ex's?, what to do =\\ |
 Jul 1 2006, 06:16 AM
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well its been about a month since we broke up and idk if he`s moved on or not but i certainly haven't. the whole reason we broke up was cause apparently i talked to this guy too much. but the thing is that he`s always around my friends and he treated them better than he did me. plus they know so much more about him then i do.
right now, i dont really wanna move on, but it seems im already halfway there. sometimes it seems like i got over him, but then remember somethiing sweet he said to me then BOOM. it all crashes down. what i really wanna do is get back with him, im well aware that its never going to be the same, but at least now i know what i did wrong and maybe it can be fixed? after our breakup, i found out some of my bestest friends that were kinda close to him haven't really been telling me the truth, and i guess we argued since she always ditched me for him and things just seem so different. it's like his impact on my life was my "life support", he goes away, my friends ditch me and ive got no one left. i really just want to at least get things cleared up, how i never liked that guy that i was talking to so much, i mean, he was my friend for like four years, and i just met my ex this year. i know theres not much i can do about it, but i really just want things better, since now we cant even talk that much, but i guess thats just cause i`m super duper shy =\. any suggestions please? cause i`m kinda dying here... ><" |
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Jul 1 2006, 11:26 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Forget about the the whole thing. It's in the past. If he can't trust you, then that's where the problem is. There are plenty of other guys out there. No worries.
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Jul 1 2006, 02:13 PM
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 Miss Kayleigh Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 401,740 |
Your just feeling bad because you miss having someone, not necessarily him. If you don't know more about him then his friends then it only goes to prove my statement. Guys who can't trust = guys you don't want to date.
I agree with Angelina Taylor, there are more fishies in this sea we call Earth, so no worries. You'll find the boy for you and he'll make you feel wonnnderful. Just be patient, ok? Don't go back to someone just because it's easy. |
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Jul 1 2006, 02:16 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
if he treats you worse than he treats everyone else... you should definitely move on. his childish antics prove that he isn't the best boyfriend material. if he can't respect you both in and out of a relationship, he isn't such a good person.
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Jul 1 2006, 02:37 PM
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 another victim of love Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 |
I agree with Angelina. Just forget about him. The best way for me to get over a guy is to become friends with him.
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Jul 1 2006, 08:30 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I think this belongs in relationships more.
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Jul 2 2006, 11:45 PM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
hmm... well as much as you hate to hear this... you're gonna have to move on.
it's the only thing to do... a similar thing happened to me (only he wasn't my boyfriend... i liked him and then later he started hating me)... the more i dragged it on the more he got pissed at me and the less chance i had of being his friends... i think i'm almost over him now... and i never thought i could be... so i think you can do it, too. |
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Jul 3 2006, 01:00 AM
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 f.a.g. Group: Member Posts: 137 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,847 |
Been there, done that.
1. It is so hard to forget about the past, even when you are trying to, but dwelling in the past makes it so hard. And I know you might think that there is no one out there, but trust me, i'm taking it that you are young, so there's hope. 2. He doesn't seem like he is "Ready" either and you might not be. 3. Those friends of yours seem a little envious and unreliable. You should check that out. 4. If he treated his friends better than you then wtf, that is wrong. 5. If they know more about him than you know, that is such an error right then and there. Girlfriend, I say you just let it be, this sounds like a fiasco. You asked for suggestions, you said that you are dying, but girl, the only way to get over that when you feel like you're dying is to live through it. It is rarely easy to get over someone you love or think you love. Let me tell you, sometimes, it feels so good to endure and sulk and reminisce, but you're gonna have to let go. |
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Jul 26 2006, 05:55 PM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
jus 4get bout everything leave it in the past bsides ur already halfway there
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Jul 26 2006, 05:58 PM
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 yawn :) Group: Official Member Posts: 2,926 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,041 |
yeah.forget abou i and move on with you life
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Jul 26 2006, 06:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Human Posts: 2,817 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 381,065 |
forget. theres more people you can talk to in the ocean! lol???
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Jul 26 2006, 06:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
what an a-hole
 [your friend i mean] but the same thing happened w/ me : QUOTE he`s always around my friends and he treated them better than he did me i suggest you move on... thing WILL be different [& you know that] .. just think about the after math of you & him if you were together... i didnt get over my ex for like 2 months? and i had soo many oppurtunities w/ other boys but let them down b/c i was stuck on my ex. im sure its the same with you so just think about MOVING ON & getting w/ another person |
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Jul 26 2006, 10:16 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if he doesn't treat you well then you should definately move on and forget about him. and those friends that ditch you for him, shouldn't even be your friends in the first place
:hugs: |
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| *Kathleen* |
Jul 26 2006, 10:24 PM
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Break his knees.
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| *baby_in_blue* |
Jul 26 2006, 10:57 PM
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^lol. kick him in the shin.
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