Should a girl keep dating her man even tho he's in a gang??, well should she?? |
 Jul 7 2006, 12:05 AM
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well i think its alright....but iono im not so sure becaue im going out wit sum1 in...well that isnt important n well im not to sure whether or not to stay with him or dump him....
 but can u all giv meh advice....plz!!  iono wat to do..... n iph u were in mai position would u stay with him or not?
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Jul 7 2006, 12:10 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Why not? If he's a good guy, then sure. Isn't that all you care about? So what if he's in a gang? As long as you don't have get involved, you shouldn't have anything to worry about. Just watch out for him, and make sure he doesn't get into too much trouble.
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Jul 7 2006, 12:11 AM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
i don't think there is anything wrong with it. as long as you're okay with it, then it should be fine, and as long as you're not in any trouble or danger with being with him, which i don't think there would/should be.
just make sure that you're comfortable with it. if you're contemplating though, just think things through because having doubts isn't a good thing.  hope that helps 
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Jul 7 2006, 12:14 AM
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 fifteen...there's still time for you... Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,028 |
i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang...
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Jul 7 2006, 12:18 AM
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QUOTE(skinnyminnie @ Jul 7 2006, 12:14 AM)  i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang... u got a point but...he isnt really lyke dat...i mean sure he's in one of da badest gangs i knoe n all but he doesnt put me in his busniss... |
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Jul 7 2006, 12:37 AM
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My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(skinnyminnie @ Jul 7 2006, 12:14 AM) i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang... What makes you think that because he's in a gang he'll bring harm to his own girlfriend? |
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Jul 7 2006, 03:45 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
my bfs in a gang but he doesnt drag me into the stuff they do. as long as you know that the gang life is far from family...when you get the sh*t beat out of you to go into or out of the group, thats not family. if your ready to handle the responsibility and deal with the not so glamorous life style he brings then go ahead. but just dont get caught up in it, its not a vey nice life to live....
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Jul 7 2006, 04:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 521 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,557 |
as long as u feel safe with him & he's a good guy be with him.
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Jul 7 2006, 08:28 PM
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welll....its up to you if you wanna be with him i mean gang members are not exactly "saints" they dont go out and do great things for the world..but if you can handle his life style and the things he has to do to be in his gang and if he is nice to you and does not indanger you then go for it! =)
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Jul 7 2006, 08:49 PM
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 your signal fades away, and all I'm left with is noise. Group: Member Posts: 2,099 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,110 |
I dunno..I think it depends on the gang and how much they care about eachother.
I think that'd be kinda scary & stressful though, especially if the gang was dangerous or something. |
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Jul 7 2006, 10:57 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
^^ i agree..it depends how much you guys love eachother and what kind of gang too..if its really really really dangerous..its probably not worth it..
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Jul 7 2006, 11:10 PM
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 Kimberly Group: Member Posts: 1,961 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,599 |
Oh dang. I dont want to tell you what to do or anything, but I'd back off... fast. Personally, I wouldnt want to have anything to do with a guy if he was in a gang.
But then again, it depends on how long you've been with him, how he treats you, and how much he means to you. |
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Jul 7 2006, 11:58 PM
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I'm going to assume he's not that safe but you know, who knows? He could be just a sweet guy trying to find acceptance.
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Jul 8 2006, 01:02 PM
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 我爱台妹,台妹爱我 Group: Member Posts: 877 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,340 |
no cause he's probably a druggie, probably has violent tendancies, probably will get in trouble with the law, and probably doesnt have enough common sense to love u over his cheap thrills of being in a gang. most likely, he'll be bragging that ur his bitch when ur not around.
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Jul 8 2006, 01:52 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
i wouldn't. depends how dangerous the gang is.
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Jul 8 2006, 04:37 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(skinnyminnie @ Jul 6 2006, 10:14 PM) i don't think it's very safe, because you never know what he might do if you guys get into the relationship, and then he wants more, but you won't give it to him. it sounds very dangerous...so i guess, if it was me, i wouldn't start this thing with the guy in the gang... what does 'wanting more' have to do with being in gang. I've gone out with gang members before, sadly, only 3 boys i have gone out with did not claim or were not in a mob. Some of them were assholes, some of them were some of the sweetest boys i've ever been with. It depends on the boy you roll with, not the gang hes in. Sure he might get in trouble, and you have more to worry about at times, but if he treats you good then thats what matters |
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Jul 8 2006, 08:29 PM
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sure if hes cool
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Jul 8 2006, 11:08 PM
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QUOTE(BabypeachesLR @ Jul 7 2006, 1:05 AM) well i think its alright....but iono im not so sure becaue im going out wit sum1 in...well that isnt important n well im not to sure whether or not to stay with him or dump him.... but can u all giv meh advice....plz!! iono wat to do..... n iph u were in mai position would u stay with him or not?Honestly only you know the answer to this because every girl would treat this differently depending on their views on dating guys in gangs. Personally I wouldnt, but that's me. Generally though think of it this way, it -could- work considering you do hear about women marrying to the mafia or in your case dating so I dont see how a guy in a gang is any different. However, if you feel like your life is in danger because of this, you need to make a decision based on how much you care about this guy. Also put into consideration if it doesnt work out in the end, is he the type to go after or send people after you? |
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Jul 9 2006, 04:46 PM
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I hink if you care about him it doesn't matter. If that isn't something you want to be a part of don't hang out with him if they are around. If you don't see a problem, I wouldn't worry about it.
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Jul 9 2006, 05:06 PM
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but what iff the guy was a drug dealer instead? hmmm?
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Jul 9 2006, 08:55 PM
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I don't see anything wrong in it, unless you don't feel safe about it or something.
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Jul 10 2006, 12:21 AM
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 CB's Forum Troll Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,142 |
bloodz or crips? huh
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Jul 10 2006, 01:39 AM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jul 9 2006, 11:32 PM) Free drugs? Lol. no he isnt a drug dealer QUOTE(magicfann @ Jul 10 2006, 12:21 AM) bloodz or crips? huh does it matta??? n dere r more gangs out dere den just bloodz or cripz |
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Jul 10 2006, 01:46 AM
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its very dangerous
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Jul 10 2006, 01:55 AM
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 GANGSTA-FIED Group: Member Posts: 464 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,643 |
Funny u have this topic up. I like someone in a gang.
 its ok though. i think its fine to date a gang member |
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Jul 11 2006, 12:04 AM
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QUOTE(blucheri @ Jul 10 2006, 1:55 AM) Funny u have this topic up. I like someone in a gang. its ok though. i think its fine to date a gang member realii wat is he in????¿¿¿¿ |
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Jul 12 2006, 06:37 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
sure. except it's risky.
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Jul 13 2006, 09:10 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
There shouldn't be anything wrong with dating someone from a gang. As long as you don't get involved, then i dont see the problem on whether or not you should date him. Just make sure he doesn't get caught up in too much trouble.
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Jul 15 2006, 11:00 AM
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u knoe what hunni u have to do what ur heart wants u too
 
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Jul 15 2006, 11:37 AM
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.a different look on EVERYTHING. Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,107 |
Well if he treats you right I guess it's ok.
I wouldn't date anyone part of gang though. That's a little too risky for me. |
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Jul 16 2006, 02:01 AM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
heh , its funny how some girls around here say its ok to have a bf in a gang , and by the time hes busy with business
 , there girls lash out back at them explainin that you havent had enough time with me  . and more then your bf caring about yourself , isnt more important to care about your bf`s well being ?? you only expect thats what given to you ,but you dont give dime to care and the love back at him ???? i guess some girls are tough....but that toughness will fade "tsk, you know w/e if hes in a gang" . i`ll say wow . i`ve heard enough stories gone though my days  and i say even though he cares about you its not worth it . its better to have not have him at all then risk hurting your own feelings (yourself) because you acknowledge what hes doing . 
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Jul 16 2006, 02:43 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
let me put it this way:
in large cities, the prostitutes refuse to serve gang members. |
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Jul 16 2006, 08:11 AM
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QUOTE(BabypeachesLR @ Jul 6 2006, 11:05 PM) well i think its alright....but iono im not so sure becaue im going out wit sum1 in...well that isnt important n well im not to sure whether or not to stay with him or dump him.... but can u all giv meh advice....plz!! iono wat to do..... n iph u were in mai position would u stay with him or not?...if he ever does get in trouble and he has told him gang "buddies" about you, then something bad could happen to you. Its a huge risk to get involved with a gang like that- police could question you about something and accuse you of doig things even though you havent. Just becuase you are dating one of them. You should talk about your concerns to him first and foremost. |
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Jul 16 2006, 11:50 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Well I personally wouldn't.. I find the whole "gang" thing pretty retarded.
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Jul 16 2006, 12:03 PM
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 fizzy and fun Group: Member Posts: 405 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,469 |
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 16 2006, 11:50 AM) Well I personally wouldn't.. I find the whole "gang" thing pretty retarded. agreed. i know a girl who was "in love" with a gang member. and then he got shot. he was 15. |
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Jul 17 2006, 05:55 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 423,058 |
well go ahead but what id do is try and convince him to quit if the gang life really matters to u and if he loves u then hell hopefully listen to u and put some effort into it...thats all i gotta say...
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