if i wear a tank top over it do you think that it will draw attention to it like that im trying to hide it... i dont know but im going to a pool party tommorrow and i dont know what to do!
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Jul 9 2006, 12:36 AM
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 Why don't you make like a hockey player, and get the puck ou Group: Validating Posts: 167 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,037 |
Im kinda embaressed about my weight to, because im 4'9/4'8 and I am 93pds on a good day and im trying to lose it by running every day, and going to the gym + eating less. But back to the point. You are you no matter what, who cares if your a bit over weight(liek me:P) just don't be afraid to show some skin. And if someone thinks you fat, big woop, what are they gonna do, say your fat to you? Who cares what other people think.
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Jul 9 2006, 01:01 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
Even though people tell me I'm skinny n shit, I don't like my stomach n I feel funny in a bathing suit.
The first day of swimming at school I wore a tanktop. Then I was like fcuk it, I don't care what people think. -- I say, if it will make you feel better, wear it. You want to have fun with your friends and feel comfy. |
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Jul 9 2006, 01:06 AM
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Dont Worry about it i wear a big shirt over mai bikini but den i take it off so it dont matta iph sum1 says sumthin ignor dem
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Jul 9 2006, 01:07 AM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
^ true. whatever makes you feel good, you should wear it.
i'd suggest buying a tankini, which is a bathing suit thats a tank top with underwear like bottoms, or a tank top with shorty-shorts. some colors (i think darker colors) too can make you appear more slender, or some patter, i think ruffles, will help, too. i hope you dont find that offensive, i heard that on a tv show on TLC. 
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Jul 9 2006, 01:09 AM
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QUOTE(cassjamminx @ Jul 9 2006, 1:07 AM)  ^ true. whatever makes you feel good, you should wear it. i'd suggest buying a tankini, which is a bathing suit thats a tank top with underwear like bottoms, or a tank top with shorty-shorts. some colors (i think darker colors) too can make you appear more slender, or some patter, i think ruffles, will help, too. i hope you dont find that offensive, i heard that on a tv show on TLC. i lyke those i got a bunch of dem in mai closet lol i luv em i rather wear those dem regular bikinis besides its more comfortable n easy to move in
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Jul 9 2006, 01:38 AM
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ROFL This is what the overweight girls do? Not to be insensitive, but honestly just show some skin. That way later you might get motivation to hit the gym.
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Jul 9 2006, 01:45 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I know a lot of people who think they don`t look good in bikini`s and they wear like a big tee or tank top over it..it doesn`t draw attention..
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Jul 9 2006, 05:02 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
wear what makes you feel comfortable. when ever i wore a tank over my bikini top nobody ever said anything. plus they wont be concentrated on you 24-7 and i think the last think on their mind is, "omg why is she wearing a tank?!" just have fun. if you dont make a big deal, nobody else will
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Jul 9 2006, 05:47 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
Try a tankini, the bathing suit that looks like a tank top, it's just a normal 2 piece but the top covers your stomach - and it won't draw attention, you'll look like anyone else wearing a bathing suit. If you care too much, people will notice.
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Jul 9 2006, 07:49 PM
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 supa freakayy Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,986 |
tankinis are nice. its 2 piece, but the top is longer. =)
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Jul 9 2006, 10:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,893 |
QUOTE(cassjamminx @ Jul 9 2006, 2:07 AM) ^ true. whatever makes you feel good, you should wear it. i'd suggest buying a tankini, which is a bathing suit thats a tank top with underwear like bottoms, or a tank top with shorty-shorts. some colors (i think darker colors) too can make you appear more slender, or some patter, i think ruffles, will help, too. i hope you dont find that offensive, i heard that on a tv show on TLC. First off, i agree with just wearing what you feel comfortable in and don't care what other people think. But of course i know that's easier said than done. I like to wear tankinis because it hides my stomach more than a bikini and i feel comfortable in it, like i'm wearing a tank top or halter top or something, maybe you could try that too. |
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Jul 10 2006, 01:38 AM
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wow everybody seems alot insecure about something; well for me, i have scars on my back [no not like cuts] like bacne scars [yeah i know thats ew lol] but my insecurity is just people seeing it... i wear a white beater over my top, i could careless about how my legs are [i'm pretty fit for my 'body' or h/e u put it] just the back is what gets me scared
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Jul 10 2006, 12:23 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 9 2006, 1:36 AM) Im kinda embaressed about my weight to, because im 4'9/4'8 and I am 93pds on a good day and im trying to lose it by running every day, and going to the gym + eating less. But back to the point. You are you no matter what, who cares if your a bit over weight(liek me:P) just don't be afraid to show some skin. And if someone thinks you fat, big woop, what are they gonna do, say your fat to you? Who cares what other people think. You're 93 pounds and you're "overweight"? .................... |
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Jul 10 2006, 02:35 PM
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QUOTE(pinayprincess @ Jul 10 2006, 1:38 AM) wow everybody seems alot insecure about something; well for me, i have scars on my back [no not like cuts] like bacne scars [yeah i know thats ew lol] but my insecurity is just people seeing it... i wear a white beater over my top, i could careless about how my legs are [i'm pretty fit for my 'body' or h/e u put it] just the back is what gets me scared whoo for people with back scars. except mine are cuts..  i have two identical and symmetrical scars down my back, and i dont' wear anything over a bikini. get to the gym - you'll feel more comfortable with your body if you work on it. |
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Jul 10 2006, 02:39 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(liquidize @ Jul 8 2006, 11:38 PM) ROFL This is what the overweight girls do? Not to be insensitive, but honestly just show some skin. That way later you might get motivation to hit the gym. You're an a-hole. Go play with matches and run with scissors or something. Just wear a white t-shirt over your bathing suit, so people can still see the cute bathing suit but not the tummy. |
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Jul 10 2006, 02:46 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,799 |
thanks
and im not like morbidly obese or anything... i just carry a bit of extra weight... and i have been watching what i eat and i do work out |
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Jul 10 2006, 03:29 PM
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Yes. Like all the others, do wear what feels comfortable. And you can also wear a tankini. Just make sure you aren't all by yourself. Other's would look at you and ask themselves why you're alone which will bring attention to you and the attention will look over to your weight. [No Offense] So dress how you want to, stick with friends, and just have fun!
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Jul 10 2006, 03:30 PM
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 I have $20 yo. Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 424,562 |
You think you are overweight? You are 4'9 and you are 93 pounds. I am 4'11 and i am 110 pounds! I wear a tankini, and it made me feel a whole lot more secure. At first i would refuse to go to the pool, and to pool parties, because I hated my body, but then my friends got all pissed at me and bought me a tankini. i was like, wtf? but then i realized that they werent making fun of me, they were helping me... so go buy a tankini! Lol!
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Jul 12 2006, 12:05 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
And aside from takinis, there are always one-piece swimming suits. I like those... :] Unless you're really tall... that never works out.
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