Don't Laugh at this question, What do you consider a virgin? |
 Jul 7 2006, 12:03 AM
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Okay, this question might sound stupid, but I just am wondering...Well, some people think that if you have had oral sex you are no longer a virgin, and others say that you must have intercourse to lose your virginity. I think it only counts if you go all the way, but what do you think?
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Jul 7 2006, 12:05 AM
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 i'll spend forever loving you. Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 |
i don't think it's a dumb question, a lot of people think about that differently. but i do agree with you. as far as doctors go, i know they believe that if you engage in any oral sex then you're no longer a virgin.
but i believe that yes, if there is intercourse, then you're no longer a virgin. |
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Jul 7 2006, 12:11 AM
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 fifteen...there's still time for you... Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,028 |
oral is just 3rd base. all the way is considered...you know when a guy actually puts that INSIDE. if you haven't done that...then you're still a virgin
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Jul 7 2006, 08:54 AM
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When there is sexual intercourse, you are no longer a virgin.
I think it's a tricky subject though. Like, there should be different types of virgins or something, for oral sex, etc. But, yeah, for now, virgin = no sexual intercourse..to me. |
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Jul 7 2006, 10:39 AM
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Personally, I believe that you cannot genuinely include yourself in the ''non-virgin'' spectrum until you have actually had intercourse. By this, I mean, technically speaking. I am certain that most of you know what that means exactly, but for those of you who do not know [if you are one of these people.... then you really should not be having intercourse!] this is when the penis is inserted into the vaginal area.
Oral sex is not sex, in my opinion. Oral sex is more so a sexual experience in my eyes. I have a question. This is completely legit, and I am curious, so please no one laugh.... If say, a lesbian were to have sex, how would they know that they are no longer a virgin in the technical sense? Manually falls under a form of oral sex, and that does not count. So, yeah.... interesting, no? o.0. |
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Jul 7 2006, 04:46 PM
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I consider any sexual contact as sex...point blank period...
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Jul 7 2006, 04:48 PM
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QUOTE(Torey @ Jul 7 2006, 11:39 AM)  Personally, I believe that you cannot genuinely include yourself in the ''non-virgin'' spectrum until you have actually had intercourse. By this, I mean, technically speaking. I am certain that most of you know what that means exactly, but for those of you who do not know [if you are one of these people.... then you really should not be having intercourse!] this is when the penis is inserted into the vaginal area. Oral sex is not sex, in my opinion. Oral sex is more so a sexual experience in my eyes. I have a question. This is completely legit, and I am curious, so please no one laugh.... If say, a lesbian were to have sex, how would they know that they are no longer a virgin in the technical sense? Manually falls under a form of oral sex, and that does not count. So, yeah.... interesting, no? o.0. About the lesbian thing, I've been wondering that. I really don't know about that one, confusing topic i guess. |
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Jul 7 2006, 06:00 PM
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Despite the things that people may do that are considered as being sexually active, I won't really consider that as losing your virginity. But if it involves intercourse, then that's what I consider as one not being a virgin anymore.
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Jul 7 2006, 07:28 PM
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The butt doesn't count.
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Jul 7 2006, 07:36 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
if the penis goes in the vagina, you lose your virginity
well, thats my my opinion at least |
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Jul 7 2006, 10:50 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
^^yeah thats what I think..when you go all the way.
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Jul 8 2006, 09:36 PM
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I think you're right about that. You can only go as far as oral, you're still a virgin. You are no longer a virgin when you have sex [I'm not sure what my opinion on anal is though..] And I hope there aren't still people out there who think you can lose your virginity to a tampon, that's a bunch of crap.. lol.
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Jul 8 2006, 09:46 PM
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 yawn :) Group: Official Member Posts: 2,926 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,041 |
QUOTE(bballchick1 @ Jul 7 2006, 9:54 AM) When there is sexual intercourse, you are no longer a virgin. I think it's a tricky subject though. Like, there should be different types of virgins or something, for oral sex, etc. But, yeah, for now, virgin = no sexual intercourse..to me. yeah..same here |
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Jul 9 2006, 12:07 AM
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if you're lesbian and your vagina touches another vagina?
QUOTE if the penis goes in the vagina, you lose your virginity i agree |
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Jul 9 2006, 12:10 AM
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I think once you've had had all the way sex you not a virgin no more.
However, I do consider some people like " Half virgins " or "No completely virgins" like when they've gottent o second or third base. That's just me though. Just to explain that they have been quite physical. |
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Jul 9 2006, 12:39 AM
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 Why don't you make like a hockey player, and get the puck ou Group: Validating Posts: 167 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,037 |
Who just has oral and not go all the way??? Well w/e, I think only if you go "all the way" then your not a virgin anymore.
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Jul 10 2006, 12:39 PM
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QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 9 2006, 1:39 AM) Who just has oral and not go all the way??? Well w/e, I think only if you go "all the way" then your not a virgin anymore. Man, LOTS of people just have oral and not go all the way. You can just fool around with someone and still be a virgin. The first time you are vaginally penetrated is the first time you lose your virginity. In the butt is a different kind of virginity (anal virginity), and oral sex is a matter of preference. Oral sex is still SEX, but it's not intercourse, and it's not something you can lose your virginity over. The hymen is a totally different matter. You can't "lose your virginity" to a tampon, but sure, your hymen could tear. Mine broke the first time I was fingered (I know for sure cause it hurt like a beeyotch!) And as always, there are exceptions to these rules. You can consider yourself a virgin again, even if physically you're not. Like if you were celibate for a long time and then got a new sexual partner, or something to that effect. |
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Jul 10 2006, 12:54 PM
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QUOTE(helllla jankyyyy @ Jul 9 2006, 1:10 AM) I think once you've had had all the way sex you not a virgin no more. However, I do consider some people like " Half virgins " or "Not completely virgins" like when they've gottent o second or third base. That's just me though. Just to explain that they have been quite physical. I agree with that. Once you had a penis in you. Thats when you can say you had full on sex.  QUOTE(thriftstoresecrets @ Jul 10 2006, 1:39 PM) Man, LOTS of people just have oral and not go all the way. You can just fool around with someone and still be a virgin. In the butt is a different kind of virginity (anal virginity) I agree with that first part. Lots of people just give head and finger each other for there fun. I Never knew that about the second part. O_o |
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Jul 11 2006, 11:59 AM
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i think it's ridiculous when people say that you're not a virgin after you've had oral sex.
definition of sexual intercourse: heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis. |
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Jul 11 2006, 01:21 PM
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QUOTE(Torey @ Jul 7 2006, 12:39 PM) Oral sex is not sex, in my opinion. Oral sex is more so a sexual experience in my eyes. Not trying to be rude, but that doesn't make any sense. Oral sex is not sex?? In my opinion Oral sex is sex! |
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Jul 11 2006, 01:47 PM
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if your hymen was broken by someone's penis then you're no longer a virgin. As for guys.. their penis has to go break a hymen.
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Jul 11 2006, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(Sparkle09 @ Jul 11 2006, 2:21 PM) Not trying to be rude, but that doesn't make any sense. Oral sex is not sex?? In my opinion Oral sex is sex! I was referring to ''oral sex'', as that is what most people know it by. Personally, I believe that ''oral sex'' is a form of sex, yes. However, I do not believe that one's virginity is genuinely gone unless the vaginal area is in fact penetrated. There are more than one way one could consider virginity. You have the physical aspect [penetration] and you have the emotional/mental state of this. Say you were penetrated, but you did not feel in your mind and in your heart that your virginity was taken from you. I would say in the physical aspect, you are no longer a virgin. However, emotionally, you still are. Virginity can only be given away. Not in half form. There are no in-betweens. It's everything. In the physical aspect, getting back to the lesbian thing, say if someone were to fool around manually.... would that count? Can a girl's finger even break the hymen? 
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Jul 11 2006, 02:03 PM
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QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 11 2006, 2:47 PM) if your hymen was broken by someone's penis then you're no longer a virgin. As for guys.. their penis has to go break a hymen. my hymen was not broken during sex, but that doesn't mean im still a virgin... |
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Jul 11 2006, 03:00 PM
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vaginal sex.
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Jul 11 2006, 06:01 PM
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.a different look on EVERYTHING. Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,107 |
I think when you have had sexual-intercourse you are no longer a virgin.
But that just me. |
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Jul 12 2006, 12:44 AM
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if the penis has entered into the vagina - you are no longer a virgin END OF STORY...
other prefeer that if the dude has popped your cherry/ reach climax etc etc THATS when your a virgin; YOU CHOOSE QUOTE(Freaky Krazer @ Jul 11 2006, 2:47 PM) if your hymen was broken by someone's penis then you're no longer a virgin. As for guys.. their penis has to go break a hymen. ^^ thats not neccesarily true [h/e u spell the word]; girl can get finger popped and their hymen would be broken... but that doesnt mean they're not a virgin.. it also can be broken by riding a bike... and some girls just dont have it broken when they do have sex... |
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Jul 12 2006, 01:10 AM
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I've always considered losing your virginity when you went all the way.
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Jul 12 2006, 01:49 AM
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I've never questioned about this before.. but without doubt I'd have to say you lose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse..witch excludes oral sex.
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Jul 12 2006, 09:05 AM
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What the hell is a hymen? I know I mentioned it in my previous post, but that is only because I picked up on everyone here mentioning it. I am guessing all girls have one.
 . .... Yeah, please no ''Well, you have one. You should know!'' jokes. Ktxhly. I am a ''n00b'' when it comes to the whole anatomy of a woman thing. Save for the basics.... breasts, vagina, etc.  .
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Jul 13 2006, 04:00 AM
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It's kind of like the first kiss thing- some people think dares don't count and some people do. It's all a matter of opinion and they way you define sex. If your definition of sex is "the penis goes into the vagaina" then going all the way is loosing your virginity. If you think that oral sex is still sex then going to third base or whatever it is is sex. I personally think that a sexual intercourse is when you do something that could get the woman pregnant. With gay/lez couples I think the closest you can get is what counts.
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Jul 13 2006, 11:30 PM
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QUOTE(Torey @ Jul 12 2006, 9:05 AM) What the hell is a hymen? I know I mentioned it in my previous post, but that is only because I picked up on everyone here mentioning it. I am guessing all girls have one. . .... Yeah, please no ''Well, you have one. You should know!'' jokes. Ktxhly. I am a ''n00b'' when it comes to the whole anatomy of a woman thing. Save for the basics.... breasts, vagina, etc. .yeah me too... |
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